21 phrases to use to help you FIGHT RIGHT with your sweetheart

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at 05:24 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Found this on yahoo news, I tink it will b of help to many of us having problem in our relationships

Almost all couples fight; the secret is to fight right.

I’ve posted before about what NOT to say during a fight. Here are some phrases that will actually help.

When the Big Man and I are arguing, I find that the single best technique to apply is HUMOR. If one of us can laugh and joke around, the crabby mood lifts instantly. But during an argument, it can be hard to see the funny side of things.

Failing that, here are twenty-one phrases that help turn down the heat of anger:

Please try to understand my point of view.
Wait, can I take that back?
You don’t have to solve this—it helps me just to talk to you.
This is important to me. Please listen.
I overreacted, I’m sorry.
I see you’re in a tough position.
I can see my part in this.
I hadn’t thought of it that way before.
I could be wrong.
Let’s agree to disagree on that.
This isn’t just your problem, it’s our problem.
I’m feeling unappreciated.
We’re getting off the subject.
You’ve convinced me.
Please keep talking to me.
I realize it's not your fault.
That came out all wrong.
I see how I contributed to the problem.
What are we really fighting about?
How can I make things better?
I’m sorry.
I love you.


http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/21-phrases-to-use-to-help-you-fight-right-with-your-sweetheart-2455249/

princess4jifs at 05:25 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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i dey feeel u girl.
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yukicares4u at 05:26 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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which one strikes ur hrt the most? Smiley
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Michro at 05:27 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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@ poster, u try.
U're just like a romance analyst.........

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adams933 at 05:27 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Would read and comment 2moro.
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xena15 at 05:30 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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@poster,dat one na ur own philosophy, 4 me,dial am beta slap,e go ring,and then end of discussion

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yukicares4u at 05:31 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?
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yukicares4u at 05:32 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 05:30 PM,  3/03/2011
@poster,dat one na ur own philosophy, 4 me,dial am beta slap,e go ring,and then end of discussion
[email protected] harsh o...violence only adds more fuel na haba Grin Grin Grin Grin
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adams933 at 05:32 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:31 PM,  3/03/2011
hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?

2moro, I need to do some research first before commenting.
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dirtykid at 05:33 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Yuki Yuki darling, The Lady Love bug bite...... that's good points but the problem is how many people out there are ready to make the use of the five letter word "SORRY" when is needed and at the right time? thats the issue . very simple word but difficult for many to apply it.

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sobeit at 05:35 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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hmmmm
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yukicares4u at 05:37 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: adams933 on 05:32 PM,  3/03/2011
Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:31 PM,  3/03/2011
hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?

2moro, I need to do some research first before commenting.
hehehe Adam so u wan go cause trouble with her....then come do experiment...lol....
@DK...hmmm luv bug...hehehe..well SORRY is d hardest word 2 say like pple alwaz put it...ok do u ve any cure for my bug bite...lol Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
@sobeit...oya talk jare!
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xena15 at 05:38 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:32 PM,  3/03/2011
Quote from: xena15 on 05:30 PM,  3/03/2011
@poster,dat one na ur own philosophy, 4 me,dial am beta slap,e go ring,and then end of discussion
[email protected] harsh o...violence only adds more fuel na haba Grin Grin Grin Grin
i go do am politely.

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dirtykid at 05:40 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:37 PM,  3/03/2011
Quote from: adams933 on 05:32 PM,  3/03/2011
Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:31 PM,  3/03/2011
hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?

2moro, I need to do some research first before commenting.
hehehe Adam so u wan go cause trouble with her....then come do experiment...lol....
@DK...hmmm luv bug...hehehe..well SORRY is d hardest word 2 say like pple alwaz put it...ok do u ve any cure for my bug bite...lol Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
@sobeit...oya talk jare!


I think Yes !! I still have Anti Love Bug Bite spray with me, You just have to come to my office, for official spraying  Grin Grin

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princess4jifs at 05:41 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:26 PM,  3/03/2011
which one strikes ur hrt the most? Smiley
i love you,love doc.
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yukicares4u at 05:43 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: princess4jifs on 05:41 PM,  3/03/2011
Quote from: yukicares4u on 05:26 PM,  3/03/2011
which one strikes ur hrt the most? Smiley
i love you,love doc.
[email protected] no love Doc. ooo...i just love sharing things like this... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
@DK...ur office  Cool..ok...address plz  Grin Grin
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divineproject at 05:47 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Lovequito in da house.......weldone......

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dirtykid at 05:48 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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My Address is:

25 Love Bug Crescent floor 32
EW 4521 NP
United State of Ajegunle.

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yukicares4u at 05:49 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 05:47 PM,  3/03/2011
Lovequito in da house.......weldone......
hehehe @DP...its love bug +lovequito chaii...lol..oya which one thrills u most jo?
hehehe @DK...dis address waoo..emma get lost ooo? hehehe Grin Grin Grin
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Kennee at 05:53 PM, 3/03/2011 (7 years ago)
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l don pass oo

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