Who Should Pay For The First Date, He Or She? (Page 4)

@ poster,sorry if a man ask me out @ de first time i guess he shuld do de paymt b4 going ahead 4 more details abt me.

Posted: at 13-07-2010 12:47 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Guys, let's be serious and avoid wasting each other's time with some senseless allegations over who is supposed to foot the bill. It's a cultural thing, folks!! I am not trying to diss our black sisters, but I have to tell it like it is. I have dated African americans here in the US and our sisters from Africa the motherland but I don't see much difference as far as financial matters are concerned. They all wanna be taken care of, I mean moneywise. When a sister foots the bill at a restaurant or at the movies she'd go like " Nigga, I think it's high time you got your ass a good job and start taking care of us 'cuz I am getting tired of spending my cash of yo' broke ass, y'nowadamsayin'? "U goin' to hear these words twenty four seven. Guys let's work hard as men to try and make some papers before these sisters conquer the world, don't just sit there doing nuthin' and wait for her to take yo' ass out to a movie or to Mc Donald for a Big Mac or somethin'. Don't worry because there still some good women out there who will do all those things for you just because of the amount of love they have for you, but the minute you phyuk up!! Brother here comes a butt load of insults and shit like " What ya gotta say nigga? I take care o' yo and this is how you wanna say thank U son of a bitch!!"   In a nutshell what I wanna say is ( IT IS A MAN'S WORLD SO LET'S TAKE OUR RESPONSIBILITIES AND RULE AS MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO, AIGHT? ). Don't just sit there and wait for a sugar mommy to fall from heaven, lad. Go out there and make some though while you still can. YOU AIN'T POOR, YOU ARE JUST BROKE WHICH IS TEMPORARY SITUATION WHICH CAN TURN OUT TO BE A BETTER ONE IF YOU SOMETHIN' ABOUT IT. Peace and enjoy the ride... Life is precious, use a condom and make money BUT don't let nobody tell you that U can't make it!! 

Posted: at 13-07-2010 07:45 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Each one of them should pay for whatsoever he or she eat..........they should bears their fathers name...

Posted: at 13-07-2010 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

man should pay for the date
even if the lady has money is the guy who should pay
men who dont pay for the first date are poor or stupid or lazy or too proud ,or not a gentil men
wtf

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:42 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

if they are a couple they  pay together

Posted: at 13-07-2010 09:46 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Guys, Guys, Guys, why are running away from ur responsibilities, u want a woman and ur are running away from the bills, am sorry for a guy who will take a woman out and wait for the woman to pay for his bills, even if the woman takes u out, u need to keep ur respect.

Posted: at 13-07-2010 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

It is a free world for my our point of view anybody can do the paying.
But must of the women belive that the men should do the pay.

Posted: at 14-07-2010 03:48 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

who's gon pay ma bills

any good gurl? 

Posted: at 14-07-2010 04:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Unfortunatelly all of dem gud gurls have 'gone bad'

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Posted: at 14-07-2010 04:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

It depends on who called for the date.Whoever called for the date should have the courtesy of paying for the bills.

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Posted: at 14-07-2010 05:09 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero