We have been dating for three years, yet I don't know his house

I am 33, and dating a man of 37 since 2007. His house is not accessible to me and I go there on demand, probably once in three months. I don't know any member of his family except his brother. My parents and pastors wanted to meet him but he never showed up. Anytime I complain, he gets angry. He is always on official duty at the airport.




Mary, Lagos.

It's obvious he does not want you but you are forcing yourself on him. At 37, he refuses you access to his house and never honored your parents/pastor invitation? Why should you go to his house on demand? My dear, you are not a baby and should know when a man wants you or not. You could stay in this relationship for many years without getting a proposal and he could come one day to show you his wife. Be wise and act fast!