Question Of The Day: Are You Wifey Material???

Date: 22-06-2010 10:55 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- at 22-06-2010 10:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Most women today would consider themselves wifey material, but the only problem is… They’re S-I-N-G-L-E!!! Studies have shown that black men like exploring other options therefore leaving single black women that only want to date single black men… Up Sh*t Creek!!! So, maybe the question isn’t are you wifey material, the question probably should be what is a man looking for when he’s trying to find wifey!!!

5 Things Men Look for in a Wifey

1. Assess her personality. This means her personal characteristics, emotions, style and expressions. Her perspective on the world around her, combined with her level of self-esteem, can speak volumes about the type of life partner and future parent she will be.

2. Know how attracted you are to her. Physical and segxwal attraction can mean different things to different people. To some, romance and intimacy are key, while others prefer more active and kinky activities to really make them feel attracted to their partner. It’s important that your attraction and chemistry are mutual, and sustainable for years to come as a married couple.

3. Consider her level of intelligence. Finding a mate mutually matched near your level of intelligence is important to compatibility and having meaningful conversations as a couple. How she observes the world, either casually or aggressively, her level of education, sense of humor, skills, hobbies and conversation style are all important elements of this assessment.

4. Determine how she handles money. Money matters affect everyone, and finances are a key factor in the success of a marriage. Pay attention to spending style, lifestyle, professional ambitions and financial goals when determining your compatibility when it comes to spending and saving.

5. Know her values and compare them with yours. Spiritual values don’t necessarily mean affiliation with a religion but rather a general belief in a reason and purpose for being here. Other values to consider include those involved with family, stability, purpose, religion, optimism, honesty and integrity.

These 5 things are not much for any woman to do, but lets be honest, there are some women who are delusional enough to think they are assets, when they usually turn out to be major liabilities and the same thing goes for men. A woman shouldn’t look at a man’s wallet and say “He’s the one for me,” because money can’t hold you at night.

So… ARE YOU REALLY WIFEY MATERIAL or DO YOU HAVE SOME WORK TO DO???


Posted: at 22-06-2010 10:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- PreetyInstinct at 22-06-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Potentially-but still in d making. Cool

Posted: at 22-06-2010 11:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 23-06-2010 12:01 AM (13 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked huh?

brb...    Lips Sealed
Posted: at 23-06-2010 12:01 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 23-06-2010 12:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Werrin?r u doubting me? Sad

Posted: at 23-06-2010 12:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 23-06-2010 02:03 AM (13 years ago)
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no comment......  Lips Sealed
Posted: at 23-06-2010 02:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 23-06-2010 08:05 AM (13 years ago)
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yes.. am a virtous woman

Posted: at 23-06-2010 08:05 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yomightgold at 23-06-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 23-06-2010 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 24-06-2010 02:11 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 08:05 AM
yes.. am a virtous woman

yea right!!!
Posted: at 24-06-2010 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mallorca at 24-06-2010 03:08 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 23-06-2010 08:05 AM
yes.. am a virtous woman
i no gree

Posted: at 24-06-2010 03:08 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Bismack at 24-06-2010 04:31 AM (13 years ago)
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I neva tear b4.i'm a hubby material.
Posted: at 24-06-2010 04:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm i know am a gud woman, but wifey material u shud ask my bf...

Or wait couple of years cuz am only 21...
Posted: at 26-06-2010 07:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 26-06-2010 08:28 PM (13 years ago)
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hiss

Posted: at 26-06-2010 08:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wunzie at 26-06-2010 09:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Idk.

Posted: at 26-06-2010 09:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 26-06-2010 09:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Why you ask?

Posted: at 26-06-2010 09:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2010 09:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked
Posted: at 26-06-2010 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-06-2010 09:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 09:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 26-06-2010 09:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-06-2010 09:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 09:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked

In that case....the answer is No,I'm not wifely material

Posted: at 26-06-2010 09:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:55 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 09:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked

In that case....the answer is No,I'm not wifely material

looool c straight answer  Grin
Posted: at 26-06-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mallorca at 26-06-2010 10:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 10:01 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:55 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 09:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked

In that case....the answer is No,I'm not wifely material

looool c straight answer  Grin
what else do you expect to hear?

Posted: at 26-06-2010 10:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-06-2010 10:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mallorca on 26-06-2010 10:26 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 10:01 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:55 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-06-2010 09:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-06-2010 09:36 PM
Why you ask?

cuz he wanna marry u !  Shocked

In that case....the answer is No,I'm not wifely material

looool c straight answer  Grin
what else do you expect to hear?

walkin around d bush
Posted: at 26-06-2010 10:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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