What is the solution to this problem?

Date: 28-12-2010 2:01 am (13 years ago) | Author: nurabela
- at 28-12-2010 02:01 AM (13 years ago)
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''I am an ugly looking, midget, and not very intelligent 31 year old virgin male. I don't have any problem being like this except that I fail to attract females all the time. I don't drink/smoke, and I am otherwise healthy(gym going) and clean individual. Its just that my face is ugly and am an average in department of intelligence. Personality wise also I not a very charming character but just an average person trying to get on with life. Probably if I were a female I would not have go one out with 'this me', so what should I do?
There is no self esteem issue with me. I am a confident person about my thoughts and am capable to thinking about my positives and negatives equally and objectively. I have mentioned all my negative things here because I think they are the cause and am either trying to overcome them or circumvent them. All the things are honest to every detail I have mentioned.''

Posted: at 28-12-2010 02:01 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- ILOVEIT at 28-12-2010 02:16 AM (13 years ago)
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how ugly are u? coz a man is never call ugly as long as you get the swag & some $$$$$. as you can see taya taiwo,ndeffi of cameroun ,taribo west even obasanjo. some people think they're ugly but they do have gorgeous babes lol..on a serious note,first of all you need to wipeout that negative thought of yours being "ugly",as soon you start realizing that you aren't ugly believe me you will get a girl..and one more is to increase( spice up your confident) & change some of your attitude..
the rest will be history my dude.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 02:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 28-12-2010 02:22 AM (13 years ago)
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 that's wat makes you human just like me and others.no one is perfect and we are all lovely creatures of God..there is no such thing as a perfect man or woman.I'm sorry but it seems you have got sum self esteem issues.you dont need to be too "over yourself",but try to focus more on the positive than the negative.and maybe this is not the right time for you,when the time comes you will know.pray to for a good woman.not everywoman is LOOKING FOR A SPERM DONOR.



Posted: at 28-12-2010 02:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 28-12-2010 02:39 AM (13 years ago)
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@onyin but he said he get no self esteem issues...his main problem is that he think he's ugly and that negative thought has been eating up his mind. & u mention "not the right time for him" but you can see that he's 31years old not longer a kid..

once again @poster wipe off all that negative!negative!!negative!!! thought of yours.then it will work.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 02:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 28-12-2010 03:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-12-2010 02:39 AM
@onyin but he said he get no self esteem issues...his main problem is that he think he's ugly and that negative thought has been eating up his mind. & u mention "not the right time for him" but you can see that he's 31years old not longer a kid..

once again @poster wipe off all that negative!negative!!negative!!! thought of yours.then it will work.
true talk.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 03:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Vixenx at 28-12-2010 03:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nurabela on 28-12-2010 02:01 AM

''I am an ugly looking, midget, and not very intelligent 31 year old virgin male. I don't have any problem being like this except that I fail to attract females all the time. I don't drink/smoke, and I am otherwise healthy(gym going) and clean individual. Its just that my face is ugly and am an average in department of intelligence. Personality wise also I not a very charming character but just an average person trying to get on with life. Probably if I were a female I would not have go one out with 'this me', so what should I do?
There is no self esteem issue with me. I am a confident person about my thoughts and am capable to thinking about my positives and negatives equally and objectively. I have mentioned all my negative things here because I think they are the cause and am either trying to overcome them or circumvent them. All the things are honest to every detail I have mentioned.''


Damn!! how can a human being talk about themselves this way? Can I suggest you go and see a shrink?
Posted: at 28-12-2010 03:41 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 28-12-2010 05:05 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nurabela on 28-12-2010 02:01 AM

''I am an ugly looking, midget, and not very intelligent 31 year old virgin male. I don't have any problem being like this except that I fail to attract females all the time. I don't drink/smoke, and I am otherwise healthy(gym going) and clean individual. Its just that my face is ugly and am an average in department of intelligence. Personality wise also I not a very charming character but just an average person trying to get on with life. Probably if I were a female I would not have go one out with 'this me', so what should I do?
There is no self esteem issue with me. I am a confident person about my thoughts and am capable to thinking about my positives and negatives equally and objectively. I have mentioned all my negative things here because I think they are the cause and am either trying to overcome them or circumvent them. All the things are honest to every detail I have mentioned.''

Read the bible and see yourself in the eyes of God..He said you are fearfully and wonderfully made as well as created in the image of God. I hope you think better of yourself poster.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 05:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pointzero at 28-12-2010 06:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Hey dude,just try n make good livin n ur tears of sorrow will change to tears of joy.
Moreover Hu told u dat u r ugly
Posted: at 28-12-2010 06:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 28-12-2010 09:46 AM (13 years ago)
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My dear, u dont have to be all that negativ abt urself!
All God creations are beautiful! If u feel u are not that handsome, maybe u should take some
time out for urself... Go shopping for nice clothes, go visit spa, go gym, after u go out with som friends
and try enjoy ursef, build up som attitude, get som confidence! If u show tht to d ladies they will apreciate tht!
No woman dislike a confident man, dressed clean and nice, who get body in shape.....

Pls no talk abt ursef like dis, WOMEN DONT LIKE TO HEAR TINS LIKE DAT, ITS A TURN OFF

Good luck  Wink Kiss
Posted: at 28-12-2010 09:46 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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