I ve been in a relationship for over a year now but for the past 5 months i have been getting a cold treatment from my girl, meanwhile she accused me of double dating which i told her wasnt true with evidence.
I would call asking her to come see me only for her to give me excuses each time. She stopped calling and sending text at a time i had to stop worrying myself.
Lately she sent me text message asking me to forgive her that she over reacted, she didnt know what came over her and all that, asking me to forgive her even if i will not accept her back in my life.
To be frank i still like her but after her ill-treatment should i still welcome her back.
Posted: at 19-05-2010 08:09 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
cheii..not that she cheated on you or she break yourheart before and then want you back or not that she killed somebody..
my friend if you really feel for her..like you said,before you accept her back ,i am not saying don't bring her back oo,before you say ok i need you back in my life,you both have to talk things out first. first ask her some few questions,like do you really love me and if you do how come you don't trust me?how do you love me without trusting me? if she say sorry again and all tht bullcrap,just warn her not to repeat the same nonsense again that you won't tolerate..and you both have to spend more time together to understand each other better.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 19-05-2010 08:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
kesterjoe at 19-05-2010 08:40 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 19-05-2010 08:21 PM
cheii..not that she cheated on you or she break yourheart before and then want you back or not that she killed somebody..
my friend if you really feel for her..like you said,before you accept her back ,i am not saying don't bring her back oo,before you say ok i need you back in my life,you both have to talk things out first. first ask her some few questions,like do you really love me and if you do how come you don't trust me?how do you love me without trusting me? if she say sorry again and all tht bullcrap,just warn her not to repeat the same nonsense again that you won't tolerate..and you both have to spend more time together to understand each other better.
Thanks Hopea, your advice i will never forget.
Posted: at 19-05-2010 08:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
I ve been in a relationship for over a year now but for the past 5 months i have been getting a cold treatment from my girl, meanwhile she accused me of double dating which i told her wasnt true with evidence.
I would call asking her to come see me only for her to give me excuses each time. She stopped calling and sending text at a time i had to stop worrying myself.
Lately she sent me text message asking me to forgive her that she over reacted, she didnt know what came over her and all that, asking me to forgive her even if i will not accept her back in my life.
To be frank i still like her but after her ill-treatment should i still welcome her back.
D Decision is yurs
Mind yu, Nobody says she won't repeat the Act
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 19-05-2010 08:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
ksurrina at 20-05-2010 01:06 AM (13 years ago) (f)
The first year of a relationship is trial and error. One where you try to understand each other and make changes in order for the relationship to work. Everyone has issue and no one is perfect. At least she found her mistakes and ask you for forgiveness. Maybe she had problem with trust and so she had to work it out. You maybe also as issues as well which you also worked out. Analyze the relationship and if you truly love her forgive her and recommit back.
All the best
Godly WISDOM is to Fear God. His UNDERSTANDING is to resist the devil.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 01:06 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I ve been in a relationship for over a year now but for the past 5 months i have been getting a cold treatment from my girl, meanwhile she accused me of double dating which i told her wasnt true with evidence.
I would call asking her to come see me only for her to give me excuses each time. She stopped calling and sending text at a time i had to stop worrying myself.
Lately she sent me text message asking me to forgive her that she over reacted, she didnt know what came over her and all that, asking me to forgive her even if i will not accept her back in my life.
To be frank i still like her but after her ill-treatment should i still welcome her back.
Personally I no dey like this kain settings. E dey hardly ever pure. Chances are she was playing around with some other fellow(s) during the ill-treatment period. If I were U I'd "sniff" on her for "scents" that aren't mine. If there was someone else, he'd hav left a scent. The closer they were, the stronger it'l be. If U ever did make it to her head when the going was good, that should be pretty easy
Posted: at 20-05-2010 08:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
u have to find out why she kept away 4 some time.i believing she was hanging out with else,may be d guy has dumped her then she came back 2 u as her spare tire.shine ur eyes cos she may do it again.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 09:38 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
u have to find out why she kept away 4 some time.i believing she was hanging out with else,may be d guy has dumped her then she came back 2 u as her spare tire.shine ur eyes cos she may do it again.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 09:39 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
kesterjoe at 20-05-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) (m)
So many thoughts are coming to my mind but till i get back to Owerri on Sunday then i'll meet her and we tallk things out. So far i appreciate all your comments and contributions.
Posted: at 20-05-2010 09:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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