Pray God will reveal the rite one for you.
u kiddin..dnt 4get wat Adam said about d wife God gav him...God has given us d optunit to chose 4oursef.
Choosing for urself is a gamble thing, likewise lettin others choose for you.. Only God knows the ryt one for u... ask him for help!
agreed that God has a role to play, but u may have to do some work b4 then, and leave d final say to God.
first focus on personality and xter, cos nothing kills love and libido faster than a mannerless, talkative and troublesome babe. and no matter wat anyone says, u r not going to spend ur whole lives in bed. u may even find out that the only time u get to have a little time to ur selves might be sometime between 3 and 4 o'clock in d morning, and it may not b everyday. wat happens d rest of the timeu r together then?
make sure u can make her laff and she can make u laff or at least keep u entertained, or else d day nigeria go declare sit-at-home for this dia never ending election and cabinet reshufflement, u go hear nwin. she can stand up to stress and can think clearly in a crisis, after all at some point she would be raising ur kids, abi! the compatibility in bed will yield results now- u dont want a bunch of erratic stubborn and mannerless morons bearing ur last nname do u? even if she cant think for u she should b able to guide ur thots, cos women have dat unique gift of thinking of d future and wouldnt want to entrtain anything that may jeopadize (if not urs) her childrens future. she should be able to adopt ur family (some women have d uncanny ability to stay detached from her husbands pipl even if shes been married 4 ten years.
there r so many things u should look out 4, and if u dont think with ur groins, i promise u'll c these issues surface.
then u take her good and bad together and weigh it together and ask urself if her sins r so much u can afford to do away with wat little good can b found in her, or if her bad nature is not enuff to deterr u from enjoying the good dats in her.
when u r through with dat, u can now call in God to sort out that unknown quantity in her, something that if u court her 4 10 years u maynot find out. if He says ur head strong pass her own u can now proceed and marry or at least bring the relationship to a fiance- fiancee level(i dont do d premarital sex rap).
and dont worry- na God make u, if He knows he put the libido of a stud in u, Him go find u horse that can take all d heat u can give. so wat if she no no styles-u have fun teaching her. wey hurry?
i will foward my bill later.
Posted: at 24-10-2008 06:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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