![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 14-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago)  (f) hmm thank God you still luv home food cheii..you need a woman who will be able to prepare your favorite home food for you..whenever you hunger for it.
lol.you sound like a mum now.
@ilove my luv..i never said food is the main factor..but is one of the factors...
a naija man doesn't want to marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook..you know you men na..luv food to much.
understanding like you said yea...i agree with you.
the first thing a mother always ask her son..if he want to get married to a woman is..do she know how to cook?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 14-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) (f) @hopea..i understand you point..meaning food is the key factor for a man to love his wife..right? hmmm..remember that we have women who can cook very well but lack good manners..i guess u know that..love is far beyond foodstuff..is all about understanding..etc
@onyin..you make a point by mentioning "you don't believe in crazy love" which i totally agree with you coz real love does grow..
but remember what's important in ones life,is to get his/her own missing rips..which goes beyond tribes.
i've seen,still witnessing couples from difference tribe living in peace and harmony.
lol.biko,i'm not against that oo.like i said marry from anywhere you choose.but ask yourself ,if you can cope with this person.cos the real life begins after honey moon,days later,months later,or years later.when your partner starts irritating you ,boring you out,or when the "worst" begins.i'm definitely not against people marrying outside,my brother is getting married to a Ghanian.She's a good lady and we feel she can tolerate him.to put up with a man's attitude is no one day job.its a woman who holds the main key to a successful marriage. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 14-01-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) (f) @oniyn..where your brother dey..oyo introduce me to him..cheii fast fast...?
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 14-01-2011 11:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) @oniyn..where your brother dey..oyo introduce me to him..cheii fast fast...?
lol.Ghana don carry am go.you for come early now. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 14-01-2011 11:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) @oniyn..where your brother dey..oyo introduce me to him..cheii fast fast...?
lol.Ghana don carry am go.you for come early now. no no..is never too late..is berra to be late than never....the Ghana go fit still leave him for me.lol
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 14-01-2011 11:49 PM (13 years ago) (m) @hopea..i understand you point..meaning food is the key factor for a man to love his wife..right? hmmm..remember that we have women who can cook very well but lack good manners..i guess u know that..love is far beyond foodstuff..is all about understanding..etc
@onyin..you make a point by mentioning "you don't believe in crazy love" which i totally agree with you coz real love does grow..
but remember what's important in ones life,is to get his/her own missing rips..which goes beyond tribes.
i've seen,still witnessing couples from difference tribe living in peace and harmony.
lol.biko,i'm not against that oo.like i said marry from anywhere you choose.but ask yourself ,if you can cope with this person.cos the real life begins after honey moon,days later,months later,or years later.when your partner starts irritating you ,boring you out,or when the "worst" begins.i'm definitely not against people marrying outside,my brother is getting married to a Ghanian.She's a good lady and we feel she can tolerate him.to put up with a man's attitude is no one day job.its a woman who holds the main key to a successful marriage. now you have clarify ur stand....now! you mention about your brother marrying to a ghanian,and your family have seen this girl b4 believing that he will make a good wife to your brother..that's exactly my point,when i mention about "he should follow his heart but,try and convince his parents about this particular girl..i went on to say 'seeing is believing",meaning he should go home with the girl so that his family will able know her in person & study her.with this,trust me, if the girl is a good one the parents will definitely approve the marriage.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 14-01-2011 11:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) @oniyn..where your brother dey..oyo introduce me to him..cheii fast fast...?
lol.Ghana don carry am go.you for come early now. no no..is never too late..is berra to be late than never....the Ghana go fit still leave him for me.lol ok.you go be second wife now.lol | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 14-01-2011 11:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) @hopea..i understand you point..meaning food is the key factor for a man to love his wife..right? hmmm..remember that we have women who can cook very well but lack good manners..i guess u know that..love is far beyond foodstuff..is all about understanding..etc
@onyin..you make a point by mentioning "you don't believe in crazy love" which i totally agree with you coz real love does grow..
but remember what's important in ones life,is to get his/her own missing rips..which goes beyond tribes.
i've seen,still witnessing couples from difference tribe living in peace and harmony.
lol.biko,i'm not against that oo.like i said marry from anywhere you choose.but ask yourself ,if you can cope with this person.cos the real life begins after honey moon,days later,months later,or years later.when your partner starts irritating you ,boring you out,or when the "worst" begins.i'm definitely not against people marrying outside,my brother is getting married to a Ghanian.She's a good lady and we feel she can tolerate him.to put up with a man's attitude is no one day job.its a woman who holds the main key to a successful marriage. now you have clarify ur stand....now! you mention about your brother marrying to a ghanian,and your family have seen this girl b4 believing that he will make a good wife to your brother..that's exactly my point,when i mention about "he should follow his heart but,try and convince his parents about this particular girl..i went on to say 'seeing is believing",meaning he should go home with the girl so that his family will able know her in person & study her.with this,trust me, if the girl is a good one the parents will definitely approve the marriage. True talk.you are right. | Posted: at 14-01-2011 11:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago) (m) @hopea..i understand you point..meaning food is the key factor for a man to love his wife..right? hmmm..remember that we have women who can cook very well but lack good manners..i guess u know that..love is far beyond foodstuff..is all about understanding..etc
@onyin..you make a point by mentioning "you don't believe in crazy love" which i totally agree with you coz real love does grow..
but remember what's important in ones life,is to get his/her own missing rips..which goes beyond tribes.
i've seen,still witnessing couples from difference tribe living in peace and harmony.
lol.biko,i'm not against that oo.like i said marry from anywhere you choose.but ask yourself ,if you can cope with this person.cos the real life begins after honey moon,days later,months later,or years later.when your partner starts irritating you ,boring you out,or when the "worst" begins.i'm definitely not against people marrying outside,my brother is getting married to a Ghanian.She's a good lady and we feel she can tolerate him.to put up with a man's attitude is no one day job.its a woman who holds the main key to a successful marriage. now you have clarify ur stand....now! you mention about your brother marrying to a ghanian,and your family have seen this girl b4 believing that he will make a good wife to your brother..that's exactly my point,when i mention about "he should follow his heart but,try and convince his parents about this particular girl..i went on to say 'seeing is believing",meaning he should go home with the girl so that his family will able know her in person & study her.with this,trust me, if the girl is a good one the parents will definitely approve the marriage. True talk.you are right. that's how it suppose to be.for the cooking aspect, a good girl will be willing to learn. coz in life WE LIVE,WE LEARN & WE OVERCOME 
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:05 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 12:07 AM (13 years ago) (m) hmm thank God you still luv home food cheii..you need a woman who will be able to prepare your favorite home food for you..whenever you hunger for it.
lol.you sound like a mum now. ahahhahahaha...... @ilove my luv..i never said food is the main factor..but is one of the factors... a naija man doesn't want to marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook..you know you men na..luv food to much. understanding like you said yea...i agree with you. the first thing a mother always ask her son..if he want to get married to a woman is..do she know how to cook? TRUE! we nigerian men love food, but,if she's ready to learn...i see no problem in it.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:07 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 15-01-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago) (m) hmm thank God you still luv home food cheii..you need a woman who will be able to prepare your favorite home food for you..whenever you hunger for it.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 15-01-2011 01:14 AM (13 years ago) (f) @oniyn..where your brother dey..oyo introduce me to him..cheii fast fast...?
lol.Ghana don carry am go.you for come early now. no no..is never too late..is berra to be late than never....the Ghana go fit still leave him for me.lol ok.you go be second wife now.lol nor worry when it comes to choosen who to be the first..i will know how to position myself to be the number one.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 01:14 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "mazi") mazi at 15-01-2011 01:37 AM (13 years ago) (m) I NEED AN ADVICE BEFORE I MAKE A MISTAKE. MY FRIENDS AND MY FAMILY WANT ME TO MARRY A CITIZEN OF NIGERIA WHILE I AM IN LOVE WITH A GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA. I AM SO CONFUSED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. SHOULD I FOLLOW MY HEART AND CONTINUE MY LIFE WITH THE GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA OR I SHOULD LISTEN TO THE ADVICE OF MY PEOPLE AND COME BACK HOME AND MARRY FROM MY TRIBE.  
naturally i don't really care whr d babe is 4rm, but u hv to be sure u can deal wit d challenges.
well...one can equally understand ur parent's push. i'm sure ur parents hv sensible reasons why dey are against it.
think abt it, if u think hv a stronger reason then convince dem dat ur woman is equal to d challenges dat might arise.
dnt do big boy for ur parents, if u insist, get dem to give d girl a chance to see why u insist. . This is my life and i am aged enough to know the best i want. My family are only saying that i am the last born in that case i should marry from home.
cos if na bcos of only dt ur line(coloured) wee u think say sweet too much u r insisting. marriage is more dan dt crap. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 01:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Who said d od | Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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oooops 
Who said d oda woman can not learn how to cook his food? Who said dat is d most important tin?
Wht if they luv each oda, and he feels a connection with her? Wht if this woman is intelligent, sweet and caring
and dat is wht he is lookin for??
Personaly i dont tink it matters if u marry from ur tribe or even ur own culture, as long as u undastand ursef well!
Am also not a nigerian woman, but i cook for my man every day, whateva he want i can make it!! | Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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oooops
Who said d oda woman can not learn how to cook his food? Who said dat is d most important tin?
Wht if they luv each oda, and he feels a connection with her? Wht if this woman is intelligent, sweet and caring
and dat is wht he is lookin for??
Personaly i dont tink it matters if u marry from ur tribe or even ur own culture, as long as u undastand ursef well!
Am also not a nigerian woman, but i cook for my man every day, whateva he want i can make it!! 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Treasure2") Treasure2 at 15-01-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) (f) Experience is the best teacher, no matter what you say to a man, once he is in love, will never listen to you. Like Onyin said, life begin after honey moon and my dear, it takes the Grace of God to remain in it. @Poster, ILOVEIT hv told you what to do, bring her home for some weeks and let your parent help you see what u hv not seen. | Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I NEED AN ADVICE BEFORE I MAKE A MISTAKE. MY FRIENDS AND MY FAMILY WANT ME TO MARRY A CITIZEN OF NIGERIA WHILE I AM IN LOVE WITH A GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA. I AM SO CONFUSED AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. SHOULD I FOLLOW MY HEART AND CONTINUE MY LIFE WITH THE GUINEA GIRL I MET IN MACEDONIA OR I SHOULD LISTEN TO THE ADVICE OF MY PEOPLE AND COME BACK HOME AND MARRY FROM MY TRIBE. sorry to hear this but the truth is, when you get married you are the one that has to deal with that person not your parents, try to make them understand, because love has no race....................my dear the heart wants what the heart wants and if it aint Nigerian then so what, its your life to live | Posted: at 15-01-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 15-01-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) listen to ya parents | Posted: at 15-01-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "DiannaB") DiannaB at 15-01-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) (f) BE WITH WHO EVER MAKES YOU HAPPY, YOU SHOULD KNOW YOU CAN'T LIVE YOUE LIFE THROUGH YOUR FAMILY DONT EVER SACRIFICE YOUR HAPPINESS | Posted: at 15-01-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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