ok......you asked questions and u answered them urself...........
Yes I did, however my answers may not be true for all and others may not necessarily know the answers to the questions. I am curious as to how you define courtship? Do you think its important in today's times?
Yes courtship is very important.......it is a time to have a glimpse of what it would look like........it is a time to find out certain basic things abt your partner..........it is a time to know if u can cope with this person........you cant jump into marriage becos this person is from an entirely different background, time to blend!
You know you're absolutely right. For some reason people rush marriage, the second date I love you I want to marry you, however the fact is they have no clue of what they would be getting themselves into. When you mention different backgrounds and blending, oh my goodness, this is something that we must all consider. It is not just the person you see you're getting, the values and morale's are quite different and rather complex at times.
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part.
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