" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father" .
These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:03 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 4-02-2011 09:08 AM (13 years ago) (f)
There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:08 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 4-02-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love! That's very difficult! Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 4-02-2011 09:16 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-02-2011 09:10 AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love! That's very difficult! Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.
Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:16 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-02-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 4-02-2011 09:16 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-02-2011 09:10 AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love! That's very difficult! Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.
Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.
You're welcome! It seems that a baby will save their marriage, so I think it worth to try their best to have it! A loan,something, I'm sure that there will be a possibility if they really want! Where there's a will there's a way
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 4-02-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 4-02-2011 09:15 AM
Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!
Ofcourse, little did she know it was going to lead to this, I suppose. You see, one needs to avoid raising heart breaking experiences during couselling especially someone who is as repentant and sorry for what she did as this lady in question!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love! That's very difficult! Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.
very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 4-02-2011 11:05 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father" .
These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?
Tough cross to bear !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 4-02-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 4-02-2011 11:05 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-02-2011 09:10 AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love! That's very difficult! Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.
very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 4-02-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) (f)
The solution is not divorce, if they cant have theirs presently, they could adopt and who knows, God could hear their prayers and give them theirs.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 12:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 4-02-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 4-02-2011 09:08 AM
There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.
seconded
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 4-02-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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