this mata has always been disturbing my mind.dat d married men prefer little mistress to thier wives,is it to say thier wives r not satisfying dem on bed or just d nigerian way of life. U see dem in d nook n crannies of joint,som no longer care about thier spouse again.dey prefer spending on young gals than d family,renting of apartment etc.now competiting wit d young guys(highest bidder) i think it getting out of hand.wats ur opinion
Posted: at 3-07-2011 02:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Swtezvikky at 3-07-2011 02:59 PM (12 years ago) (f)
keep d topic chat free,i hate those things to d core.no insult pls
Posted: at 3-07-2011 02:59 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wandepope at 3-07-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) (m)
i cant really say oh.Even men that keep extra-marital affairs respect their wives and wouldnt entertain insults from the mistress(spare tyre).but some men are just like that by nature(HEREDITORY OR UNDER A CURSE);that the man have neve gone the lenght of marrying the mistress or bringging her to stay in his matrimonial home means he still respects and love his wife.honestly many men are hard to please.so just pray to meet the GOD FEARING type because only that type is assuring/faithful in marriage
Posted: at 3-07-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
this mata has always been disturbing my mind.dat d married men prefer little mistress to thier wives,is it to say thier wives r not satisfying dem on bed or just d nigerian way of life. U see dem in d nook n crannies of joint,som no longer care about thier spouse again.dey prefer spending on young gals than d family,renting of apartment etc.now competiting wit d young guys(highest bidder) i think it getting out of hand.wats ur opinion
I suggest you engage in a research to discover the truth beneath this... Maybe there could be some silly excuses of which i'll not buy any of it, but still deserve to know why ! to be able to look for the remedy.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
poster you are right ... one yoruba man with his wife and son went to clinic together and his wife sitting close to him he got the nerves to call another carribean woman and start chating with her...i always soo upset and i knew with the ways the woman was acting she felt insulted...why are such men living by the way..only God can answer your question sha..poster.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 3-07-2011 03:08 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Despite no one is perfect, But i think personally that Men that are into such act are Cowards !! They're not in any category of living things. A man should respect and obey God, Love his wife/children and protect his country/kindred !! That's the first priority of any Man out there !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 03:15 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
poster you are right ... one yoruba man with his wife and son went to clinic together and his wife sitting close to him he got the nerves to call another carribean woman and start chating with her...i was soo upset and i knew with the ways the woman was acting she felt insulted...why are such men living by the way..only God can answer your question sha..poster.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 3-07-2011 03:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
deboalabi262 at 3-07-2011 08:33 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 3-07-2011 03:16 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 3-07-2011 03:08 PM
poster you are right ... one yoruba man with his wife and son went to clinic together and his wife sitting close to him he got the nerves to call another carribean woman and start chating with her...i was soo upset and i knew with the ways the woman was acting she felt insulted...why are such men living by the way..only God can answer your question sha..poster.
Why giving an example with a Yoruba man? Men of different backgrounds, races, tribes and creeds can be having extra marital affairs..... It is an individual issue not tribal.
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed......
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:33 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 3-07-2011 08:40 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 3-07-2011 03:15 PM
Despite no one is perfect, But i think personally that Men that are into such act are Cowards !! They're not in any category of living things. A man should respect and obey God, Love his wife/children and protect his country/kindred !! That's the first priority of any Man out there !!
If u also walk your talk...kudos to u,DK!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:40 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
lynnclassic at 3-07-2011 08:54 PM (12 years ago) (f)
really marriage is nothing these days but captivity!!! a man will have a beautiful wife,less demanding just b/c she is building her home ,GOD fearing etc but the men decide 2 pay them evil 4 gd,spending on public products(gurls),then tell their wife 2 manage coz biz is bad.as we see these days women try 2 keep extra marital affairs coz their hus hardly recognize their needs as women,no time 4 their wife only when they want 2 make babies,but d gurl they spend on outside will have like 4men in her life still they don't see anytin wrong with it.i spoke 2 my sis in festac town yesterday she was crying coz of the heartbreak ,it takes d grace of GOD 4 a woman 2 ignor all the humilation and insult still love her husband.2 ALL THE MARRIED WOMEN HERE MAY GOD GIVE U D GRACE 2 LOVE N CHERISH EVEN WITH D DIFFICULTIES IN UR MARRIAGE AMEN!!!!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
poster you are right ... one yoruba man with his wife and son went to clinic together and his wife sitting close to him he got the nerves to call another carribean woman and start chating with her...i was soo upset and i knew with the ways the woman was acting she felt insulted...why are such men living by the way..only God can answer your question sha..poster.
Why giving an example with a Yoruba man? Men of different backgrounds, races, tribes and creeds can be having extra marital affairs..... It is an individual issue not tribal.
no vex bruv is typing error
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 3-07-2011 08:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
harold634 at 3-07-2011 09:09 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Swtezvikky on 3-07-2011 02:52 PM
this mata has always been disturbing my mind.dat d married men prefer little mistress to thier wives,is it to say thier wives r not satisfying dem on bed or just d nigerian way of life. U see dem in d nook n crannies of joint,som no longer care about thier spouse again.dey prefer spending on young gals than d family,renting of apartment etc.now competiting wit d young guys(highest bidder) i think it getting out of hand.wats ur opinion
The red words is not the cause of the problem, the cause of the problem cannot be identify. If u are opportune to question such men the causes of their unfaithfulness, they will end up telling lies and blaming their wives without a cogent reason.
Posted: at 3-07-2011 09:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac