Stay Away From Married Men, They Are Demons – Single Mum Advises Single Ladies

at 06:37 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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The Nigerian lady in the picture below, Zainab, has advised single ladies against having an affair with married men. According to her, they are demons.

Read her story below

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I misplaced my piority when I was 21? I was 17 when I lost my dad was preparing to write my SSCE then, am the 1st born will be 28 by next month. My mum was into petty trading and there was no way she could help continue with my education. After my SSCE I tried to further more but all effort to no avail. I gained admission into 3 different institutions different year but could not go due to funds. That how I began a wayward life just to help my little brother and my mum survive?? I did this for some years bfor my mum prayers called me back home.

In 2011 I met a guy, he claimed he was a single father. He asked me out and I answered him that how he started carrying my responsibilities, I enrol into another institution in lagos where I had my OND, nd 1yr left for HND dis guy paid my fee and all. Little did I knw he was a married man. The month I find out he was married I couldn’t let go cuz the fear of who will continue paying my sch fee, who will give us feeding at home, who will do this who will do that. So I continue and took fate of being the second wife cuz he said he wanted to marry me. I felt thank God poverty has finished in my life, but guess what I didn’t know I just started one tin called original poverty when I got pregnant 4 him he was gud at 1st but just after my pregnancy was 5 months he started showin me who he truly his. He left me all to myself, to the extend that I spent all the money I ever saved from him on buying hospital things, scan, etc. I pass due date with a month and i almost died with the pregnancy but glory to God and my mum she was strong for me. Couldn’t pay bal of hospital bills cuz I was totally out of cash dat I even got arrested by the doctor, couldn’t feed when I left the hospital, in a day me and my mum will share AKAMU of #50 to drink, after a week of getting home no kerosene in the stove, we bath a 1 week Baby with cold water, feeding became worse for us back to square one. That how I became an online begger, I had no shame of begging for things online, from money to feed, to baby clothes, baby shoe, beg for whole lot online. I couldn’t afford to even buy pant for myself. I suffered to de extend that 1k is like 1M to me



I then start job hunt which I got one with a microfinance bank the pay was 38,000 per month. The salary was not enough but I was struggling to survive since half bread they say is better than non. There was a time my son ran out of food, I borrowed a customer’s 9,000 to buy my son’s food, diaper and co pending the time I got paid. My people do u know I got arrested slept in cell and was also charged to court for 9,000. Have been physically drained by the court issue , it got to a stage I started acting as if I was already running mad. I thank God today that the case is on settlement at the court, that how I also lost the bank job too another hunting started. Got an invite for another interview when I had accident but am healing by the day. And I give God the glory for all he has done and I know good things re in Stock for me from God.

My dear sister married men re demons, they come as a helper but they are not, I face life time trauma and stil facing it and I know I will be out of it by the grace of God one day.

NB: The phobia I have for married men now ehn no be here
favourita at 07:01 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Everybody wan  belong by all means :- Tongue na now u dey advice becos u don see d in and out Grin Grin
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kabukabu at 07:11 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Just look at her. Your characters made him run away from you. You are too wayward for him. You couldn't be satisfied in anything. Greedy girl.
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kabukabu at 07:13 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Just look at her. Your characters made him run away from you. You are too wayward for him. You couldn't be satisfied in anything. Greedy girl.
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EDDYPRINCE at 08:27 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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you have serious prob,  coz nothing wrong with a married man,  a man that saw u thru school did not run then so why now,  something might be wrong somewhere.
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maxzy277 at 09:07 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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A proverb is enough for all what you’ve said “ One man’s meat is another man’s poison “. What is not good for you is another woman’s goodies  Grin
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ruthie at 09:18 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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wtf...nothing wrong...smh
Quote from: EDDYPRINCE on 08:27 AM, 22/05/2018
you have serious prob,  coz nothing wrong with a married man,  a man that saw u thru school did not run then so why now,  something might be wrong somewhere.
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ruthie at 09:19 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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degenerate society...just read the comments ahead of me! SMH
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cypanyahucha at 09:57 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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You should be wise. Those gunning to be babbymama, be wise.
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james987 at 10:03 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Quote from: EDDYPRINCE on 08:27 AM, 22/05/2018
you have serious prob,  coz nothing wrong with a married man,  a man that saw u thru school did not run then so why now,  something might be wrong somewhere.
it's a normal phenomenon in men, premature men do this. They find a lady boring once the pregnancy gets to stage 4 .Any man that has a mistress do not expect him to stick to only one mistress.
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gogoman at 11:06 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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as if u are still new  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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slimber at 11:27 AM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Bfore nko married men 're bad Omen ....So take note ladies
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nature7888 at 01:39 PM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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Lesson
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fineboy77 at 02:21 PM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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If the money wey you save from the man after all those years finish for one pregnancy,then you saved nothing. Maybe you are a glutton,because if not,how do i reconcile your statements?,poverty cant finish in your life if you spent years with a man and all you could save finished just taking care of one pregnancy.
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jacklyn111 at 02:39 PM, 22/05/2018 (1 month ago)
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I Think She Needs Real Deliverance...It Might Not Be The Man's Fault, But Generational Curse Might Play A Part In Her Problems.
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