My boss is too arrogant and lacks respect

Date: 12-05-2011 1:27 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Grace Okon
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- at 12-05-2011 01:27 PM (12 years ago)
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I've been working with this woman for two and half years now. I've really come to understand the kind of person she is. she will spoil the good relationship u've established for years once any mistake is made. She doesn't have respect for anybody yet she wants to be respected. She doesn't see fault in herself but sees fault easily in others. Does she really qualify being a boss?
Can't cope with her any longer, thinking of how to confront her but don't how to go about it.

Please advice me, here every body's opinion counts

Posted: at 12-05-2011 01:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- xena15 at 12-05-2011 02:18 PM (12 years ago)
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She's ur boss right?
What kind of respect do u expect 2 get?
Before u decide 2 work under someone,u gotta be prepared 2 handle shit!
4 me,i'm my own boss...maybe u should do same

Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 12-05-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago)
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@poster better keep managing her becos Nigeria is very hard no job out there ooo. if you can manage her 4 the past 2and 1/2 years you can still go ahead
Posted: at 12-05-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 12-05-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago)
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poster mk i ask u one question

shy u dey collect ur salary at d end of the month i mean good salary

if yes y border for respect i no every one needs respect but in dis case all u hv to do is mind ur job do wat u feel is right
at the end of the month collect yah money, put a smile on ur face life goes on.
or if u so much need d respect then be ur own boss dat way no body will order u around. but mind u, u hv to start by being a servant b4 becoming a master
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:11 PM (12 years ago)
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she wahala...na relationship and respect una dey work for...answer chig question jare

i like a boss like that ooo..if u dey work make u know sa na work u dey and drop all those friendly things and concentrate on the work jare...work time.get busy...

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 12-05-2011 03:16 PM (12 years ago)
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i tire o
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
poster mk i ask u one question

shy u dey collect ur salary at d end of the month i mean good salary

if yes y border for respect i no every one needs respect but in dis case all u hv to do is mind ur job do wat u feel is right
at the end of the month collect yah money, put a smile on ur face life goes on.
or if u so much need d respect then be ur own boss dat way no body will order u around. but mind u, u hv to start by being a servant b4 becoming a master

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she's naturally rude to everyone. thanks all the same for advice I appreciate
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:25 PM (12 years ago)
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if she nor become like that na..una nor go take her words serious and work...maybe the best way to handle una ..na she dey do so..

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:11 PM
she wahala...na relationship and respect una dey work for...answer chig question jare

i like a boss like that ooo..if u dey work make u know sa na work u dey and drop all those friendly things and concentrate on the work jare...work time.get busy...[/color]
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thanks baby
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 12-05-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Dont confront her just yet, wait till u get another job then u can give her a piece of yr mind and leave.
When I say piece of mind,I mean letting her know her attitude sucks in a discreet manner.
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago)
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u welcome..am a boss too but not bossy

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:25 PM
if she nor become like that na..una nor go take her words serious and work...maybe the best way to handle una ..na she dey do so..
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she's not CEO of the company, then why must she be rude to everybody even to those that handle bigger post
people keeping talking bad about her. she's not bossing any other person except me,i'm her PA
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:31 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: trolling on 12-05-2011 03:30 PM
Dont confront her just yet, wait till u get another job then u can give her a piece of yr mind and leave.
When I say piece of mind,I mean letting her know her attitude sucks in a discreet manner.
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thanks dearie
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 12-05-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:24 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
poster mk i ask u one question

shy u dey collect ur salary at d end of the month i mean good salary

if yes y border for respect i no every one needs respect but in dis case all u hv to do is mind ur job do wat u feel is right
at the end of the month collect yah money, put a smile on ur face life goes on.
or if u so much need d respect then be ur own boss dat way no body will order u around. but mind u, u hv to start by being a servant b4 becoming a master

[/color][/b]

she's naturally rude to everyone. thanks all the same for advice I appreciate

dnt aspect friendship frm ur boss, cos u d staffs may take her friendship for granted
and since u nw know her kind of person try aviod those things dat mks her rude just do d job ur called for so far she dy pay u sha.

some people dey find rude job self them never see
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 12-05-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:31 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:25 PM
if she nor become like that na..una nor go take her words serious and work...maybe the best way to handle una ..na she dey do so..
[/color][/b]

she's not CEO of the company, then why must she be rude to everybody even to those that handle bigger post
people keeping talking bad about her. she's not bossing any other person except me,i'm her PA
that mean's sa she get wahala.is she single?

Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 12-05-2011 02:18 PM
She's ur boss right?
What kind of respect do u expect 2 get?
Before u decide 2 work under someone,u gotta be prepared 2 handle shit!
4 me,i'm my own boss...maybe u should do same
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the respect is not basically for me o, she's just rude to everyone
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:36 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:34 PM
Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:31 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 12-05-2011 03:25 PM
if she nor become like that na..una nor go take her words serious and work...maybe the best way to handle una ..na she dey do so..
[/color][/b]

she's not CEO of the company, then why must she be rude to everybody even to those that handle bigger post
people keeping talking bad about her. she's not bossing any other person except me,i'm her PA
that mean's sa she get wahala.is she single?
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infact she's so annoying. she's married
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 12-05-2011 02:22 PM
@poster better keep managing her becos Nigeria is very hard no job out there ooo. if you can manage her 4 the past 2and 1/2 years you can still go ahead
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thanks for the advice, you guys are too much
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:45 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 12-05-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:34 PM
Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:24 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
poster mk i ask u one question

shy u dey collect ur salary at d end of the month i mean good salary

if yes y border for respect i no every one needs respect but in dis case all u hv to do is mind ur job do wat u feel is right
at the end of the month collect yah money, put a smile on ur face life goes on.
or if u so much need d respect then be ur own boss dat way no body will order u around. but mind u, u hv to start by being a servant b4 becoming a master

[/color][/b]

she's naturally rude to everyone. thanks all the same for advice I appreciate

dnt aspect friendship frm ur boss, cos u d staffs may take her friendship for granted
and since u nw know her kind of person try aviod those things dat mks her rude just do d job ur called for so far she dy pay u sha.

some people dey find rude job self them never see
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she's not the one paying my salary, she's only a staff just the way I am but the only difference there is that I'm her PA
Posted: at 12-05-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 12-05-2011 04:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:59 PM
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:34 PM
Quote from: priceless87 on 12-05-2011 03:24 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 12-05-2011 03:01 PM
poster mk i ask u one question

shy u dey collect ur salary at d end of the month i mean good salary

if yes y border for respect i no every one needs respect but in dis case all u hv to do is mind ur job do wat u feel is right
at the end of the month collect yah money, put a smile on ur face life goes on.
or if u so much need d respect then be ur own boss dat way no body will order u around. but mind u, u hv to start by being a servant b4 becoming a master

[/color][/b]

she's naturally rude to everyone. thanks all the same for advice I appreciate

dnt aspect friendship frm ur boss, cos u d staffs may take her friendship for granted
and since u nw know her kind of person try aviod those things dat mks her rude just do d job ur called for so far she dy pay u sha.

some people dey find rude job self them never see
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she's not the one paying my salary, she's only a staff just the way I am but the only difference there is that I'm her PA

haba too bad she wnt carry d company for head, anyway to get a job now u know hw it is so just keep managing learn to tolerate her till u get another one. Gudluck
Posted: at 12-05-2011 04:04 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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