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Date: 07-03-2011 1:01 pm (13 years ago) | Author: onyinye victoria
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- at 7-03-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago)
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i am a hapily married young woman with a child, but my mother inlaw hates me so much dat she refuses to accept me as her daughter inlaw even after d wedding.it worries me so much that i dont know what to do.

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- bittersweet at 7-03-2011 01:08 PM (13 years ago)
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What is your husband's opinion about this?
And how he behaves?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:11 PM (13 years ago)
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was she in support of her son getting marid to you?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 7-03-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clasine on  7-03-2011 01:01 PM
i am a hapily married young woman with a child, but my mother inlaw hates me so much dat she refuses to accept me as her daughter inlaw even after d wedding.it worries me so much that i dont know what to do.
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Holy Ghost fire go burn her yansh!
Sori,did u say "mother-in-law"?
Abeg no vex.
Bt wat is ur hubby saying about it na?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- qunodinga at 7-03-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago)
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God owns the heart of kings, He turns them wherever it pleases HIM
Prayer and Fasting is the watchword
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 7-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clasine on  7-03-2011 01:01 PM
i am a hapily married young woman with a child, but my mother inlaw hates me so much dat she refuses to accept me as her daughter inlaw even after d wedding.it worries me so much that i dont know what to do.



Very pathetic... I will suggest you concentrate on your husband and your kid to raise your own family.. respect, Love, treat her right and leave her with her conscience, No matter how bad she treat you.. But always be-careful some mother In-laws can set u up with your husband or do the undo's.  

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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marriage consellors needed urgently

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 1daful at 7-03-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  7-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: clasine on  7-03-2011 01:01 PM
i am a hapily married young woman with a child, but my mother inlaw hates me so much dat she refuses to accept me as her daughter inlaw even after d wedding.it worries me so much that i dont know what to do.



Very pathetic... I will suggest you concentrate on your husband and your kid to raise your own family.. respect, Love, treat her right and leave her with her conscience, No matter how bad she treat you.. But always be-careful some mother In-laws can set u up with your husband or do the undo's.  
Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- clasine at 7-03-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago)
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no she wasnt in support bt reluctantly gave her consent after so much pressure from her son.
my husband loves n behaves good to me.
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:19 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- xena15 at 7-03-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  7-03-2011 01:17 PM
marriage consellors needed urgently
who go pay dem?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sheree at 7-03-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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My dear, it is no news but, it is a shame its happening to you. Most mothers feel so threatened when their sons brings home a woman because, they feel their sons will no longer care for them or will move all the attention he has to their wives. You need to show her some love, reassure her that you are an addition to her and not a minus. You have to do that by showing her. Most importantly, pray for her, with time she will come around and love you like her own daughter.
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clasine on  7-03-2011 01:19 PM
no she wasnt in support bt reluctantly gave her consent after so much pressure from her son.
my husband loves n behaves good to me.

hmmm. was ur hubby desperate to mary?

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 7-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: clasine on  7-03-2011 01:19 PM
no she wasnt in support bt reluctantly gave her consent after so much pressure from her son.
my husband loves n behaves good to me.

That's the only thing that matters!
I hope you're not living in the same house with her!If you don't, let her to suffocate herself with hate!

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on  7-03-2011 01:20 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  7-03-2011 01:17 PM
marriage consellors needed urgently
who go pay dem?

poster na

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mediaexcell at 7-03-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheree on  7-03-2011 01:26 PM
My dear, it is no news but, it is a shame its happening to you. Most mothers feel so threatened when their sons brings home a woman because, they feel their sons will no longer care for them or will move all the attention he has to their wives. You need to show her some love, reassure her that you are an addition to her and not a minus. You have to do that by showing her. Most importantly, pray for her, with time she will come around and love you like her own daughter.
here is all she needs.. Smiley
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago)
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OK

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bella100 at 7-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheree on  7-03-2011 01:26 PM
My dear, it is no news but, it is a shame its happening to you. Most mothers feel so threatened when their sons brings home a woman because, they feel their sons will no longer care for them or will move all the attention he has to their wives. You need to show her some love, reassure her that you are an addition to her and not a minus. You have to do that by showing her. Most importantly, pray for her, with time she will come around and love you like her own daughter.
supported Cool
Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 7-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  7-03-2011 01:29 PM
Quote from: xena15 on  7-03-2011 01:20 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  7-03-2011 01:17 PM
marriage consellors needed urgently
who go pay dem?

poster na
u no pity poster?,she get plenty wahala already na

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 7-03-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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bella i no no say u get sense ooooooooooo Grin

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 7-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Lol

Posted: at 7-03-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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