My family wants me to marry a Nigerian girl, am in love with another (Page 2)

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Ucynice (263)
Upcoming (m) | 2 years ago

Quote from: ksurrina on Jan 14 2011, 12:01 AM

Sit your parents down and let them know that you are not in Nigeria and so don't know about this Nigerian girl. The lifestyle she is living and that you cannot put your trust into someone that you never develop a friendship with. Marry the girl that around you, you have build this friendship and you have learn to love her. No family members should choose for you. We are no longer under the covenant where parents choose for their children.

Thanks for your advice.
my mother is trying to pull me dowm with tears in her eyes, i think the best thing i have to do is to get married to the girl i love and when we have 1 or 2 baby i will bring her home to show my family.


posted: Jan 14 2011, 02:59 PM

divineproject (12816)
Naijapals Hero (f) | 2 years ago

Quote from: yemtop75 on Jan 14 2011, 06:13 AM

jump into the lagoon to know which way to go. are you a baby?

Does this pix belong to you or you are posing with another person's pix?.....becos I dont understand how a seemingly matured man would talk like dis......

Poster, at the end of the day, who will live with the woman?.......your friends/family or you?.....let them understand that this is your life...and it is better you make your mistake by yourself and be sure, than for some people to come choosing wife for you......this is becoming rampant down here

A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:00 PM

truenaija2 (5649)
Naijapals Addict (f) | 2 years ago

marriage is too complicated and its a lifelong for someoneelse to decide for u marry only someone u think u can spend d rest of ur life with


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:09 PM

sobeit (7590)
Naijapals Hero (m) | 2 years ago

@poster almost all the comments minus that immature commentmade from yemtop,are the right thing to do.
you gonna live with her not your family.but try your best to convince them ok! goodluck!


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:11 PM

MissyBarbie (15216)
Naijapals Hero (f) | 2 years ago

I dey come make i yawn finish


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:11 PM

FlyMamacita (26261)
Addicted Hero (f) | 2 years ago

advice full hia


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:12 PM

chiglamour4u (3442)
Naijapals Addict (f) | 2 years ago

following ur heart is good but then disobeying ur parent is nt right but this marriage case and u ar d one to live with her. so u hv to be sure the girl wnt disappoint u latter cos if she do ur parent will nt be there to listen, they will say they warned u. goodluck


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:14 PM

blings_is_back (12816)
Naijapals Hero (m) | 2 years ago

ur the one who's getting married not ur family...... follow ur heart... but what happened to naija girls?


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:16 PM

kebella (43668)
Addicted Hero (f) | 2 years ago

Quote from: bittersweet on Jan 13 2011, 06:49 PM

Listen to your heart!

YU' VE SAID IT ALL

my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:18 PM

bittersweet (14462)
Naijapals Hero (f) | 2 years ago

Quote from: Ucynice on Jan 14 2011, 02:42 PM

Quote from: bittersweet on Jan 13 2011, 06:49 PM

Listen to your heart!

i wish my family will understand that i know the best for my self.

Make them reason with you!
It's a choice for YOUR life,not theirs!
Good luck!

Live and let live!


posted: Jan 14 2011, 03:20 PM

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