why are ladies so desperate for marriage these days ???? (Page 2)

Date: 11-05-2011 10:14 am (12 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- HOPEA23 at 11-05-2011 11:50 AM (12 years ago)
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poster u are very correct...i one person like such....and the man will be scared not to be paying child support and end up marry the woman....posster the thing dey fear me too....i wonder oooo for sum ladies...when they were young hubbys was every where asking dem out for marriage..they will say no..now time is agaist dem...dey will con dey snatch sumone hubby.,.nicepost.

Posted: at 11-05-2011 11:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 11-05-2011 11:56 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chicanorose on 11-05-2011 10:26 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmmm i no dey desperate oooooooo i go wait for Gods time
Posted: at 11-05-2011 11:56 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 11-05-2011 11:58 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: diplomatik on 11-05-2011 11:01 AM
i'm looking for a husband  Tongue Cheesy..Dk refuses to put a ring on it  Grin Grin Grin

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 11-05-2011 11:58 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 11-05-2011 12:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 11-05-2011 11:12 AM
mmmmmmmmm after rejecting many men in their early age, wat do u expect dey became desperate for any kind of man cos time is nt on their side



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Posted: at 11-05-2011 12:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- harold634 at 11-05-2011 12:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Women like to feel the comfort and security of the domestic life. Today's feminist thinks she can have it all in the business world, but deep down I think many feel the need for comfort and the attention of a good man. Many women have given up the so called ladder of success for the home life and children, and are much more satisfied. It's just natural. In fact, it's been proven that women outnumber men 9:1 in the antidepressant dept because it is not natural for them to respond to the man like stresses in the world. They respond best to the stress of the domestic life and children. So being out in the world like a man is taking its toll.

Not all women are desperate in getting married. Maybe because of their age. Or they just want to have a family maybe that's one of the reasons and maybe because they want a partner in life. But not all cause some women just want to be single and have the fun of their lives.
However (some) women can't wait to get married to start planning their dream wedding. If you notice sometimes their priority is the wedding over the marriage. But in the end wanting to get married is normal and those who say they DO NOT want to get married usually have a problem or view marriage in an unhealthy and bad light.
Posted: at 11-05-2011 12:26 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 11-05-2011 12:32 PM (12 years ago)
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A very good piece ma dear...but wat can we do
we d ladies are really going out of our way
sad but true
Posted: at 11-05-2011 12:32 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Youngstoriez at 11-05-2011 12:36 PM (12 years ago)
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i see
Posted: at 11-05-2011 12:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 11-05-2011 12:38 PM (12 years ago)
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I saw
Posted: at 11-05-2011 12:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 11-05-2011 01:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.


Never knew this Lynn is as classic as this, I'm glad to read this question from a lady. I just don't know where the world is heading to, the above stated questions are happening daily in our various society. I'm wandering too. why is like that.  Undecided Undecided

Posted: at 11-05-2011 01:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 11-05-2011 01:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-05-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.


Never knew this Lynn is as classic as this, I'm glad to read this question from a lady. I just don't know where the world is heading to, the above stated questions are happening daily in our various society. I'm wandering too. why is like that.  Undecided Undecided

bcuz no love found! lolzzz
Posted: at 11-05-2011 01:50 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 11-05-2011 02:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 11-05-2011 01:50 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-05-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.


Never knew this Lynn is as classic as this, I'm glad to read this question from a lady. I just don't know where the world is heading to, the above stated questions are happening daily in our various society. I'm wandering too. why is like that.  Undecided Undecided

bcuz no love found! lolzzz

Who said that? They found, most of them Love even found them, but they keep misusing it. at last when time is running off, they just wanna grab a man down by force.

Posted: at 11-05-2011 02:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 11-05-2011 02:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 11:42 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 11-05-2011 11:25 AM
Unfortunately, I saw many women who have children out of desperation to keep a man next to them without him wanting a family. Women who chose to give birth to a child for the sake of a better financial situation no matter the partner ...I do not judge ... It's not my right to...but I'm just looking at helpless children raised in the drama of divided families who have never known the love and unity!
A child needs love, warmth, attention and a beautiful family.
It's sad to see children emotionally mutilated and traumatized for life because of parents who have not thought too much ahead.
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what u said is true sis,having kids without a husband is very common now cos most of these ladies have what it takes so they don't care if d guy want's to marry them or not,again i think the reason why  there r many ladies these days fighting 4 one thing is bcos when they had the opportunity to choose from suitors they must have refused cos they want to finish school,get a job and be independent,after that the men prefer the younger ones then it bcomes a game of desperation!

A game with effects on innocents! Their offspring! Undecided

Posted: at 11-05-2011 02:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- tando at 11-05-2011 02:05 PM (12 years ago)
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it wasnt me
Posted: at 11-05-2011 02:05 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 11-05-2011 02:05 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-05-2011 02:02 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-05-2011 01:50 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-05-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.


Never knew this Lynn is as classic as this, I'm glad to read this question from a lady. I just don't know where the world is heading to, the above stated questions are happening daily in our various society. I'm wandering too. why is like that.  Undecided Undecided

bcuz no love found! lolzzz

Who said that? They found, most of them Love even found them, but they keep misusing it. at last when time is running off, they just wanna grab a man down by force.


lol..i was just kidding bro!.what u said above is true."anaghi agwa ochi nti na agha ebido la".
Posted: at 11-05-2011 02:05 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lynnclassic at 11-05-2011 07:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 11-05-2011 02:04 PM
Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 11:42 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 11-05-2011 11:25 AM
Unfortunately, I saw many women who have children out of desperation to keep a man next to them without him wanting a family. Women who chose to give birth to a child for the sake of a better financial situation no matter the partner ...I do not judge ... It's not my right to...but I'm just looking at helpless children raised in the drama of divided families who have never known the love and unity!
A child needs love, warmth, attention and a beautiful family.
It's sad to see children emotionally mutilated and traumatized for life because of parents who have not thought too much ahead.
Undecided

what u said is true sis,having kids without a husband is very common now cos most of these ladies have what it takes so they don't care if d guy want's to marry them or not,again i think the reason why  there r many ladies these days fighting 4 one thing is bcos when they had the opportunity to choose from suitors they must have refused cos they want to finish school,get a job and be independent,after that the men prefer the younger ones then it bcomes a game of desperation!

A game with effects on innocents! Their offspring! Undecided
is a shame a big shame Embarrassed Embarrassed
Posted: at 11-05-2011 07:59 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 11-05-2011 08:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Indeed!

Posted: at 11-05-2011 08:32 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- oohio2007 at 11-05-2011 10:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.
Most often than not,the kind of man most of these girls want do not come the way they imagined and as such,they turn his proposals down not knowing that man is the exact match for them just because he has not yet manifested.as a result miss a good opportunity to get married.Despiration creeps in as time flies in the waiting process.And naturally,a despirate person looses a reasonable measure of good sense of reasoning and can do anything in that condition.Good or bad.

Posted: at 11-05-2011 10:50 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lynnclassic at 11-05-2011 11:03 PM (12 years ago)
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we r responsible for most of the problems! a lady said that she wanted already made husband and do not want to suffer,and i asked her if she knows her fate years to come cos one can be made 2day n down 2moro.
Posted: at 11-05-2011 11:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 1daful at 12-05-2011 12:05 AM (12 years ago)
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don't always forget the word some!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 12-05-2011 12:05 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whome at 12-05-2011 12:19 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 11-05-2011 10:14 AM
Ladies don't take this personal,is the fact that a lot of ladies these days are so desperate that they even get pregnant to tie a man down and are contributing to the high rate of divorce in our society,some use money to get a man to marry them.these days ladies don't even care if a man is married with kids cos of her desperation that age is not on her side or guys are not ready to ask for her hand in marriage she ends up destroying her fellow woman's home.how can a lady get pregnant and tell the man responsible that she will take care of the baby and  will not do abortion even if the guy does not want but ask your self why should you indulge in it just to tie him down even if he marries you cos of the baby will you have peace in your home knowing that you  forced him to do it.

Cos of the pressure that is being mounted on them from home and also some see it as form of competition
Posted: at 12-05-2011 12:19 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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