In Nigeria there are so many broken Marriages all because there is no much love existing between husbands and wife.They often live in great fear especially the wives because they are afraid of been beaten or tortured by their husbands.All this happen because of insufficient Love. So How can Love Be Increased between Husbands and Wives?
Posted: at 24-04-2010 04:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
tostevsn2002 at 24-04-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) (m)
When the demand of wife increase ..the love also increase. But when the demand is decrease...the love also decrease.
Posted: at 24-04-2010 04:37 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
tostevsn2002 at 24-04-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Lemme stop playing the love will increase if the hubby stop beaten up his wife..and if anything goes wrong in the house the both should up the blame of them..the love will also increase if the both invite God in their marriage...and do things together.
Posted: at 24-04-2010 04:41 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
moneyinbrakemi at 24-04-2010 08:55 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: tostevsn2002 on 24-04-2010 04:41 PM
Lemme stop playing the love will increase if the hubby stop beaten up his wife..and if anything goes wrong in the house the both should up the blame of them..the love will also increase if the both invite God in their marriage...and do things together.
Good One Bro! Noted!!!
Posted: at 24-04-2010 08:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 25-04-2010 02:40 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 24-04-2010 04:13 PM
In Nigeria there are so many broken Marriages all because there is no much love existing between husbands and wife.They often live in great fear especially the wives because they are afraid of been beaten or tortured by their husbands.All this happen because of insufficient Love. So How can Love Be Increased between Husbands and Wives?
Men need to stop thinking because they are the head of the family,they can just be doing what they want...most hubbys don't respect their wive.They will just be talking trash to her thinking she can do anything....so I said in other for the marriage to last long,they both have to respect each other,always have each other back,the man should sometime assist his wife in the kitchen,or if the wife is not back home to wherever she went the man should cooked and not be waiting for the wife to come back and do the cooking.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 25-04-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
the question is....whom did u married to? wot really made u to finally tell urself this is the man/woman? wot is dat thing dat caught ur attention in him/her?....was it money, the looks, popularity?.....to many questions!
was there mutual respect, understanding, good communication...these always makes d difference in every relationship.....if out of greed u choose quantity nd vanity over substance nd quality, then wot u get is wot u really deserve.
Posted: at 25-04-2010 05:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 25-04-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: myragonza on 25-04-2010 02:40 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 24-04-2010 04:13 PM
In Nigeria there are so many broken Marriages all because there is no much love existing between husbands and wife.They often live in great fear especially the wives because they are afraid of been beaten or tortured by their husbands.All this happen because of insufficient Love. So How can Love Be Increased between Husbands and Wives?
men should stop their village thinking....
Is that an Insult or what?
Posted: at 25-04-2010 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 25-04-2010 05:15 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: mazi on 25-04-2010 05:07 PM
the question is....whom did u married to? wot really made u to finally tell urself this is the man/woman? wot is dat thing dat caught ur attention in him/her?....was it money, the looks, popularity?.....to many questions!
was there mutual respect, understanding, good communication...these always makes d difference in every relationship.....if out of greed u choose quantity nd vanity over substance nd quality, then wot u get is wot u really deserve.
I don hear! It is a simple question that needs a simple answer? So stop the sermon
Posted: at 25-04-2010 05:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
The problem is mostly caused by some married women..I mean what caused a married couple to break up.supposely the woman of the house do what she suppose to do,the man will not let her go or go out there and start following another woman.some women don't cook for their hubby,make the bed she and her hubby to sleep,don't wash her hubby clothes or under wears(boxer),don't show concerns about their man,don't ask if he has eaten,don't him to pack his luggage when he about to go on a business trip...some of them don't no nutting about marriage and they just jump into..thinking is an easy thing..if a wise married woman always do what I listed that marriage will be for everlasting.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 26-04-2010 03:31 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
moneyinbrakemi at 26-04-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 26-04-2010 03:31 AM
The problem is mostly caused by some married women..I mean what caused a married couple to break up.supposely the woman of the house do what she suppose to do,the man will not let her go or go out there and start following another woman.some women don't cook for their hubby,make the bed she and her hubby to sleep,don't wash her hubby clothes or under wears(boxer),don't show concerns about their man,don't ask if he has eaten,don't him to pack his luggage when he about to go on a business trip...some of them don't no nutting about marriage and they just jump into..thinking is an easy thing..if a wise married woman always do what I listed that marriage will be for everlasting.
Big Big KUDOS for you LOVE! you said it all without fright but most married women try to punish their husbands by depriving them of certain right! you know what I mean na?
Posted: at 26-04-2010 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Love is. It is not increased or decreased only nurtured to be fruitful or left to wilt and whither.
If it's the feelings being loved and loving U want to stir U should try and identify with your lover's person. Listen for the signs of what she/he understands as expressions of love. Be there for him/her be generous with him or her. Involve him/her in Ur life and be there as much as he/she needs U to be. (Remember that a need myt not be desired as much as it is required so this myt come off as tough love sometimes) Be a positive part of his or her life and pursuits.
Bla bla bla
Posted: at 26-04-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
ebony_cutie at 26-04-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 26-04-2010 10:27 AM
Love is. It is not increased or decreased only nurtured to be fruitful or left to wilt and whither.
If it's the feelings being loved and loving U want to stir U should try and identify with your lover's person. Listen for the signs of what she/he understands as expressions of love. Be there for him/her be generous with him or her. Involve him/her in Ur life and be there as much as he/she needs U to be. (Remember that a need myt not be desired as much as it is required so this myt come off as tough love sometimes) Be a positive part of his or her life and pursuits.
Bla bla bla
Tell them how it has worked for us or you don replace me already?
Posted: at 26-04-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
No! i dnt thnk there are many broken marriages in Nigeria compared to U.S & U.K. well, i thnk luv cnt be increased really. if love is there in the 1st place, thn it stays there unless destroyed & am nt married so i have no idea other thn they shud just be great friends to each other instead of being husband & wife.
Posted: at 26-04-2010 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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