He has proposed and while doing that, he has proudly slipped a ring on your middle finger. Hmmm, you are so happy and feels like jumping up! Yes, yes, yes.....at last he has proposed. But after the euphoria, what next? 3, 6, 9 months after that, nothing. One year has gone, yet nothing. It is now 3 years and you are still spotting the ring, yet no marriage. What could be wrong?
I was going over this situation in my mind and my 'little man' told me many things could have informed the proposal in the first place. I want us to try and examine what could have gone wrong. What can one do if one finds oneself in this situation? In this case, I see that proposal as a ploy by the guy to tie the lady down, probably he has spotted a rival........a way of keeping your rivals away........but honestly can that ring keep serious rivals away?......hmmm so many questions.........
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Posted: at 26-10-2010 06:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
mydicksweet at 26-10-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Thinking and beside who is the little man ur talking about?
Posted: at 26-10-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
He has proposed and while doing that, he has proudly slipped a ring on your middle finger. Hmmm, you are so happy and feels like jumping up! Yes, yes, yes.....at last he has proposed. But after the euphoria, what next? 3, 6, 9 months after that, nothing. One year has gone, yet nothing. It is now 3 years and you are still spotting the ring, yet no marriage. What could be wrong?
I was going over this situation in my mind and my 'little man' told me many things could have informed the proposal in the first place. I want us to try and examine what could have gone wrong. What can one do if one finds oneself in this situation? In this case, I see that proposal as a ploy by the guy to tie the lady down, probably he has spotted a rival........a way of keeping your rivals away........but honestly can that ring keep serious rivals away?......hmmm so many questions.........
Maybe we Should go ask those Ones dat Do it
They will have the Best Answer
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 26-10-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
that is exactly my point in my RING TOPIC... a guy will give you ring to tie you down why he wear engagement ring too dey gey two head
back to topic... in this case i believe that a guy should engage you when he is getting ready to settle down and after proposing, he should get married to that person between one to two years( that 1 or two years is to see if you still have your good qualities...just to be 100% certain! i suppose)
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
juleshotluv at 27-10-2010 02:55 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 26-10-2010 06:05 PM
Engagement ring: A sign of commitment?
He has proposed and while doing that, he has proudly slipped a ring on your middle finger. Hmmm, you are so happy and feels like jumping up! Yes, yes, yes.....at last he has proposed. But after the euphoria, what next? 3, 6, 9 months after that, nothing. One year has gone, yet nothing. It is now 3 years and you are still spotting the ring, yet no marriage. What could be wrong?
I was going over this situation in my mind and my 'little man' told me many things could have informed the proposal in the first place. I want us to try and examine what could have gone wrong. What can one do if one finds oneself in this situation? In this case, I see that proposal as a ploy by the guy to tie the lady down, probably he has spotted a rival........a way of keeping your rivals away........but honestly can that ring keep serious rivals away?......hmmm so many questions.........
Some men who propose to a woman and then spend years before getting married to then is due to the fact that they dont have the money yet although, they do want to spend their life with the woman so, they propose so that another man would not come and take her away.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 02:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
honestly? i thnk a guy who does tht did it in order to tie the girl to himself so as to keep other guys away. bt truly he might love ths girl cos thts the only reason for tying her down only tht financially, he might nt be ready yet.
we all knw wht bride price & engagement ceremony cost cn dry a guys pocket in ths economic crunch na! especially if the girl is frm tht lovely 'money matter tribe'...omo no be small thing oo, she wait tire
Posted: at 27-10-2010 08:24 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 27-10-2010 12:05 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Thomax on 27-10-2010 08:24 AM
honestly? i thnk a guy who does tht did it in order to tie the girl to himself so as to keep other guys away. bt truly he might love ths girl cos thts the only reason for tying her down only tht financially, he might nt be ready yet.
we all knw wht bride price & engagement ceremony cost cn dry a guys pocket in ths economic crunch na! especially if the girl is frm tht lovely 'money matter tribe'...omo no be small thing oo, she wait tire
That tribe does not do what you call engagement ceremony......how about that?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 27-10-2010 12:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 27-10-2010 12:10 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mydicksweet on 26-10-2010 06:08 PM
Thinking and beside who is the little man ur talking about?
See you....your mind don dey run riot now.........I meant the little voice inside of me, that speaks to me in the quiet........dont u have any such thing inside of you?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 27-10-2010 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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