Help ... I am pregnant for him but .....

Date: 18-12-2010 10:59 am (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- at 18-12-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago)
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she ran into our house last night..........."Blessing i do dis guy's laundry, house chores, cook for him and d likes.......and also serve him well on bed too..............now I AM PREGNANT for HIM, but he want an abortion.....cos He is scared of breaking his engage bride-to-be's heart.........and doesnt know wat to tell d family & friends, d pastor who are aware of this courtship and his upcoming wedding to his fiancee..........................but i want to keep d baby.....pls what do i do?

Pals according to her before she and dis guy started d r/ship, he had told her about his fiancee whom he had been courting for close to a year now and intended getting married to her by next year......the guy has sleept with d fiancee just once and bcos he doesnt want to be sleeping wif her often, he sent her to Abuja to stay and work with a friend of his.

pals what i want to know are these:

1. could he (d guy) be using this girl as a sex mate/bed warmer or using her to satisfy his urge?
2. why was he reserving his fiancee? Is it that he had more respect for her than d already pregnant one?
3. what should she do? cos presently she is very confused and in a delima

Posted: at 18-12-2010 10:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
- HearMyCry at 18-12-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago)
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Do you play with fire and hope it doesnt burn you?

She was just being used and she knew it
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago)
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The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! 
Obviously he used her!
What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time!
She must keep the baby,no matter what!

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 18-12-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago)
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Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own
ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy
In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:19 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 18-12-2010 11:21 AM (13 years ago)
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Dat ur friend na stupid idiot!


make she no use her dirty poosy spoil some serious relationship ooo


her common sense suppose tell her say da guy no need am

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:21 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago)
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She made a very very big mistake by sleeping with that guy, knowing nottin was gonna come out of it!

The guy used her segxwaly, there is nottin more, nottin less, and NO RESPECT !

She shud keep the baby, and forget abt the guy.... make she tink betta next time!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago)
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And like dis gals go complain men r wicked! She knew abt his future wife, she wasnt supose to go near d guy!

AM TIRED OF HOME BREAKERS!!!!!!!!  Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:24 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pointzero at 18-12-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 11:24 AM
And like dis gals go complain men r wicked! She knew abt his future wife, she wasnt supose to go near d guy!

AM TIRED OF HOME BREAKERS!!!!!!!!  Angry Angry Angry


Cotton wool body,Amebo...............did she say he rape am.......the thing dey consensual.........Do me i do u,man no go vex.

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 11:30 AM (13 years ago)
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they r both stupid, but d gal pass everytin
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 11:18 AM
The main mistake of your friend was that she accepted a relationship with that guy knowing that he's already engaged! 
Obviously he used her!
What she expected him to do? Dump his fiancée because she remained pregnant? She deceived herself big time!
She must keep the baby,no matter what!

i quite agree wif u dat she made a very big mistake, cos most times wen she tell me abt dis guy
i always try to talk her out but she never listen to me
now here comes d result
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on 18-12-2010 11:19 AM
Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own
ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy
In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am
d guy actually used her to achieve his aim, like d house chores etc and correct servicing on bed
but d guy no try oooo
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago)
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My sweet, actions have consequences...first rule of life. And the second rule is this - you are the only one responsible for your own actions.

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:35 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 18-12-2010 11:21 AM
Dat ur friend na stupid idiot!


make she no use her dirty poosy spoil some serious relationship ooo


her common sense suppose tell her say da guy no need am
maybe na affection/lust at first sight
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 11:35 AM
My sweet, actions have consequences...first rule of life. And the second rule is this - you are the only one responsible for your own actions.
Exactly!
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-12-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago)
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 Wink Cool

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:38 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 11:24 AM
And like dis gals go complain men r wicked! She knew abt his future wife, she wasnt supose to go near d guy!

AM TIRED OF HOME BREAKERS!!!!!!!!  Angry Angry Angry

abeg no dey voke too much naaaa
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pointzero at 18-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 18-12-2010 11:35 AM
Quote from: Pointzero on 18-12-2010 11:19 AM
Ur 1st and 2nd question,i got this answer 4 'em....The guy just dey preserve him Eagle's egg dey shop chicken own
ur 3rd question,If dis tori na real i no go advise make she abort am...................d polo don dey be say e don dey,so dem go carry there cross.Afta all na pain afta joy
In conclusion...........i like dis guy cos him don prove himself.Incase 2moro him wife no born pikin make d world no call am impotent cos him don get evidence 2 defend am
d guy actually used her to achieve his aim, like d house chores etc and correct servicing on bed
but d guy no try oooo

the guy don prove him manliness. ceteris paribus.i feel 4 the scape mmee sha

Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 18-12-2010 11:30 AM
they r both stupid, but d gal pass everytin
d girl has everything to loose and to become a single mum
in d guy's bedroom he has a portrait of his fiancee just opposite his bed according to her
and that should ve told her everything she needs to know, and d guy even went as far as telling her
dat his fiancee is like a part of him
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago)
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blessed, sweetie, if the wife find out abt his adeventure wat is gonna happen u tink?

Only if she is a person with gud heart she will forgive him, wen we all knw how love is not sometin

they com giv u on a tray.... I am just tired of gals who can not say no or they refuse to go luk for single men
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 18-12-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-12-2010 11:35 AM
My sweet, actions have consequences...first rule of life. And the second rule is this - you are the only one responsible for your own actions.[/color]
agreed
Posted: at 18-12-2010 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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