Trouble in paradise

Date: 01-03-2011 7:26 pm (13 years ago) | Author: larz meister
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- at 1-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago)
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She loves him, he claims to love her. They have been together for less than three months n so far so good.

She found out recently that he has immigration prbs n his best option is to marry an EU citizen. She is really confused now. From what she noes about him, she likes but is that the real him or was it just a ploy to get stay in the country but she only ever want to get married once. She has seen people in similar situation but they have been in such relationship for years so it wasnt a big jump.

Personally, I think getting married shud b a lifetime union between two people n they havent known each other long enuf for her to start making such sacrifices (I havent told her this). She is prepared to move with him to naij after studies if he is really serious but he doesnt want to go back to naija. Pals what do you think? Is he using her? I think that whatever her decision, there will be repercussions, I just hope that it can be shortlived and minimised.

Posted: at 1-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- mazi at 1-03-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago)
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the easy response is, d guyz is trying to sort himself out.
until d guy sort his immigration status out nothing is gonna b certain for him.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 07:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 1-03-2011 08:07 PM (13 years ago)
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Too little time for talking about marriage!
He must solve his problems before anything, and without her help!
So,no,she should NOT marry him NOW!

Posted: at 1-03-2011 08:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 1-03-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago)
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hmm is not easy ooo,the heart of man cannot be predict most of the time

i can't really tell the guy intention,but one thing for sure the guy has an immigration issue,

and he want/needs to solve it..hmm 3months ain't enough to know somebody naa!.

who knows,maybe he really loves her.but the girl needs some concrete satisfaction b4 jumping into marrying him.

Posted: at 1-03-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 1-03-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 07:30 PM
Quote from: kebella on  1-03-2011 07:28 PM
i wil be back Cool


wen?


wen they finish commenting pls wake me up.............

Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 1-03-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago)
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what brought inn the paradise here ? like you are not very serious so , hungary poster
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- kebella at 1-03-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh?

Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 1-03-2011 09:54 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:54 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- kebella at 1-03-2011 09:59 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh? Sad Huh? Sad Huh?

Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:59 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 1-03-2011 10:07 PM (13 years ago)
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ummm hard man...
  • me nnor know..how me got fit man advice this..
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Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:07 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  1-03-2011 07:37 PM
the easy response is, d guyz is trying to sort himself out.
until d guy sort his immigration status out nothing is gonna b certain for him.


thx..so what shud she do?
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  1-03-2011 08:07 PM
Too little time for talking about marriage!
He must solve his problems before anything, and without her help!
So,no,she should NOT marry him NOW!

thats what I think....what happens wen he asks her to help him stay in the country how can she say no w/o appearing mean + unhelpful
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  1-03-2011 08:17 PM
hmm is not easy ooo,the heart of man cannot be predict most of the time

i can't really tell the guy intention,but one thing for sure the guy has an immigration issue,

and he want/needs to solve it..hmm 3months ain't enough to know somebody naa!.

who knows,maybe he really loves her.but the girl needs some concrete satisfaction b4 jumping into marrying him.


sounds like a good prescription....just what the doctor ordered  Grin. will pass yur message on
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on  1-03-2011 09:50 PM
what brought inn the paradise here ? like you are not very serious so , hungary poster

she is in love isnt she...n felt like she was on cloud nine until...
as for the rest of yur comments in black, will pretend they dont exist
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 10:07 PM
ummm hard man...
  • me nnor know..how me got fit man advice this..
[/b]

pls try a lil  Tongue
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago)
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kebella- abeg free than boy jor n tell me what yu think
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 1-03-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 10:21 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 10:07 PM
ummm hard man...
  • me nnor know..how me got fit man advice this..
[/b]

pls try a lil  Tongue
weting con happend to your tongue

Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 10:23 PM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 10:21 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 10:07 PM
ummm hard man...
  • me nnor know..how me got fit man advice this..
[/b]

pls try a lil  Tongue
weting con happend to your tongue
Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 1-03-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on  1-03-2011 10:21 PM
Quote from: ajanni on  1-03-2011 09:50 PM
what brought inn the paradise here ? like you are not very serious so , hungary poster

she is in love isnt she...n felt like she was on cloud nine until...
as for the rest of yur comments in black, will pretend they dont exist


laydeelarcraft u too much ooo nomind dis ajanni Wink
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 1-03-2011 10:53 PM (13 years ago)
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who is that?  Wink
Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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