Is this a good idea or a bad one?

Date: 21-06-2011 3:18 pm (12 years ago) | Author: wummzy
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- at 21-06-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago)
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This is a true confession from a young guy that need your advice.


I will be 23years old on november 1st,have got a job you might call ''Good For Starters.''

Haven't got a degree yet,but in my 300 level in lasu studing Accounting.

Would say i am mature at heart and can handle human beings.

straight to the point...i have fallen inlove with a very Godly and beautiful young lady who's about nineteen years of age

I think as  a Godly person too i want to do the right thing:i want to settle down.

I want to start my life on time: wanna see my children come of age while am still young..but most especially because am in love

with a Girl that loves me,that can bear my me,and that appreciates me.but i don't have a car of my  own neither do i have a

house..infact i still live with my parent.


with the little you already know about him,do u think he should go ahead? What do u think of his plans? is this wise or not

if it is a bad idea please give reasons

Please pals no insult...thank u all

Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Emmandazie at 21-06-2011 03:21 PM (12 years ago)
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Be like dis poster wan divert dat small boy oh.
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:21 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 21-06-2011 03:23 PM (12 years ago)
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hmmmm.....brb
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:23 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 21-06-2011 03:28 PM (12 years ago)
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I don't know, I think he's rushing, and it may bring him a lot of troubles!

Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:28 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 03:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 21-06-2011 03:21 PM
Be like dis poster wan divert dat small boy oh.





i dont understand ...
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:32 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 21-06-2011 03:28 PM
I don't know, I think he's rushing, and it may bring him a lot of troubles!





noted..thank u
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 03:23 PM
hmmmm.....brb






alright...please dont stay long
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mediaexcell at 21-06-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago)
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tell him thats i said "no hurry in life"
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mediaexcell at 21-06-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mediaexcell on 21-06-2011 03:38 PM
tell him that i said "no hurry in life"
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:38 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 21-06-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:34 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 21-06-2011 03:28 PM
I don't know, I think he's rushing, and it may bring him a lot of troubles!


noted..thank u

You're welcome!

Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 21-06-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:37 PM
Quote from: MissyBarbie on 21-06-2011 03:23 PM
hmmmm.....brb






alright...please dont stay long

Anyway tell him not to rush things ooo...and on the other hand If he thinks he's got what it takes to be a husband he shud go ahead
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 21-06-2011 03:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Nothing do am
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:44 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 21-06-2011 03:46 PM (12 years ago)
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23 is nt bad to settle down if he is matured, been matured dos nt mean u  hv to be 27 -35 years, but with wt u said abt him
he is still in school, still feeding frm his parents so hw will he cope with his wife
my advice is he shld first of all settle down with himself get through with school find a good job and bfore then he be more matured
if is d will of God for them to remain she will be their for him but i wnt advise him to keep the girl waiting by promising her marriage is nt advisable.

Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- manscater at 21-06-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Pls poster, is dis guy from french country. D reason is because over there, na sekwa sekwa all d way Grin Grin Grin.
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 03:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 21-06-2011 03:46 PM
23 is nt bad to settle down if he is matured, been matured dos nt mean u  hv to be 27 -35 years, but with wt u said abt him
he is still in school, still feeding frm his parents so hw will he cope with his wife
my advice is he shld first of all settle down with himself get through with school find a good job and bfore then he be more matured
if is d will of God for them to remain she will be their for him but i wnt advise him to keep the girl waiting by promising her marriage is nt advisable.








the guy is working..
Posted: at 21-06-2011 03:56 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 21-06-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: whitedove255 on 21-06-2011 03:56 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 21-06-2011 03:46 PM
23 is nt bad to settle down if he is matured, been matured dos nt mean u  hv to be 27 -35 years, but with wt u said abt him
he is still in school, still feeding frm his parents so hw will he cope with his wife
my advice is he shld first of all settle down with himself get through with school find a good job and bfore then he be more matured
if is d will of God for them to remain she will be their for him but i wnt advise him to keep the girl waiting by promising her marriage is nt advisable.


my dear marriage is nt smthing u rush into
their are lots of guys out their who hv d money but hv nt settled down nt dat dey dnt wnt to
they ar just taking their time nt to make mistake cos any mistake in marriage no mekwatalizim
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 21-06-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago)
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Marriage is different from boy and girl friend thing,,,,,its not what a reasonable person can rush into without a solid plan. Rushing into marriage is the reason u see early break ups,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,He need to plan his future well for social economical reasons.


Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Sheree at 21-06-2011 04:06 PM (12 years ago)
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It is a good thing to meet someone you love and want to spend the rest of ur life with that person. The bible say, he that finds a woman/wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. I think he should get all his priorities right. He is still in school, doesn't have a house and still lives with his parents. He shouldn't be too hasty. He should finish is education and I guess the girl should be in school too Huh? One step at a time, first thing first and others will follow with time.
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 04:07 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mediaexcell on 21-06-2011 03:38 PM
tell him thats i said "no hurry in life"







but taking a risk sometimes is good  Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:07 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whitedove255 at 21-06-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: manscater on 21-06-2011 03:48 PM
Pls poster, is dis guy from french country. D reason is because over there, na sekwa sekwa all d way Grin Grin Grin.







nope...is from nigeria
Posted: at 21-06-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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