Why courtship is important??? What is courtship???

Date: 05-06-2010 2:37 pm (13 years ago) | Author: ......
- at 5-06-2010 02:37 PM (13 years ago)
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This is done to keep the parties who are attracted to each other from entering into premarital sex, which then stops the process of courtship. In the word courtship is the word court. By definition we mean a place where justice is administered and a place where the process of finding the truth which forms the basis of justice and judgment.

 When two people are courting they are bringing evidence to either support their intention to be engaged, or evidence that they should look in other directions. This process of finding out as much as we can about each other is necessary in forming good and proper judgment.

It is so important then when engaging another as related to courtship/dating that we do a bit of introspection of self and the other person. We must at some point obtain life partners versus right now partners. Lasting relationships/marriages are of the essence, the fly by night is so not hot.


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- divineproject at 5-06-2010 02:41 PM (13 years ago)
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ok......you asked questions and u answered them urself...........

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- Empress_Ameera at 5-06-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-06-2010 02:41 PM
ok......you asked questions and u answered them urself...........

Yes I did, however my answers may not be true for all and others may not necessarily know the answers to the questions. I am curious as to how you define courtship? Do you think its important in today's times?

Posted: at 5-06-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 5-06-2010 02:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Empress_Ameera on  5-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-06-2010 02:41 PM
ok......you asked questions and u answered them urself...........

Yes I did, however my answers may not be true for all and others may not necessarily know the answers to the questions. I am curious as to how you define courtship? Do you think its important in today's times?

Yes courtship is very important.......it is a time to have a glimpse of what it would look like........it is a time to find out certain basic things abt your partner..........it is a time to know if u can cope with this person........you cant jump into marriage becos this person is from an entirely different background, time to blend!

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- Empress_Ameera at 5-06-2010 02:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  5-06-2010 02:47 PM
Quote from: Empress_Ameera on  5-06-2010 02:44 PM
Quote from: divineproject on  5-06-2010 02:41 PM
ok......you asked questions and u answered them urself...........

Yes I did, however my answers may not be true for all and others may not necessarily know the answers to the questions. I am curious as to how you define courtship? Do you think its important in today's times?

Yes courtship is very important.......it is a time to have a glimpse of what it would look like........it is a time to find out certain basic things abt your partner..........it is a time to know if u can cope with this person........you cant jump into marriage becos this person is from an entirely different background, time to blend!

You know you're absolutely right. For some reason people rush marriage, the second date I love you I want to marry you, however the fact is they have no clue of what they would be getting themselves into. When you mention different backgrounds and blending, oh my goodness, this is something that we must all consider. It is not just the person you see you're getting, the values and morale's are quite different and rather complex at times.

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- divineproject at 5-06-2010 02:58 PM (13 years ago)
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well some people dont consider all that........thats why we have so many divorces these days........some ladies would rush to marry simple becos their mates are getting married...........tomorrow they would wish they had known!.......get to know him/her a little bit b4 you settle down............it is better to have a broken courtship than a broken marriage!........a broken courtship would involve just the two of u, but a broken marriage might involve more people (innocent children)...........

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- aliaaz at 5-06-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Meanin of courtship from my end

1.  prelude to marriage: the period of a romantic relationship before marriage
2.  trying to gain somebody's love: the act of paying attention to somebody with a view to developing a more intimate relationship
3.  ingratiating behavior: friendly and often ingratiating attention for the purpose of winning a favor or establishing an alliance or other relationship
4.  zoology mating behavior: behavior designed to attract another animal or bird as a mate, or the time during which an animal or bird engages in this

Posted: at 5-06-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 5-06-2010 06:38 PM (13 years ago)
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no time

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- Empress_Ameera at 5-06-2010 08:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: aliaaz on  5-06-2010 03:13 PM
Meanin of courtship from my end

1.  prelude to marriage: the period of a romantic relationship before marriage
2.  trying to gain somebody's love: the act of paying attention to somebody with a view to developing a more intimate relationship
3.  ingratiating behavior: friendly and often ingratiating attention for the purpose of winning a favor or establishing an alliance or other relationship
4.  zoology mating behavior: behavior designed to attract another animal or bird as a mate, or the time during which an animal or bird engages in this


Wow, I am impressed, well said. I am so loving the perspective from a man.

Posted: at 5-06-2010 08:07 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- delister at 5-06-2010 09:45 PM (13 years ago)
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yap courtship is really important coz it gives u a greater clue abt the type of lady or guy u are moving with................................ to court not less than 2yrs to let u know more abt the person................and be very smart to learn his life style  that means be fast in mind
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- ceejay58 at 6-06-2010 01:38 AM (13 years ago)
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really no time...
Posted: at 6-06-2010 01:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ebony_cutie at 6-06-2010 07:55 AM (13 years ago)
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just strolling
Posted: at 6-06-2010 07:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PoliticxGuru at 24-08-2015 12:16 AM (8 years ago)
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For wia ns
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