personal Diary

lot of people shared their views to what love really is, or at least what love is in their eyes. perhaps love is just an illusion. a strong illusion, especially for those who are searching for a purpose of life. is love an answer ? love can be wonderful, special, complicated, a distress, a gift, a curse, a tragedy, and most of all, an experience. love is a mysterious and a complicated force. what do a person mean when they say they love someone ? love is many different things. each of us have our own understanding of what love is, and most of the time we base our definitions from feelings and experiences. the book defines love in many ways. "it is a strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties. "it can be an affection and tenderness felt by lovers. love is the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration.

just when we thought we finally grasp what love is, somebody asks: "does anyone really know what 'love' mean? i believe i have a true love, but 'true love' is always hurt, isn't it?" i scratches my head with this thought and began to wonder. what is the answer to this? "this i have to know!" i said to myself. i looked in the mirror and asked "is it a true love when you know you want to live with this special person for the rest of your life? have we reached 'true love' when we are ready to give everything away towards our subject? or maybe when can go as far as to sacrifice ourselves for our love? what about love as an obsession? is that possible?
"But isn't love suppose to be an obsession? If it is not, then you'd have to rationalize. If you rationalize then it's not love, because there is always a better rationalization." "I think the" in love " phase is obsessive but according to williamson (and backed up by my paltry experience), love does not involve the ego, is selfless and the opposite of obsession. "according to marriane williamson, the author of" a return to love, "there is a "holy love" and a "special love." "the latter type is the obsessiveone; finding that one 'special' person absorbs _all_ your attention."
so who is right and who is wrong about love? there is no wrong answer. love is many wonderful things. love may not work out all the time but it leaves you a special sort of feeling, like nothing you have ever imagined. is love a purpose of life? i think are life will be dull without it. but is it necessary? important? it is a part of life, and forever it will be a part of us.

Posted: at 31-03-2011 08:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You're caught in its claws, huh?

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Posted: at 31-03-2011 09:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Dis long story dis early morning?
I pass.

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Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

WELL  SAID

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Firstly it almost night where i dey
& as u dey pass no match my louis vuition

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

which one is "holy love" and "special love" huh? anyway i gbadun some of your personal diary.

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I BEG forget that saanya!
No only movie that kind thing dey sele
Check out Diego and Poloma
Edwardo and Ina
she make i Dey mension them.

if YOU say you LOVE ME...... OYA bring your MONEY

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

sometimes people don't take a deep thought in certain things and rush to conclusions just cos others said so
hopu ur listening @patie

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Money is completely out of the equation my dear...........I have seen people with lots of money and class but they have no true love..........i t cannot be bought with money so pls bring up sth more tangible.

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Did you borrow a leaf from Hon. Patrick or wat?

Posted: at 31-03-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac