She was the second of the three wives of her husband. The first wife doesn't care about anything that happens in the family and she as the second wife barely gets attention from her husband but the husband always give the last wife anything she wants. He always give the third wife money 2 feed herself, send her children 2 school,gave her work in his company which he can't do 4 the second wife,now he is gave her one of his cars & pay for her driving school. The second wife is tired on enduring this, Please what can she do. She really needs your advice. [color=][/color]
Posted: at 17-05-2010 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Well, the third wife is probably doing something right and the other two myt just have their heads up in the clouds waiting for magic to happen.
All's fair in love, war and polygamy. She can go ahead and kill herself if she's that much of a quitter. I'm pretty sure the third wife would find advantages to having just one other competitor. To think she should have known the man longer than the other two.
Abeg that third wife get fine daughter? I for no mind hook up.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
But a lot of people think she's using juju on the man because the man is not that nice to the extent of given out his money despite of his car and i'm also confuse,he always tell the second wife that he loves her,Pls,is that possible???
Posted: at 17-05-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
If she's using juju on him then the man brought it on himself. He should have known that someone would find other means to have the edge over the rest when he decided to go polygamous.
In any case, the first wife killing herself wont make the juju clear. Even if it did, she'd be gone and the person that would be in luck would be the second wife.
Trust me bad as juju bad, when woman show man wetin him like, e go hard juju to distract am from that woman.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
shaoyang at 17-05-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) (m)
@ d 2nd wife; giv them small space engage in something meaningful wit urself & care 4 urself like a single girl i mean appear sexy sometimes & be nice no matter what 2 ur hubby he'll look ur way soon, it'll work believe me
Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Admitted, the man is acing irresponsibly not caring fr the other wives he married; nevertheless it's a jungle in polygamous homes and war must be made with diplomacy. Sword in one hand and olive branch in the other. Some people just don't know where to take the war or who the "enemy" is. This first wife character sounds like one.
Tell her to re-invent herself and make it look effortless. Restore her former appeal the man found in her when he went for her.
I think one of the very few things that can make a man terminally mean to a wife he married is infidelity on her part. Besides that and the other not so popular things, as long as she knows what he loved about her and can bring it back to his clear view and perception, she can have him love her as he did nd treat her good too.
Shaoyang, U make sense.
Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
@ d 2nd wife; giv them small space engage in something meaningful wit urself & care 4 urself like a single girl i mean appear sexy sometimes & be nice no matter what 2 ur hubby he'll look ur way soon, it'll work believe me
Dat is just the solution to this problem. There is no point killing urself. If u think your mate is using juju on your husband, just pray someday it will fail her. Gudluck.
Posted: at 1-06-2010 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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