When No = Maybe or Yes; and when No = No

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at 11:07 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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We've heard it said many times by the girls how no means no yet more oftentimes some of us guys keep pursuit because the No doesn't strike us as a real no or at least we can see clearly or hazily that from mixed messages that the words aren't strong enuf.
This thread is open to all to shed light on what makes a No a "NO" (Waco no be Bosom  issue we dey yarn o so no misread the No No as NONO :p)

Everyone know's guys are terrible at multitasking and that doesn't exclude our personal relationship(s). More often when some of us guys see a girl we like, as logical as we are, we like going for her and getting clearly spelt out feedback otherwise we might move to hanging on and moving on to the next girl we like simultaneously and so on and so forth. What that leads to is having many pseudo girlfriends that later turn to accuse us of being players, when in reality none of them said yes and none of them said the Solid no.

Guys please tell the girls when a No is unmistakably a NO.


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sophiebaby at 11:09 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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where are the guys?

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esonu at 11:14 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm lemme call waco cos dis one pass me oooooo..make i no misyarn

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sophiebaby at 11:15 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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onyiis at 11:15 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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i will be back

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sexy_error at 11:17 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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WHERE THEM.........STILL WAITING
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onchedu at 11:17 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.

A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.

A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.
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divineproject at 11:26 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmm, an insight into the world of men!.....learning............

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Treasure2 at 11:34 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 11:17 AM,  2/08/2010
For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.

A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.

A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.

This is interesting.
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onchedu at 11:34 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Me thinks some of us guys like the confusion cos it can be "rewarding" that's why there's so much silence here? Hash-Bash!!!

Anyway, some things don't change even tho change is inevitable.
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kokokool at 11:35 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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they should create another word to replace "NO"  so we'll know they really mean NO
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sophiebaby at 11:38 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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agbalagba

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onchedu at 11:38 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 11:34 AM,  2/08/2010
Quote from: onchedu on 11:17 AM,  2/08/2010
For me a No is a No when she says it and doesn't see why she should explain her reasons for saying it and knows she doesn't have to be nice about it.

A No is a maybe when she's still spending time with me within which we do more than formal exchange of pleasantries and allowing/encourging certain lines of communication to flow.

A No is a yes when she's saying it in my arms wrapping herself up in me or putting in any effort to see me.

This is interesting.

Thanks. Hope we get to see more interesting stuff than this. Wink
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esonu at 11:52 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmm  A No is a yes when he is saying it in other for her to open her legs...okwa ya

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kokokool at 11:55 AM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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no means try harder
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onchedu at 12:21 PM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 11:52 AM,  2/08/2010
hmmmmmmmm  A No is a yes when he is saying it in other for her to open her legs...okwa ya


Huh? He is saying it for her to do what? Dude???
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esonu at 12:27 PM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 11:55 AM,  2/08/2010
no means try harder
bad boy

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malkinburg at 01:19 PM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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No is no when there's absolution in her tone and carriage. No mixed nessages.
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onyiis at 01:20 PM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
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ok

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Akpan01 at 01:21 PM, 2/08/2010 (8 years ago)
(17870 | Hero) (f)
donno o

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