FB User Shares How Man Begs His Babymama Who Get Opportunity To Travel Abroad After He Abandons Her

at 01:52 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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According to the story shared on Facebook, a man who refused to do court and white wedding with his baby mama is now begging to wed her in court after she got an opportunity to relocate abroad with her family. The story is quite interesting. Read below and tell us what you will do

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“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason. My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions. He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock. My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me. My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are
married. Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court. He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also. His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

EDDYPRINCE at 02:01 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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U better do the needful by doing the court tin and move with him,  coz u nor go see husband for Texas oh,,,,  before u  to regret. And with him over there with u, u can now be in charge coz the law in America favours women more. So u have nothing to loose coz he can't even misbehave over there.
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fineboy77 at 02:36 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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not my business
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gogoman at 03:13 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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na una sabi
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ruthie at 03:16 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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DEAL WITH THE IDIOT...HE IS AN OPPORTUNIST ...NOW ITS HIS TURN TO CRY....
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slimber at 03:48 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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He should follow leave him Nigeria to suffer like 20years then you can forgive him radarada
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tonyigho at 04:28 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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Don't  go to court with him and always remember his family what they said to you .
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Afriqueenn at 04:46 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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Don't wed him in court. Tell him the traditional marriage is enough. Move to Texas, leave him behind in Nigeria and if you want more kids, come home for him to impregnate you. He has his reasons for not wedding you in court at that time. It's deep and you may regret it if you do it now.
My instinct tells me he may be leading a double life and you'll definitely lose in the end.
He'll just use you to get to the US, pretend for some years and divorce your naïve ass
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nature7888 at 05:06 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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Una go settle
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blowout at 05:12 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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As long as he did traditional wedding then he is your lawful husband. Traditional wedding has more value than white wedding which is just a western import. The American legal system also fully recognises common law marriage so he doesn't need to do any court or white wedding to travel with you as your husband. You have three kids with him so there must be some love in the relationship, there's no point being so bitter. But if there's no more love between both of you because you are now more financially stable than he is or whatever the reason may be,  then the best thing is to divorce him traditionally and move on with your life.
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SOGaiya at 10:33 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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 I like the word divorce him traditionally n go if ur instincts tells u is the best option
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abrahamejiro at 11:25 PM, 30/04/2018 (3 weeks ago)
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Quote from: blowout on 05:12 PM, 30/04/2018
As long as he did traditional wedding then he is your lawful husband. Traditional wedding has more value than white wedding which is just a western import. The American legal system also fully recognises common law marriage so he doesn't need to do any court or white wedding to travel with you as your husband. You have three kids with him so there must be some love in the relationship, there's no point being so bitter. But if there's no more love between both of you because you are now more financially stable than he is or whatever the reason may be,  then the best thing is to divorce him traditionally and move on with your life.


Yea i think under common law traditional wedding is recognised
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