Lilian and Kunle met online and started dating, their relationship became very serious to the extend that Kunle was serious and propose to Lilian online. meanwhile Kunle was not in Nigeria but Lilian was. Kunle decided to come down to Nigeria to formalize his intention, to met with his future parents-inlaw and to start/make plans for their wedding properly so that he can go back to the state with his wife after their wedding. On getting to Nigeria where he went to Lilian's family house to visit them as planned, Nnenna Lilian's younger sister who had a son through a terrible rape incident that happened while she was in her final year in school saw him and recognized his face at once. he was the guys that rape her and immediately Kunle entered the house and saw Nnenna his contains changed. but Kunle did not know that the rape could lead to given birth to a child.
in a case like this
1. Babe's will you allow ur sister to continue/get married to a man that raped you years back
2. Babe will you allow ur sister to get married to a man that got you pregnant tru his wicked and selfish act years back
3. guys will you allow ur older sister to get married to a guy that raped your younger sister while she was in school
4. Babe's will you allow ur sister to get married to the guy if he clam to be a change person presently/born again?
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:09 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
olumbareal at 18-04-2011 11:14 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Babes where are you? Passing without peeping.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:14 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
olumbareal at 18-04-2011 11:25 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Honestly am speechless the atrocity the guy committed years back is now hunting him. He is probably a change person now, but that doesn't erase the fact that he was once a rapist. I dont think the lady that was raped will keep quiet neither will she bless their union.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:25 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chiglamour4u at 18-04-2011 11:37 AM (12 years ago) (f)
the guy is a changed person yah. if am d lady i can't continue with d marriage cos d picture will still remain things like this is nt easy to forget and each time u see d son it brings back d bad memory. the best things is they shld go their separate ways
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:37 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 18-04-2011 11:53 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: oyindabty on 18-04-2011 11:09 AM
what will you do in a situation like this. Lilian and Kunle met online and started dating, their relationship became very serious to the extend that Kunle was serious and propose to Lilian online. meanwhile Kunle was not in Nigeria but Lilian was. Kunle decided to come down to Nigeria to formalize his intention, to met with his future parents-inlaw and to start/make plans for their wedding properly so that he can go back to the state with his wife after their wedding. On getting to Nigeria where he went to Lilian's family house to visit them as planned, Nnenna Lilian's younger sister who had a son through a terrible rape incident that happened while she was in her final year in school saw him and recognized his face at once. he was the guys that rape her and immediately Kunle entered the house and saw Nnenna his contains changed. but Kunle did not know that the rape could lead to given birth to a child. in a case like this 1. Babe's will you allow ur sister to continue/get married to a man that raped you years back 2. Babe will you allow ur sister to get married to a man that got you pregnant tru his wicked and selfish act years back 3. guys will you allow ur older sister to get married to a guy that raped your younger sister while she was in school 4. Babe's will you allow ur sister to get married to the guy if he clam to be a change person presently/born again?
Oh,boy! Anyway, it's her decision, not mine! But she'll find out about the guy anyway! And after that...her call!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 18-04-2011 11:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
poster, you did not tell us where this guy was from. if he was a nigerian too but relocated to another city of country? also you forgot to tell us that where the younger sister was raped?
anyway, the onus is on the younger sister whether to forgive and forget or to deal with the emotions. I believe that i was time for her younger sista to ask thi man's intentions for rape and the way forward for the child. The eldest sister need to step back and let them deal with this issue in a manner that will be beneficiary to all parties.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 12:00 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chiglamour4u at 18-04-2011 12:12 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tando on 18-04-2011 12:00 PM
poster, you did not tell us where this guy was from. if he was a nigerian too but relocated to another city of country? also you forgot to tell us that where the younger sister was raped?
anyway, the onus is on the younger sister whether to forgive and forget or to deal with the emotions. I believe that i was time for her younger sista to ask thi man's intentions for rape and the way forward for the child. The eldest sister need to step back and let them deal with this issue in a manner that will be beneficiary to all parties.
of course he is Nigerian read d story well
Posted: at 18-04-2011 12:12 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jossy4reall at 18-04-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: oyindabty on 18-04-2011 11:52 AM
Quote from: jossy4reall on 18-04-2011 11:40 AM
D question goes 2 d ladies
does that mean that you don't hav any advice for them? or if they were your sister what will you advice them to do?
She refers her question 2 d ladies as below here, so Istick to it. Besides I I cant articulate on wat 2 say now. But u can advice her on my behalf
1. Babe's will you allow ur sister to continue/get married to a man that raped you years back 2. Babe will you allow ur sister to get married to a man that got you pregnant tru his wicked and selfish act years back 3. guys will you allow ur older sister to get married to a guy that raped your younger sister while she was in school 4. Babe's will you allow ur sister to get married to the guy if he clam to be a change person presently/born again?
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 18-04-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
williams100 at 18-04-2011 12:59 PM (12 years ago) (m)
this issue is between a rock and a hard case.personally i wont allow my elder/younger sister to get married to a guy like that no matter the changes he made in his life not even if he is a pastor.bible said ignorance is not an excuse to do anything and think you will go scott free without nemesis.why rape in the first place..?now he wants a proper rose for a wife after confiscating the life of another rose that happens to be in the same blood link.give me a break i dont see love in there.for me getting to know that he is the one that raped and made one of my sister pregnant to the extent that she gave birth,let him pray very hard that i should hear the voice of GOD in my ear,head and heart and refrain myself from using any brutal force against him if not himself and i will be published in newspaper.i will personally launch 4th world war against him and not even 3rd for carrying out such a despicable act against one of my siblings.he should also feel pain and know the impact it has on someone as an individual.but,if my sisters think they can forgive and forget and possibly want to still go ahead with the marriage then i guess i will have no other choice but to respect their decision.but,i will put him under scrutiny,observation and even probation for the next 15yrs to watch out for any contingency and if i find any irregularities and improper assaultive behaviour,so help me GOD i will damage him with all my resources i wont care what it will cost me.am sure he will know the meaning of damage in english-language.
Posted: at 18-04-2011 12:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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