divineproject at 4-06-2010 01:41 PM (13 years ago) (f)
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 4-06-2010 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
ebony_cutie at 4-06-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) (f)
how long did the rship last? has he told you his reasons for ending the rship? maybe you should get to talk to him and hear him out but if he says its over, nothg much you can do but let him go, you dont have control over wot ppl do, cant change A Person..
Posted: at 4-06-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
yomightgold at 4-06-2010 01:58 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Posted: at 4-06-2010 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 4-06-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: yomightgold on 4-06-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Wasted venture.......most of u guys dont look back, it is forward ever, backward never...........women can quit and later go back, but for most men they move on........dat I know very much!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 4-06-2010 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
yomightgold at 4-06-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 02:09 PM
Quote from: yomightgold on 4-06-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Wasted venture.......most of u guys dont look back, it is forward ever, backward never...........women can quit and later go back, but for most men they move on........dat I know very much!
That is fault Judge Mum.... Do not use a person to judge the whole race, whole sex and whole generation.
Do u know if the guy just pretending not to listen to her? Do you know what the lady did to the guy? Do you know that most ladies always think they are perfect when guyz boom after them?
She may misuse the opportunity she had with the guy before
Now regretting and want to have him back
Let the guy do his own Yanga, All she need is to keep pressing on.
Posted: at 4-06-2010 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 4-06-2010 02:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Ok oo.............poster the guys say you should go chasing him....but I wouldnt advise my sister to go chasing a man, How would he look at her??.......How would he treat her??.....probably like a piece of rag!...
And son, am not judging all men based on what just one person has done..............but I am judging based on how I see you guys act...........Men dont just wake up and call off a relationship just like dat.....they always have a tangible reason to call off..........they are decisive!........Poster all the best!.......I have said my bit, you dont have to listen to me, who knows Yomi could be 101% right!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 4-06-2010 02:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
yomightgold at 4-06-2010 02:52 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 02:31 PM
Ok oo.............poster the guys say you should go chasing him....but I wouldnt advise my sister to go chasing a man, How would he look at her??.......How would he treat her??.....probably like a piece of rag!...
And son, am not judging all men based on what just one person has done..............but I am judging based on how I see you guys act...........Men dont just wake up and call off a relationship just like dat.....they always have a tangible reason to call off..........they are decisive!........Poster all the best!.......I have said my bit, you dont have to listen to me, who knows Yomi could be 101% right!
I love been neutral... That is what i got from you now..
Thanks
Posted: at 4-06-2010 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
eagleseyez at 4-06-2010 03:57 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 02:09 PM
Quote from: yomightgold on 4-06-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Wasted venture.......most of u guys dont look back, it is forward ever, backward never...........women can quit and later go back, but for most men they move on........dat I know very much!
well in a way u're right about the movin on Men are more adventurous and it helps one to learn more u know, i dnt think its a problem How can one keep marching forward, aiming the zenith and u expect him to get backwards, what for? E be like say u no like men to progress U harsh o
Posted: at 4-06-2010 03:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
divineproject at 4-06-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-06-2010 03:57 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 02:09 PM
Quote from: yomightgold on 4-06-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Wasted venture.......most of u guys dont look back, it is forward ever, backward never...........women can quit and later go back, but for most men they move on........dat I know very much!
well in a way u're right about the movin on Men are more adventurous and it helps one to learn more u know, i dnt think its a problem How can one keep marching forward, aiming the zenith and u expect him to get backwards, what for? E be like say u no like men to progress U harsh o
You got me wrong............am not against men moving forward.......Rather I like the way they are decisive, unlike some of us women that keep moving back and forth!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 4-06-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 4-06-2010 04:43 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 04:29 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-06-2010 03:57 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 02:09 PM
Quote from: yomightgold on 4-06-2010 01:58 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 4-06-2010 01:41 PM
My dear, when a man decides to move on, it is venture in futility trying to get him back......I can tell you that....most times if they come back, they come back for a reason; to clean up what they left and leave you even emptier......so better look for someone else!.........Most men dont look back when it comes to relationships, especially when they broke up willingly!
You don't have to judge that way, You don't know the exact reason why their is space between her and her love... You don't even know who is at fault... You don't know the route of all this case.
All we need to advice her is to do the best she can to have him back....
He might be her Happiness
Wasted venture.......most of u guys dont look back, it is forward ever, backward never...........women can quit and later go back, but for most men they move on........dat I know very much!
well in a way u're right about the movin on Men are more adventurous and it helps one to learn more u know, i dnt think its a problem How can one keep marching forward, aiming the zenith and u expect him to get backwards, what for? E be like say u no like men to progress U harsh o
You got me wrong............am not against men moving forward.......Rather I like the way they are decisive, unlike some of us women that keep moving back and forth!
Now u're talking but women dont need to be adventurous too its not advicable, she has to keep loving untill the guy decides to come back
Posted: at 4-06-2010 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac