mouth virus ke!..anyway as for your question,yeah! children should have a say in a family decision,especially when they are grown and "mature enough" to make a sensitive and reliable thought.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 10:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mouth virus ke!..anyway as for your question,yeah! children should have a say in a family decision,especially when they are grown and "mature enough" to make a sensitive and reliable thought.
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D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
truenaija2 at 26-04-2011 01:03 PM (13 years ago) (f)
about things that concern thier lifes or education they have say no matter the age , we all learn no matter how old we r , it pays to listen even to the dumbest person u can learn , my child has freedom of expression and say for the rest of his or her life thats how i was brought , my opinions wishes and words are important to my dad and so is his to me, but if u think ur childs words or wishes are not important , den u will also b unimportant to that child
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:03 PM
about things that concern thier lifes or education they have say no matter the age , we all learn no matter how old we r , it pays to listen even to the dumbest person u can learn , my child has freedom of expression and say for the rest of his or her life thats how i was brought , my opinions wishes and words are important to my dad and so is his to me, but if u think ur childs words or wishes are not important , den u will also b unimportant to that child
dont u tink it depends on the issue? u hav paretns discussin their financial bizz wit their kids i no tink its healthy/color]
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mouth virus ke!..anyway as for your question,yeah! children should have a say in a family decision,especially when they are grown and "mature enough" to make a sensitive and reliable thought.
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Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
truenaija2 at 26-04-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:03 PM
about things that concern thier lifes or education they have say no matter the age , we all learn no matter how old we r , it pays to listen even to the dumbest person u can learn , my child has freedom of expression and say for the rest of his or her life thats how i was brought , my opinions wishes and words are important to my dad and so is his to me, but if u think ur childs words or wishes are not important , den u will also b unimportant to that child
dont u tink it depends on the issue? u hav paretns discussin their financial bizz wit their kids i no tink its healthy/color]
yes it depends on the issue , i am not talking of the parent discussing their buisness with their kids i am talking of tthe parents listening to their children , whee they have a wish or they say something that is bothering them , like in school education or in the family , i mean u shouldnt just dismiss the child cos he or she is a child , u sholud listen and take it seriously and do something reasonable about it, they r also humans and have problems and opinions , i mean parents should listen to their children and not think they are less human just bcos they r small
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:12 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:03 PM
about things that concern thier lifes or education they have say no matter the age , we all learn no matter how old we r , it pays to listen even to the dumbest person u can learn , my child has freedom of expression and say for the rest of his or her life thats how i was brought , my opinions wishes and words are important to my dad and so is his to me, but if u think ur childs words or wishes are not important , den u will also b unimportant to that child
dont u tink it depends on the issue? u hav paretns discussin their financial bizz wit their kids i no tink its healthy/color]
yes it depends on the issue , i am not talking of the parent discussing their buisness with their kids i am talking of tthe parents listening to their children , whee they have a wish or they say something that is bothering them , like in school education or in the family , i mean u shouldnt just dismiss the child cos he or she is a child , u sholud listen and take it seriously and do something reasonable about it, they r also humans and have problems and opinions , i mean parents should listen to their children and not think they are less human just bcos they r small
I agree in wht u say here, but i tink Omorewa was talkin abt somtin else. Like discussin situations where u will take an important desicion and lettin ur child hav a say in dat too. Imagine u and ur husband are ready to relocate to an other country, will u let ur child stop u ?
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
truenaija2 at 26-04-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) (f)
thats why i said it depends , having a say i understand as being able to give ur own opinion not the final decision , but relocating, we will talk about it i think the child will be excited about it , i give him reasons why this other place is better , , just like talking and having fun about no serious discussion, a child is very easy to convince
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:20 PM
thats why i said it depends , having a say i understand as being able to give ur own opinion not the final decision , but relocating, we will talk about it i think the child will be excited about it , i give him reasons why this other place is better , , just like talking and having fun about no serious discussion, a child is very easy to convince
lol not always, i can remember my parents takin me to an oda city wen i was a kid and i didn like it at all
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
about things that concern thier lifes or education they have say no matter the age , we all learn no matter how old we r , it pays to listen even to the dumbest person u can learn , my child has freedom of expression and say for the rest of his or her life thats how i was brought , my opinions wishes and words are important to my dad and so is his to me, but if u think ur childs words or wishes are not important , den u will also b unimportant to that child
dont u tink it depends on the issue? u hav paretns discussin their financial bizz wit their kids i no tink its healthy/color]
@truenaija- i agree with u,mainly on that highlighted words.
@flybaby- it's absolutely healthy to discuss your financial bizz or problems with your children(if they are matured enough).thinks like that and others makes children to be cautious,bright and discipline in ways they handle current situations and that of the future."in my own opinion"
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Sobeit, well i dont tink so because a child has to b a child, let dem b worry-less i no need my child to sit in school tinkin abt d financial problems and tins like dat. Let him concentrate on d necesarry tins, and we (parents) will do d rest bcos we carry d responsibility. dats my own opinion sha.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
harold634 at 26-04-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sobeit on 26-04-2011 10:46 AM
mouth virus ke!..anyway as for your question,yeah! children should have a say in a family decision,especially when they are grown and "mature enough" to make a sensitive and reliable thought.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
truenaija2 at 26-04-2011 02:07 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 01:25 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 26-04-2011 01:20 PM
thats why i said it depends , having a say i understand as being able to give ur own opinion not the final decision , but relocating, we will talk about it i think the child will be excited about it , i give him reasons why this other place is better , , just like talking and having fun about no serious discussion, a child is very easy to convince
lol not always, i can remember my parents takin me to an oda city wen i was a kid and i didn like it at all
but i will tell u to manage it or u will stay in the other city we were without your parents , ofcourse the child will say no and he will adapt , children have sense nah u just have to have sense more than them , dey like good things too
Posted: at 26-04-2011 02:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sorry i have limited my kisses.. i don't want to catch mouth virus
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