'Aborted Daughter' Re-Appears After Ten Years

An acquaintance of mine  man had a string of intimate moments with one pretty girl who had come to visit within his neighbourhood. She fell pregnant and broke the news to him. Upon his insistence she agreed to abort the baby and he gave her the needed money. After she left his neigbourhood he never heard from her until now, over two decades later.

His mobile phone rang and guess who it was - the daughter he thought was aborted.

She's a university graduate working for an insurance company and preparing for her wedding. And she wants no other man but her own dad to give her over to her bridegroom on that special day.

My friend is panicking! (I gather her mum brought her up single handedly as she's a well-to-do career woman).

Any advice for him.

Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Really? Dont' tell me it's so common!

Posted: at 22-12-2010 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Truth is he really wants to do that but he doesn't know how to begin to say 'sorry' to both mum and daughter. He hasn't even seen the mother yet; and he has his own wife and two sons to break the news to!

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:04 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

nothing there..na just mind and liver en need to gather.

he has to contact the mum thru the girl, but first say the sorry to the girl, give her a big treat. tell his wife what happened in the past and the whole story, gather the kids and wife and tell them how it happened. but i assure u, he really needs to be sure, cos the wife might fel somehow.. how come the woman didnt abort the child anymore and how come she didnt let the man no of her moves.. ok maybe she changed her mind thou! but he should just accept her with fate.. introduce her to the rest of his kids as brothers and sister... i believe if the family is a God fearing family they will understand and accept her.

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Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

think well
maybe my own no go do

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Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:25 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ok. D man shd honor her daughter's invitatn. 4 d fact dat her daughter remember n invited him is a proof dat d girl has forgiven n let go

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes oooo

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:34 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Should he also explain abt the decision to abort?

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Wow u r such a blessing ... SERIOUS!

Posted: at 22-12-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Guys you've been very helpful ... so PALS can really be great reservoirs of wisdom if they choose to. PLEASE keep it up!

Watch this space; I should be able to give you all an update next week!

AGAIN I say 'THANKS'!

Posted: at 22-12-2010 11:06 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming