The woman is a good person.  One of the pastors major complaint to the magistrate is that he has been married to his wife for 12 years and no children was produced from this marriage. The pastor complained that the wife has fibroid and that has completely changed her as a person. He self-diagnosed his wife claiming that the fibroid has caused her to be aggressive, hostile, confrontational and lacked interest in sex. He then complained that his wife had abandoned him and moved out of their matrimonial home. He explained that he went to his wife's office to beg her to return back because God can still perform a miracle. He also claimed that his wife told him that God has asked her to seek to have a child elsewhere. The wife must obey God, but I doubt if she heard from God because God hates divorce. There is no discussion as to whether attempts were made to remove the fibroids. He only mentioned IVF. What type of quack doctor did IVF without first checking for fibroids and cysts? Did the fibroids come later? The magistrate has asked them to return in March 2011 so that he can hear his wife's defence and cross-examination of the complainant and wife. The man has acknowledged that his wife was sick and that her personality had changed. Patience is needed here by the pastor. In sickness and in health. The wife on the other hand may have accepted her fate that she may not be able to bear children for the man. She may be under a great deal of pressure from the pastor's family to leave especially when he travelled. She may love her husband too much that she has decided to sacrifice herself and her marriage in order to bring peace in the family. She is quite aware that the end result will be divorce so that her husband can marry somebody that could give him children. This is sacrifice at its highest order. I will like to wait to hear the wife's explanations before I can make my comments.
You have not only made your comments but have judged the pastor and his family as the guilty party. You have also added what was not in the script to the story. What a fertile imagination! Lucky You! | Posted: at 4-02-2011 03:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "xena15") xena15 at 4-02-2011 06:25 AM (13 years ago)  (f) WTF?
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! | Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:25 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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THIS MAN IS NOT A PASTOR; | Posted: at 4-02-2011 06:33 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:23 AM (13 years ago) (f) Honestly i dislike dis poster.Why did u have to single out sex as d reason why dis pastor is asking for divorce? didnt u read that d woman had already moved out of d house and dis pastor who is a gentleman decided to make it official.dis pastor is a patient guy for waiting dis long.Mr poster what wud have done if u were in his shoes?
Well said... I wonder why d poster had to use that headline/topic as if the pastor was the one at fault. Making some commentators to comment rubbish. Sometimes its good we use our common sense. Always read d post b4 commenting. Dnt comment base on the headline/topic. If u cant read dnt comment, is nt by force that u must comment. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "meklex") meklex at 4-02-2011 07:26 AM (13 years ago) (m) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön.. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:26 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:28 AM (13 years ago) (f) THIS MAN IS NOT A PASTOR;
Re u sure u read the story? I advice u go thru the post again. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:28 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:31 AM (13 years ago) (f) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
Re pastors nt human? Can u live without sex? | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:31 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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matt 26:41, pray so that u will not inter into trouble bco the flesh is weak but the spirit is strong. before marrage much prayers is needed both from the man and woman. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:38 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:45 AM (13 years ago) (f) the pastor is right for seeking for divorce if the wife refuses him sex. there is no compromising the fact that sex is also part of and rubricant that keeps marriage going weather a pastor or no pastor
Abi? | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:47 AM (13 years ago) (f) May the good lord be with this pastor, He is passing through a difficult time. It's really better to divorce the woman than committing adultery. The woman has moved out of the matrimonial home which indicates that she has given up with the marriage. My dear pastor God will surely see you thru
Amen... | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:47 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 07:56 AM (13 years ago) (f) The woman is a good person. One of the pastors major complaint to the magistrate is that he has been married to his wife for 12 years and no children was produced from this marriage. The pastor complained that the wife has fibroid and that has completely changed her as a person. He self-diagnosed his wife claiming that the fibroid has caused her to be aggressive, hostile, confrontational and lacked interest in sex. He then complained that his wife had abandoned him and moved out of their matrimonial home. He explained that he went to his wife's office to beg her to return back because God can still perform a miracle. He also claimed that his wife told him that God has asked her to seek to have a child elsewhere. The wife must obey God, but I doubt if she heard from God because God hates divorce. There is no discussion as to whether attempts were made to remove the fibroids. He only mentioned IVF. What type of quack doctor did IVF without first checking for fibroids and cysts? Did the fibroids come later? The magistrate has asked them to return in March 2011 so that he can hear his wife's defence and cross-examination of the complainant and wife. The man has acknowledged that his wife was sick and that her personality had changed. Patience is needed here by the pastor. In sickness and in health. The wife on the other hand may have accepted her fate that she may not be able to bear children for the man. She may be under a great deal of pressure from the pastor's family to leave especially when he travelled. She may love her husband too much that she has decided to sacrifice herself and her marriage in order to bring peace in the family.
She is quite aware that the end result will be divorce so that her husband can marry somebody that could give him children. This is sacrifice at its highest order.I will like to wait to hear the wife's explanations before I can make my comments. If the way u thought abt it was how the pastor's wife reasoned it, then she was totally wrong. The pastor does nt av any fault. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "meklex") meklex at 4-02-2011 07:57 AM (13 years ago) (m) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
Re pastors nt human? Can u live without sex? hmm, don't mind my comment I can be mischievious atimes, just doin some witty touches. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 07:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "Ascondy") Ascondy at 4-02-2011 08:05 AM (13 years ago) (m) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
Dem b wood? | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:05 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "lanudja") lanudja at 4-02-2011 08:06 AM (13 years ago) (f) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
Re pastors nt human? Can u live without sex? hmm, don't mind my comment I can be mischievious atimes, just doin some witty touches. Good 4 u. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:06 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 4-02-2011 08:09 AM (13 years ago) (f) it seems like all of you forget that pastors are humans, full of faults and weaknesses. We all fall, but saints are those that get up and learn from their past.First of all the woman left her husband already, her heart is no longer there, and its not wise to stay in an unhappy marriage just to save face. humans only declare and it is up to God to let it happen or stop it. We have all fallen short of God's mercy,therefore none is perfect. And to those so righteous posters, yes his a pastor, full of sin like every human. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 4-02-2011 08:16 AM (13 years ago) (f) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
this boy you are a fantastic kwoshoko ridden idiot.you are a hopless case. In short am praying for you. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:16 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Sheree") Sheree at 4-02-2011 08:17 AM (13 years ago) (f) WOW, THESE ARE THE PEOPLE WE SUPPOSE TO LEARN FROM.
Thats true but, remember they are humans just like you and I. It still doesn't justify their actions though. Hope they are able resolve it amicably, without a divorce. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "funichi") funichi at 4-02-2011 08:17 AM (13 years ago) (f) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
this boy you are a fantastic kwoshoko ridden idiot.you are a hopless case. In short am praying for you. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:17 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Sheree") Sheree at 4-02-2011 08:22 AM (13 years ago) (f) I thought pastors don't need sex. that they take in through divine interventiön..
Are you kidding me? Are pastors not humans? Because they are serving God does not mean they cannot have sex with their wives ok. What ever gave you that idea that they dont need it,and take in through divine intervention baffles me. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:22 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "buverc") buverc at 4-02-2011 08:40 AM (13 years ago) (f) pastor, why can't u show good example to ur prstner is he realy a pastor? im afraid he isnt. what is the meaning of dat, if his not a real one he would not av been begging her to come back home, so far dat the wife has zero her mind, let the man do what so ever he want to do, cos is not easy to stay alone.................he is a man of God which can lead him to temptation by church member............. | Posted: at 4-02-2011 08:40 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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