Is it wrong for a woman to produce money for her own dowry and hand to her fiancé to pay as brideprice on her? ladies let me hear you and guys will you wholeheartedly accept such an offer?
Posted: at 25-10-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Is it wrong for a woman to produce money for her own dowry and hand to her fiancé to pay as brideprice on her? ladies let me hear you and guys will you wholeheartedly accept such an offer?
well,for my own view when it comes to wedding arrangement.....is not a bad idea if the woman assist [to who to be her hubby]with the little she can.
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Posted: at 25-10-2010 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mydicksweet at 25-10-2010 05:02 PM (13 years ago) (m)
I dont think it's a bad idea....there's nothing wrong in that. gone are the days that the whole responsibility of a wedding ceremony would be on the mans pucket alone we are in a new age so everything has to be new...........
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
I dont think it's a bad idea....there's nothing wrong in that. gone are the days that the whole responsibility of a wedding ceremony would be on the mans pucket alone we are in a new age so everything has to be new...........
but is not going o be 50/50 sha
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Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
divineproject at 25-10-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 25-10-2010 04:54 PM
Is it wrong for a woman to produce money for her own dowry and hand to her fiancé to pay as brideprice on her? ladies let me hear you and guys will you wholeheartedly accept such an offer?
Produce the bride price, and I will help you with some other arrangement...........
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Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 25-10-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Agreed not 50-50 but weight more on men. What if the woman has more than the man and wish to have it grandiose while the man can afford for a modest ceremony. Will she only be assisting/support or foot the bill according to her test?
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Oh really......and what exactly do u mean by he should stand as a man?
A real man would wnt 2 finish evrything abt marrying his wife (both Trad/Wedding). By d way,,, is it right 4 a woman 2 marry herself? where a woman marries herself in2 a man's home,,, what do u call dat kinda marriage? And what do u xpect thereafter?
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Emmandazie at 25-10-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Pepesy on 25-10-2010 05:16 PM
Quote from: my*****sweet on 25-10-2010 05:09 PM
Oh really......and what exactly do u mean by he should stand as a man?
A real man would wnt 2 finish evrything abt marrying his wife (both Trad/Wedding). By d way,,, is it right 4 a woman 2 marry herself? where a woman marries herself in2 a man's home,,, what do u call dat kinda marriage? And what do u xpect thereafter?
Exactly, this pôst is to know if a woman who does that will stand to give the same respect to her husband
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mydicksweet at 25-10-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) (m)
What i'm trying to say here is that..what if the man is not finacially fit and the woman in question has some little money... will it be a crime if she support the man.........what u women dont understand here is that being a real man is not all about if u have money it's just sad that u women just want the whole thing to be on the man's pucket which is unfair
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
solojaro at 25-10-2010 05:25 PM (13 years ago) (m)
It is not good for a woman to pay for her bride price. There will be no respect for the man as a husband, it will means that the has now becomes the husband and the he will never have any say in that marriage. but I believe that in some countries women do pay for their husband bride price but how true it is is what I do not know.
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Oh really......and what exactly do u mean by he should stand as a man?
A real man would wnt 2 finish evrything abt marrying his wife (both Trad/Wedding). By d way,,, is it right 4 a woman 2 marry herself? where a woman marries herself in2 a man's home,,, what do u call dat kinda marriage? And what do u xpect thereafter?
Exactly, this pôst is to know if a woman who does that will stand to give the same respect to her husband
Well,,, in dis case,,, evry woman would claim 2 b submissive. But tym shall tell.
Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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