How do you keep the fire going in a relationship?

Date: 22-03-2011 1:46 am (13 years ago) | Author: nurabela
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- at 22-03-2011 01:46 AM (13 years ago)
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How do you keep the fire going in a relationship?

Posted: at 22-03-2011 01:46 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- deboalabi262 at 22-03-2011 02:06 AM (13 years ago)
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Trust and respect should be reciprocal....

Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:06 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 22-03-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago)
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If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- D4rk-Cuti3 at 22-03-2011 02:34 AM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmm dis nurablela just dey ask too many random question..i thought there is a similar post to this already in the forum...anyho...respect and show love and affection towards one another cus the feeling of those things alone is enough to keep the fire going in a relationship..
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 22-03-2011 02:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:32 AM
If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
true talk.its so easy to say "love". but staying inlove is no child's play.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 22-03-2011 02:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: D4rk-Cuti3 on 22-03-2011 02:34 AM
hmmmmmm dis nurablela just dey ask too many random question..i thought there is a similar post to this already in the forum...anyho...respect and show love and affection towards one another cus the feeling of those things alone is enough to keep the fire going in a relationship..
no mind the olodo

Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- trolling at 22-03-2011 02:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:37 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:32 AM
If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
true talk.its so easy to say "love". but staying inlove is no child's play.
there's nothing hard there if people are married, it's real simple,you scratch my back and i'll scratch your back
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:43 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 22-03-2011 02:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:43 AM
Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:37 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:32 AM
If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
true talk.its so easy to say "love". but staying inlove is no child's play.
there's nothing hard there if people are married, it's real simple,you scratch my back and i'll scratch your back
hmmm there is no perfect marriage on earth.sumtimes that love fades,that's why i said its easy to shout love,but its hard to stay in love.most couples stick together cos that's their heartdesire(to have a good marriage) and with time they tend to build back that love.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 22-03-2011 02:53 AM (13 years ago)
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yap!!

Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- princess4jifs at 22-03-2011 02:54 AM (13 years ago)
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I WONDER WERE A MARRIAGE THAT LACK TRUST IS HEADING TO.WHEN U CAN'T BUILD THE TRUST IN UR SPOUSE[U FEEL ABEG TRUST ME IF U WAN TRUST]BELIEVE ME U LL SOME DAY BEG FOR THAT SAME TRUST AND LL NEVER FIND IT.U LL HAVE ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD BUT HAPPINESS WILL BE FAR FETCHED.SO MY DEAR TAKE HEED.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:54 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 22-03-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago)
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@poster,petrol and matches does d magic!

Posted: at 22-03-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 22-03-2011 11:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nurabela on 22-03-2011 01:46 AM
How do you keep the fire going in a relationship?


Add more fuel and gas to the fire, it will keep the fire going on and high  Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:00 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 22-03-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 22-03-2011 11:00 AM
Quote from: nurabela on 22-03-2011 01:46 AM
How do you keep the fire going in a relationship?


Add more fuel and gas to the fire, it will keep the fire going on and high  Grin Grin
afterwards,d 'relationship' will explode!

Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- adams933 at 22-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 22-03-2011 10:57 AM
@poster,petrol and matches does d magic!
Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 22-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 22-03-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago)
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trust, care, calls, respects, surprises etc
Posted: at 22-03-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 22-03-2011 12:33 PM (13 years ago)
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"True" love, eem eem Money(i know people like to pretend when its comes to this buh i care less), and may be Sex
And i also concur wif blessing.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Expresslady at 22-03-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:48 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:43 AM
Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:37 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:32 AM
If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
true talk.its so easy to say "love". but staying inlove is no child's play.
there's nothing hard there if people are married, it's real simple,you scratch my back and i'll scratch your back
hmmm there is no perfect marriage on earth.sumtimes that love fades,that's why i said its easy to shout love,but its hard to stay in love.most couples stick together cos that's their heartdesire(to have a good marriage) and with time they tend to build back that love.

True word.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- trolling at 22-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:48 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:43 AM
Quote from: onyin on 22-03-2011 02:37 AM
Quote from: trolling on 22-03-2011 02:32 AM
If you have children, then the children will also help to keep fire in the relationshp,bcuz its a beautiful thing to see your children grow and have their own children grow too,sex doesnt always keep fire in the relationship bcuz when I used to date, I get tired of sex after a few months,so its not always sex, that is if you are married,i can care less about fornicators.
true talk.its so easy to say "love". but staying inlove is no child's play.
there's nothing hard there if people are married, it's real simple,you scratch my back and i'll scratch your back
hmmm there is no perfect marriage on earth.sumtimes that love fades,that's why i said its easy to shout love,but its hard to stay in love.most couples stick together cos that's their heartdesire(to have a good marriage) and with time they tend to build back that love.
You neva marry u don dey talk say love dey hard,why u dey take other people's marriage to judge,or is it those nollywood movies that is influencing you, who told you love fades,he be like say u no no the definition of love,marry first before u say love hard,LOVE NO HARD LOVE SWEET,It's just the world we live in that makes you think its hard anyways BE OPTIMISTIC. Wink
Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 22-03-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- williams100 at 22-03-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago)
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TACTFULNESS,SUPPORTIVENESS,UNDERSTANDING,RECIPROCATED COURTESY,HUMILITY,TRANSPARENCY,FLEXIBILITY,HONESTY,FULL SCALE COMMITTMENT OF THE RELATIONSHIP TO GOD AS MAN'S EFFORT IS AND WILL NOT BE ENOUGH TO KEEP IT BURNING.THERE'S MORE TO IT.YOU CAN KEEP THE FIRE BURNING ONLY WHEN WISDOM IS WITH YOU TO UNDERSTAND THAT A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS THE COMING TOGETHER OF TWO IMPERFECT BEINGS HOPING TO MANAGE THEIR FLAWS WITH DISCRETION AND NOT TO ENJOY.ITS A TWO WAY THING.50 PERCENT THORNS AND THE OTHER 50 PERCENT IS ROSE.TWO MORE THINGS,ONE GET AHOLD OF YOUR TEMPERAMENT(ANGER)AT ALL TIMES AND NOT SOMETIMES TRUST ME YOU CAN.USE METICULOUS APPROACH TO HANDLE THE WORST CASE THAN CAN AND WILL EVER HAPPEN B/TWEEN YOURSELF AND YOUR SPOUSE AND THE OTHER TRY TO HAVE A FORGIVING SPIRIT ALWAYS.THE BEST WAY TO HAVE THIS IS TO MAKE YOURSELF IMPERVIOUS TO PAIN.THIS IS NOT THEORY IF PROPERLY APPLIED IT WILL DO A GREAT DEAL OF HELP TO ANYBODY.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 03:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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