There is this friend of mine that is not back home in nigeria bt has a seriouse relationship with a girl back home in nigeria, he is in the same flat with me, believe me, this guy tries his best to keep their affair alive not minding the distance bt any time he tries correcting his girl on things that are nt helpin him where he is, she feels the guy is been un-necessarily complaining.. This girl only likes calling frm 2-3a.m midnite, nw this guy has told her hw her timing disrupt his plans 4 d day when ever she calls that late, gave her all his timings and the time difference frm where he is and nigerian, so that she will knw wen to call, all that fell on deaf ears, she continued the same thing,, nw he can't afford nt to take her calls cos he feels it's bad and that she may feel sad, and considering d distance she is calling frm; My guy is a master student who's classes are 8a.m in the morning, and after classes will go do something to keep him self up. my pals, i must tell u that even me, i'm feed up wit all the nite disturbance, and i was forced to ask him 1 day "Na only midnite this ur girl dey call self"? i feel his pain, even after telling her that after her midnite calls, he can't sleep again and that day will be useless for him, she keeps on doin it, two days back, he told her that he can't continue with this anymore, that she is been in-sensitive and the next thing the girl said was " i knw it will be like this, u don't luv me, u never luved me, u hv seen white girls nw, so, i'm nothing to u again" nw my guy is confused, asking me "is it wrong 4 a man to correct his girl"? this is the same girl he spends nothing less than 6000 nigerian naira to call when ever he call her, even tellin her to always visit his family house, so that his parent will be seeing her around, cos he plans to marry her as soon as he get's back home (naija).
Nw, Is it wrong to correct your spouse?
Posted: at 18-04-2011 03:58 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 18-04-2011 09:29 AM (13 years ago) (f)
This issue about night calls it's really annoying! A person who does that despite she/he was been told not to, simply lacks common sense!
And the answer to your question is no,it's not wrong, as long as u see that it's a continual repetition of the nonsenses!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 18-04-2011 09:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
jossy4reall at 18-04-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago) (m)
There is nothing wrong in correcting ur spouse. No one is perfect so when one is mistaking sumfin and is lucky to be corrected by another. It is better for him/her to admit it on time and take the correction.
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
patienceudosen at 18-04-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Is this girl educated enough to understand the time difference in the 2 countries? I think your guy should simple explain in a language she understands and if the problem persists, he should stop picking her calls in such odd hour and maybe call be when it is convenient
Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:27 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
No it's nt wrong, the guy should divert his phone to voice mail, so he can in turn call d lady back, he nid not tell her again perhaps that time is comfy for her bt he shld find away arround nt picking her call in d midnyt n call her back wen he wakes or wen it's comfy for him.
However, he should try calling ds gell Nigeria midnyt n c hw she react.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
This issue about night calls it's really annoying! A person who does that despite she/he was been told not to, simply lacks common sense!
And the answer to your question is no,it's not wrong, as long as u see that it's a continual repetition of the nonsenses!
The worse problem is that she calls & say nothing meaningful, imagine her callin to ask, did u flash me? my guy nw asked her, hv i ever flashed u b4? if i want to talk to u, i will call u.. they both said gudnite to each other, after 10mins wen my guy was fighting to get back his sleep, she called back and all she said was "it was one of my friend that was flashin me" u culd feel tears frm my friend wen he asked her, and that is why u wake me at this time of the nite?
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
There is nothing wrong in correcting ur spouse. No one is perfect so when one is mistaking sumfin and is lucky to be corrected by another. It is better for him/her to admit it on time and take the correction.
My brother!! na so i be think b4 ooo!! this one pass me..
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Is this girl educated enough to understand the time difference in the 2 countries? I think your guy should simple explain in a language she understands and if the problem persists, he should stop picking her calls in such odd hour and maybe call be when it is convenient
This girl is somebody who already had HND (Poly) and in her third yr in the University, and besides my friend don calculate the time 4 her many times
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
xeallysam at 18-04-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) (m)
I will say no. i.e. it is not wrong correcting your spouse.however,if she fails to understand that this is abt ur future afterwhich you v explained,i guess you you make her thought a reality.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
No it's nt wrong, the guy should divert his phone to voice mail, so he can in turn call d lady back, he nid not tell her again perhaps that time is comfy for her bt he shld find away arround nt picking her call in d midnyt n call her back wen he wakes or wen it's comfy for him.
However, he should try calling ds gell Nigeria midnyt n c hw she react.
abi ooo my brother!!!
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
trolling at 18-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) (m)
if na me I go fashi that girl,na so this girl wey i been dey mess around with when i dey naija disturb me,now i have my peace of mind after I blast am. Women plenty jare make the guy no worry himself.....and that is a sign to that guy say dat girl na wrong one.If she no hear simple phoning instuction,how she go hear her husband when they marry.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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