hey y'all, i hope u guys debate well on this topic cos am confused. my name is damilola,male 18yrs and i av been kinda wondering about wether i can survive teen age without sex, for now my answer is yes. i find it dis-heartening with the rate at which teen pregnancy are rising. is it not in this world that we once had the likes of holy virgin mary. if a survey is to be taking on the virginity of we the modern day tenn, it would be difficult to get 15 percentage of virgins which is bad. hope we can find a solution to this cos GOD is watching Us. thanks
Posted: at 5-11-2007 02:26 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Hell no no one can go without sex until marriage....lol..lol..just playing..well really where i stand on that issue is that it depends on the individual on whether they wanna wait til marriage or not..it's all on you..but then again..people chooses to remain virgins til marriage for many reasons..just like the one you mentioned above..I wouldn't suggest that someone have sex unless they're ready to face the consequences that might occur..But if you think that you're not ready for any of those unplanned shit..I suggest abstinence til marriage...but its good though..lol..don't mind me..easy...
Posted: at 5-11-2007 05:00 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I agree with you to some extent. But i believe u should know your partner inside out before marrying them and i think that includes the physical aspect of relationships. I believe its better to know wether or not u have that deeper, intimate connection between you to avoid any surprises. so i personally condone sex before marriage but as vixen said, it depends on the individual. but its promising and brilliant o know there's still guys like u around that think about sex beyond its simple pleasures. keep it up. God bless. xxxx
Posted: at 5-11-2007 07:20 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 6-11-2007 06:04 AM (16 years ago) (f)
hhhmmmmm....its up to individual...i guess if u love ur partner a lot and has been together for long,why not have sex.....but of course,prepare for the consequences...anyway i feel that u are still too young to think about all these....just concentrate on ur studies....there is no need to go bogus or mind-boggling for this kinda issues....sex comes with maturity and u have to be mature enough to have it...
sex before marriage has a lot of complications and the after effects last a life time. Its best if you can abstain till you marry its the best and its good for you. I know a lot of people who are doing this and its not as if they are boring or weird no. Its just that they wanna do it right and reap all the joyand fufilments associated with it.
You have a few years to spend as a youth so enjoy it and dont start what you ought to do when an adult now cos you have the rest of your life to live as an adult. Hey face your studies and stop bothering on non issues. God will lead you aright.
NOTHING IS GOTTEN EXCEPT ITS GIVEN FROM ABOVE
Posted: at 8-11-2007 11:46 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
Its 100% achieveable and a smart thing to do... Forget the whole experienced lover bullshit... A lover willing to PLEASE you beats any experience anywhere. Cheers Y'all
Posted: at 23-11-2007 06:59 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
hey y'all, i hope u guys debate well on this topic cos am confused. my name is damilola,male 18yrs and i av been kinda wondering about wether i can survive teen age without sex, for now my answer is yes. i find it dis-heartening with the rate at which teen pregnancy are rising. is it not in this world that we once had the likes of holy virgin mary. if a survey is to be taking on the virginity of we the modern day tenn, it would be difficult to get 15 percentage of virgins which is bad. hope we can find a solution to this cos GOD is watching Us. thanks
Damasco7, you wont loose anything by waiting. There's really no big deal to sex. you dont get any throphies either. Wait till your woman can BRAG about you to ppl without holding back in fear or shame or exposure to ridicule and mockery, or any of those negative feelings that arent supposed to be associated with it in the first place. Start by avoiding gatherings or meetings in places where you'll be vulnerable. For the rest of y'all dissing him or any other person just cos you feel you have no say in this issue, please find another topic to contribute to besides this one. Cheers
Posted: at 23-11-2007 07:08 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
igbovixen at 23-11-2007 08:18 PM (16 years ago) (f)
well i don't know how it is for guys when dey wait, but me as a girl i plan to wait because i feel lyke a man will respect me more knowing i waited, as hard as it is these days, u knoe? and as spiritual as i am, for me to lose it now, i would feel lyke i failed god in some way. but see i think it's okay for me to remain a virgin till i get married, but if i don't knoe if i would want to marry a virgin...i mean, if i don't knoe what im doing and my husband doesn't knoe wat he's doing, then....u see the complication? lol but yea whether u should lose it or not depends on u solely and how u feel about who ur losing it to. but remaining a virgin until ur married CAN b done. it's HARD...ooh trust me, but it can b done.
Posted: at 23-11-2007 08:18 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
seun_love at 24-11-2007 04:09 AM (16 years ago) (f)
hmmmmm to me i will say it is good to be virgin, infact it's best. WOW i can't belive there are people like u who want to abstain from sex, becos the world is so crasy everything it's all abt sex, that's good boy keep. i wHiCH U wiLL keep Ur Virginity.
Posted: at 24-11-2007 04:09 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Guy, I think there is notin dats gonna kill u if u wait for marriage. Its d kolest tin 2 do,i mean if ure not taken 2 listenin 2 lots of dirty junks. Keep ureslf and be urerself chao!!
Posted: at 30-11-2007 01:57 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
myragonza at 1-12-2007 10:30 AM (16 years ago) (f)
well.......i think its up to u....if u feell and think u wanna stay that way...then its good....but if u wanna do it but ur mind says no,think again....we can't control ourselves...things are bound to happen....furthermore,when we control ourselves too much,u tend to do worse things when u get the chance....but whatever it is,u have to be responsible for ur doings....think ahead....
Umbrella at 24-12-2007 07:08 PM (16 years ago) (f)
dpnds on hw lng u want to stay until u get married... it's possible...... u jst need to not find eachother attractive enough so ur nt horny... or u cud wank instead
Posted: at 24-12-2007 07:08 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
I would say phyuk all dat shit about waiting for marriage cause quite frankly the only ppl willing to wait for marriage are virgins...they haven't tasted the apple yet so they don't know how it feels when it's inside the ....and besides..they got some fake ass hoes running around claiming to be virgins and then when they finally hook up wit a dude..he jumps in like it was an ocean.....so free and open..if u get what i'm saying..so bottom point is...phyuk IF YOU MUST..AND THEN WAIT TIL UR MARRIED IF YOU CAN...Shit dick is good and u be lying if u say otherwise...........BITE ME
Posted: at 24-12-2007 09:05 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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