can you marry your best friend or brother s ex girl friend

Date: 03-08-2010 5:30 pm (13 years ago) | Author: don uche
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- at 3-08-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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my friend wants to marry this year but the only girl that is after his heart is his best friend ex girl friend who did not had any misunderstanding with each other before they broke up but just that both parents was against their relationship and marriage.
my friend and even the girl is in desperate  need of an advice hence wants the house to tell him what they will do if they were in his or the girls shoe

Posted: at 3-08-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Umbrella at 3-08-2010 05:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Well, they are no longer an item; he has every right to date her. But out of respect maybe ur friend shouldn't have dated his friend's ex. But he can't come in-between love. Leave them to do their thing. If it's all a mistake they will realise it in the end. Until then, he should be happy his friend and ex found love.

But if the ex and the dude still have feelings for each other then the new guy shouldn't bother with her cos he's always going to be second best. Her heart is somewhere else.
Posted: at 3-08-2010 05:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 3-08-2010 06:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Umbrella on  3-08-2010 05:36 PM
Well, they are no longer an item; he has every right to date her. But out of respect maybe ur friend shouldn't have dated his friend's ex. But he can't come in-between love. Leave them to do their thing. If it's all a mistake they will realise it in the end. Until then, he should be happy his friend and ex found love.

But if the ex and the dude still have feelings for each other then the new guy shouldn't bother with her cos he's always going to be second best. Her heart is somewhere else.
Lovely.
Posted: at 3-08-2010 06:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mydicksweet at 3-08-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago)
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I dont think it's adviceable reason is dis what if the gurls still have little feels 4 his friend that he's not aware of?u know women u just never can tell especially when u said they need advice so my opinion is dat the guy should just move on if he truely knows what's good  him
Posted: at 3-08-2010 06:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 3-08-2010 06:17 PM (13 years ago)
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first of all,..there are norms/rules that should never be broken....don't date/marry ur best friends ex...is that simple
Posted: at 3-08-2010 06:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- mat-James at 3-08-2010 06:32 PM (13 years ago)
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did i hear u said best friend ex?
no i cant do that,
eaither having problem or not b4 separating,
is not adviseable
Posted: at 3-08-2010 06:32 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onchedu at 3-08-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Nope.
Posted: at 3-08-2010 06:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- luvvy at 3-08-2010 07:00 PM (13 years ago)
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one hav to go......
Posted: at 3-08-2010 07:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 3-08-2010 07:07 PM (13 years ago)
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MBANU

Posted: at 3-08-2010 07:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kokokool at 4-08-2010 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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its in the guy code, never go after ur friend's girl or ex.......................except she's extremely attractive.

ok but seriously , it's a code most guy live by, dont go after ur friend's ex,THERE'S ALWAYS MIXED FEELINGS
Posted: at 4-08-2010 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- docreala at 4-08-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago)
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heard
Posted: at 4-08-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kokokool at 4-08-2010 02:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: docreala on  4-08-2010 12:36 PM
heard

wow so u can hear written words? incredible
Posted: at 4-08-2010 02:04 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- princedafe at 4-08-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago)
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HEARD
Posted: at 4-08-2010 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 5-08-2010 01:57 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Umbrella on  3-08-2010 05:36 PM
Well, they are no longer an item; he has every right to date her. But out of respect maybe ur friend shouldn't have dated his friend's ex. But he can't come in-between love. Leave them to do their thing. If it's all a mistake they will realise it in the end. Until then, he should be happy his friend and ex found love.

But if the ex and the dude still have feelings for each other then the new guy shouldn't bother with her cos he's always going to be second best. Her heart is somewhere else.

thank u sweet-sour pie.... Wink

poster i hope u and ur friends re reading this too?
Posted: at 5-08-2010 01:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Maasharheri at 5-08-2010 02:04 AM (13 years ago)
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nop, that will be too bad Shocked
Posted: at 5-08-2010 02:04 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 6-08-2010 01:42 AM (13 years ago)
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okz
Posted: at 6-08-2010 01:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Dan_Fulani at 2-08-2011 03:56 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Umbrella on  3-08-2010 05:36 PM
Well, they are no longer an item; he has every right to date her. But out of respect maybe ur friend shouldn't have dated his friend's ex. But he can't come in-between love. Leave them to do their thing. If it's all a mistake they will realise it in the end. Until then, he should be happy his friend and ex found love.

But if the ex and the dude still have feelings for each other then the new guy shouldn't bother with her cos he's always going to be second best. Her heart is somewhere else.

Well said. The unwritten rule: Don't date your friends ex.....it never ends well.
Besides memories are long. Pls be respectful, don't ever do it. Look for your own love.

dan fulani
Posted: at 2-08-2011 03:56 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Swtezvikky at 2-08-2011 05:02 AM (12 years ago)
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am always vry afraid wen ex matters arises...old flames are can be rekindle again
Posted: at 2-08-2011 05:02 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 2-08-2011 08:18 AM (12 years ago)
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No i wudn do dat..It can bring som unwanted problems.
Posted: at 2-08-2011 08:18 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 2-08-2011 09:51 AM (12 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes

Posted: at 2-08-2011 09:51 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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