why are ladies so desperate for marriage these days ???? (Page 10)

Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladiesDD these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.

Women like to feel the comfort and security of the domestic life. Today's feminist thinks she can have it all in the business world, but deep down I think many feel the need for comfort and the attention of a good man. Many women have given up the so called ladder of success for the home life and children, and are much more satisfied. It's just natural. In fact, it's been proven that women outnumber men 9:1 in the antidepressant dept because it is not natural for them to respond to the man like stresses in the world. They respond best to the stress of the domestic life and children. So being out in the world like a man is taking its toll.

Not all women are desperate in getting married. Maybe because of their age. Or they just want to have a family maybe that's one of the reasons and maybe because they want a partner in life. But not all cause some women just want to be single and have the fun of their lives.
However (some) women can't wait to get married to start planning their dream wedding. If you notice sometimes their priority is the wedding over the marriage. But in the end wanting to get married is normal and those who say they DO NOT want to get married usually have a problem or view marriage in an unhealthy and bad light.

what do u mean by 21st century,that is even the more reason why ladies of these days don't give a fu*ck!!!!!!


I dont know bout the world that u live in, buh the one i live in has to do with 'independence without a man'...I dont think I need a man for anything basically except 'maybe' so that there will be a 'mrs' prefixed to my name....What dyu need a man essentially for?...kids, protection, survival??? all these can be achieved even better as a single lady...kids(adoption), protection(security guards), survival(wats the point of going to school and getting a job if u dont plan on taking care urself)....................if anyone is more particular bout protection, remember that if ur gonna get duped/robbed, it will still happen with a man in ur life...........................hell, if ur worried bout sex...get a guy somewhere...........Marriage is even more of a nuisance than it used to be.......more heartbreaks, no happiness, divorces.......why the fcuk will i wanna subject myself to that kinda life when I can be a happily single lady..............................mehn clearly u live in a different world................................................Remember every lady says 'I wanna support My husband and family', for u to say that means u can equally support urself....