The stories that I have been hearing about how the secrets contained in these diaries are destroying relationships are becoming rampant. So why do people keep diaries? Is it advisable to keep a tab on the happenings in one's life, especially when such information could be so damning and the other party may not understand? If you find an unpalatable piece of information in your partner's diary, would you believe the explanation given to defend such information? Would you allow any ugly incident as written in your partner's diary destroy your relationship?............
Oya, lets go there!
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Posted: at 29-07-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 29-07-2010 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
So what do they wrute inside that cause problem ? maybe the number of men they slept with or other crimes committed ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 29-07-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Yesterday a lady was asking for advice because what she wrote in her diary when she was still single was causing a big problem in her marriage becos her hubby happened on it.....she was fond of writing everything dat happened to her each day..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Well sounds strange to be because i on't see sence in writting down everything , Some things are better kept in the heart than on papers
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 29-07-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) (f)
I don't like this thing about keeping a diary! I tried to do that when I was around 17,but it seemed so foolish ,and I've throw it away! So, no diary again for me! But it's very possible to write the story of my life later! Anyway, if my guy would keep one, and I would find it,I would read it only if he wants me to!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 29-07-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:44 PM
Personal Choice
Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While
Personal Choice girl
If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu
heeeeeeeeeeeeeee, uncle Kennee, the question is, would the other person be man/woman enough to take the content in good faith?...wouldnt he/she condemn this other person as a result of what he/she has seen?...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) (f)
i used to have one b4 but when the guy i was dating then found out and read it, it generated a lot of problems in that relationship and since then bye bye to dairy
Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While
Personal Choice girl
If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu
heeeeeeeeeeeeeee, uncle Kennee, the question is, would the other person be man/woman enough to take the content in good faith?...wouldnt he/she condemn this other person as a result of what he/she has seen?...........
Yeah some Poeple don't take things Kindly when they read it cos sometimes the things they find inside seem to be repeating themselves in the Present relationship
l get yu. Dat's why l said if yu're Confident about who yu've become, yu will be able 2 make yur Partner feel better about it and put it all in the Past
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero