CAN SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN HEARTBROKEN FIND ANOTHER PERSON WHO'S BETTER FOR THEM?

Date: 07-09-2010 3:22 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Boma Peterside
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- at 7-09-2010 03:22 PM (13 years ago)
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What I meant by better, is that someone who'll love them the way they should (I mean, no goodbye) and who'm they'll love back too in a sense that... that person wouldn't be just a someone to 'forget' the person who broke up with them..............

I mean........... would someone who has been heartbroken be able to trully love someone even more?

Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- esonu at 7-09-2010 03:24 PM (13 years ago)
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o yea but u have to watch ur back to avoid another hit and run

Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 7-09-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago)
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And how do u watch your back, Esonu?
Stay on guard all the time or something?

Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 7-09-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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If u get ur heart broken dat na ur can of red bull.....4 me, i live my life d way i want

Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 7-09-2010 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster yea esonu is rite becos they are many of them out there wait and pretending to be good and nice. just be careful sweetheart
Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 7-09-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-09-2010 03:26 PM
And how do u watch your back, Esonu?
Stay on guard all the time or something?
i know de format i can use if i've suffered any hrt break before,,but i think de major thing one should do after recovering from a hrt break is this:
Do not love another man/woman with all ur hrt.. let it be 5o-5o so dat when de whole stuff comes again, u can be able to withstand it

Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bomsiluv at 7-09-2010 03:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on  7-09-2010 03:30 PM
@poster yea esonu is rite becos they are many of them out there wait and pretending to be good and nice. just be careful sweetheart

Thanks dearie.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 7-09-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on  7-09-2010 03:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-09-2010 03:26 PM
And how do u watch your back, Esonu?
Stay on guard all the time or something?
i know de format i can use if i've suffered any hrt break before,,but i think de major thing one should do after recovering from a hrt break is this:
Do not love another man/woman with all ur hrt.. let it be 5o-5o so dat when de whole stuff comes again, u can be able to withstand it

Aha!
So,self control when it's about feelings?  Undecided
You must give me the recipe because for me it's all nothing, no middle ways!


Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- oyindabty at 7-09-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago)
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U are welcom
Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bomsiluv at 7-09-2010 03:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  7-09-2010 03:28 PM
If u get ur heart broken dat na ur can of red bull.....4 me, i live my life d way i want

I don't need ya advice. There are thousand and one pals ready to help me out. I don't need yours okey.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 7-09-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-09-2010 03:36 PM
Quote from: esonu on  7-09-2010 03:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-09-2010 03:26 PM
And how do u watch your back, Esonu?
Stay on guard all the time or something?
i know de format i can use if i've suffered any hrt break before,,but i think de major thing one should do after recovering from a hrt break is this:
Do not love another man/woman with all ur hrt.. let it be 5o-5o so dat when de whole stuff comes again, u can be able to withstand it


Aha!
So,self control when it's about feelings?  Undecided
You must give me the recipe because for me it's all OR nothing, no middle ways!



Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 7-09-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Yes you can..................Many people who found true love today have at one time or the other been heartbroken....they just got over it and moved on..........And how long it will take to getting over the whole thing might depend on certain things:

(1)  How deep you have gone

(2)  Your temperament

(3)  If you havent/have been double dating

(4)  How highly/lowly you have placed that place, etc.


Posted: at 7-09-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 7-09-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Bomsiluv or wetin be ur name,wats ur probs? Did i direct my comments at u? Borrow urself brain o!

Posted: at 7-09-2010 04:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 7-09-2010 04:39 PM (13 years ago)
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i dey come

Posted: at 7-09-2010 04:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 7-09-2010 07:26 PM (13 years ago)
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@Poster.Yes its possible ,but you just have to let ur past be ur past.Maybe the new person might be an heaven sent.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 07:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-09-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago)
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yes why not...but betta u dont rush urself from one relationship to an oda, cuz tht doesnt work out!

Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- JAZZLYNN at 7-09-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Smeone that has been heartbroken can find a better person. But the next time u enter in 2 a relationship try not 2 fall in love so easy, use your head n not ur heart, most of all try not 2 punish them for ur past relationship. Bcause if u do u might just push them away n u may never know if they could have been the one 4 u.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 08:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 7-09-2010 11:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bomsiluv on  7-09-2010 03:22 PM
What I meant by better, is that someone who'll love them the way they should (I mean, no goodbye) and who'm they'll love back too in a sense that... that person wouldn't be just a someone to 'forget' the person who broke up with them..............

I mean........... would someone who has been heartbroken be able to trully love someone even more?

life is in phases.... so whenever u have a failed r/ships it simply means that the one who disappointed u were never truly yours..  or that those involve were actually not meant for each other...   so? u move on cos the one who 'll truly love u is yet on the way.
Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- DarkCoco at 7-09-2010 11:25 PM (13 years ago)
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ofcourse, buh u will hve to find urself after the heartbreak so u dont make da decision with a clear head

Posted: at 7-09-2010 11:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bomsiluv at 8-09-2010 09:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  7-09-2010 04:05 PM
Bomsiluv or wetin be ur name,wats ur probs? Did i direct my comments at u? Borrow urself brain o!

I know you have excess so could you please borrow me some?
Posted: at 8-09-2010 09:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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