Flirting around while in a relationship (Page 3)

Date: 28-06-2010 1:16 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 09:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bosun9ice on 29-06-2010 09:46 AM
I guess its up to you to decide if you want the guy/lady, face it, you can keep moving from one guy/girl just because he/she flirts with other girl/guy, it means you might end up with nothing at all. stick with he/she and fight for what you believe in thats if you truly care about the girl/guy.

It's not about me here!
Because if it would have been my case,and if after I've been sit him down and telling him how much his behavior
 bothers me, and he'll continue doing it,then I would definitely show him the door!
Life is to short for staying and taking all kind of crap from a guy!

Posted: at 29-06-2010 09:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Ify4life at 29-06-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago)
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feel bad

Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ify4life on 29-06-2010 10:51 AM
feel bad

Obviously, but what would you do about it?

Posted: at 29-06-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Agatex at 29-06-2010 11:14 AM (13 years ago)
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if d person cant quit the flirting then you quit d relationship.
Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Agatex on 29-06-2010 11:14 AM
if d person cant quit the flirting then you quit d relationship.

I hear you

Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- saintdav76 at 29-06-2010 11:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Am not going to encourage it in anyway gbam!
Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ify4life at 29-06-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago)
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forgive d forget

Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 11:58 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: saintdav76 on 29-06-2010 11:52 AM
Am not going to encourage it in anyway gbam!

How could you encourage it?

Posted: at 29-06-2010 11:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 12:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ify4life on 29-06-2010 11:57 AM
forgive d forget

Forgive and forget?
That means you just pretend that nothing happened and continue that relationship,
remaining with a guy who behave flirty with every single female who comes his way?

Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bhl72 at 29-06-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago)
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In life there's no perfect person; see if there are other virtues in the person's life that endear that person to you. While not compromising, work on the flirting character... You may leave that person and another will occupy that space and manage the person so well, there won't be any problems.

Afterall, people are not celebrities because they have no imperfections, but we choose to see celebrate their best parts, and polish that aspect so it naturally dims the others!
Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-06-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-06-2010 01:16 PM
What would you do/feel,if while you're in a serious relationship with somebody, that person use to flirt around anytime and anywhere?

I will feel more than bad,even more terrified.
If i can't change that person__then she is better of in the street
so I will hands off the relationship as fast as i can...though divorce is not the best option.
Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 29-06-2010 12:06 PM
In life there's no perfect person; see if there are other virtues in the person's life that endear that person to you. While not compromising, work on the flirting character... You may leave that person and another will occupy that space and manage the person so well, there won't be any problems.

Afterall, people are not celebrities because they have no imperfections, but we choose to see celebrate their best parts, and polish that aspect so it naturally dims the others!


I see

Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 12:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-06-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-06-2010 01:16 PM
What would you do/feel,if while you're in a serious relationship with somebody, that person use to flirt around anytime and anywhere?

I will feel more than bad,even more terrified.
If i can't change that person__then she is better of in the street
so I will hands off the relationship as fast as i can...though divorce is not the best option.


So if you're already married with that girl,you'll just continue to stay with her and tolerating her behavior?

Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-06-2010 12:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 29-06-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-06-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-06-2010 01:16 PM
What would you do/feel,if while you're in a serious relationship with somebody, that person use to flirt around anytime and anywhere?

I will feel more than bad,even more terrified.
If i can't change that person__then she is better of in the street
so I will hands off the relationship as fast as i can...though divorce is not the best option.


So if you're already married with that girl,you'll just continue to stay with her and tolerating her behavior?

I guess you don't understand me from the look of things...
I said she is better of in the street---if i can't change her.
So I will simply Hands of the relationship__Meaning divorce her
though divorce is not the best option....I guess you understand me now
Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-06-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ify4life on 29-06-2010 11:57 AM
forgive d forget

to forgive YES but to forget NO...its impossicant
Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-06-2010 12:23 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 29-06-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-06-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-06-2010 01:16 PM
What would you do/feel,if while you're in a serious relationship with somebody, that person use to flirt around anytime and anywhere?

I will feel more than bad,even more terrified.
If i can't change that person__then she is better of in the street
so I will hands off the relationship as fast as i can...though divorce is not the best option.


So if you're already married with that girl,you'll just continue to stay with her and tolerating her behavior?

I guess you don't understand me from the look of things...
I said she is better of in the street---if i can't change her.
So I will simply Hands of the relationship__Meaning divorce her
though divorce is not the best option....I guess you understand me now

Yes!Initially I thought that you wouldn't take divorce in consideration at all

Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- saintdav76 at 29-06-2010 12:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 29-06-2010 11:58 AM
Quote from: saintdav76 on 29-06-2010 11:52 AM
Am not going to encourage it in anyway gbam!

How could you encourage it?


GIVING ROOMS, NA EKWE TALK AM SAY "IF NO GUD FOR UR HEAD QUIT"
Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: saintdav76 on 29-06-2010 12:39 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 29-06-2010 11:58 AM
Quote from: saintdav76 on 29-06-2010 11:52 AM
Am not going to encourage it in anyway gbam!

How could you encourage it?


GIVING ROOMS, NA EKWE TALK AM SAY "IF NO GUD FOR UR HEAD QUIT"


It was obviously

Posted: at 29-06-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- hotguy77 at 29-06-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago)
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He is directly playing with your emotion, kick him out cos when you are emotionally imbalance it will affect every facet of your life which is very dangerous. He is not the only one, you life is more important than somebody who doesn't have regards to you. Period
Posted: at 29-06-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 29-06-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: hotguy77 on 29-06-2010 01:10 PM
He is directly playing with your emotion, kick him out cos when you are emotionally imbalance it will affect every facet of your life which is very dangerous. He is not the only one, you life is more important than somebody who doesn't have regards to you. Period

It's not about me here!It's an hypothetical situation, but I agree with you

Posted: at 29-06-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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