I dont fancy discussing any of my personal issues on forum website like this, bcuz at the end of the day, you wont get any answer. What you get is insults and attacks. But, this issue is burning my heart day-in-day-out.
There is this gal of mine I thought of basing my life on. I deflowered when she was 18 years (2 years ago and I am 25 now). Ever since, we have agreed to nurture our relationship to marriage level. And, we have been trying to keep it.
Last month (Bad Sunday), I caught her red handed with my neighbor who is in his 5o’s Being Intimate with her when his family was away for church service (somebody that is as old as my father and is married with 3 children. One of his children is 18 years old as old as my gal). I came back from church early and I saw her coming out of their apartment sweating and breathing heavily and with a strange odor coming out of her body (she came to my house when I was in the church, and I was not even expecting her that day. I was shocked to see her in my house without any notice). She was shocked when we met. I quickly sensed what has happened. I called her and she panicked and started rushing to the toilet, I followed her, grasp her hands drag her to my room. And I asked her, but it was too glaring cuz her tight was wet with Fluid dripping from her “blahblah”. (What annoyed me most was they didn’t use condom. Women are reckless; if she gets pregnant she will claim its mine).
She saw my eyes and confessed that the man tricked her (weeping seriously). She gave me a rooster and bull story that, he sent her to buy him a soap and when she came back to deliver the soap that the man descended on her and that she was afraid to shout because of shame and trouble it will cause between me and the man, she promised not to do it again and that she will be careful with him.
Last week, I went to her house to visit her mother, she was’nt at home,I waited for her for 5 hours. I left, when I could no longer wait. On my way home, just a stone throw from her house, I saw her coming out of this man's car joking and laughing with this man (I quickly sensed they are using Hotels or somewhere hidden) I waited for her and confronted her, she just ignored me. On getting home I saw a text message on my phone telling me "never in my life should I call her again"
I made up my mind and forget about her (It wasnt easy but I did, cuz I had no choice).
Last friday my mother called that she came visiting her, that infact she washed her cloth and did all her Job and since then she has started begging again, still pleading and begging till this time on my facebook, SMS, email.
For the 50 years old man, I have a plan for him. I have toasted her daughter and she has agreed (We were both interested in each other before. In fact she expected me to make the move, but I didnt bcuz we are leaving in the same building, I feel its improper). But now, I will "f*****ck" hell out of her and impregnate her. If she claims its mine I will reject it but I will admit Being Intimate with her, so that that useless man can feel it too. But, regarding my gal, I am confused, do I take her back? She is just disgusting to me now…
Help me (I am angry and demoralized)
Posted: at 6-07-2011 08:35 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Ha!!! What a sad story! Bt do u honestly fink vengeance does it? Let her wallow in her ignorance and stupidity,she obviously has no future with dat old fool!!! Thank God u didnt end up with her...coz i cn see she gat a thang 4 old people...who knws? Maybe she would've raped ur grandfather! Try to move on...its not gonna be easy,bt u gotta try...
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jukkiebukwes at 6-07-2011 09:12 AM (12 years ago) (f)
u have no respect 4 women! ur use of words is very demeaning...all the same y do u want to take her back? is it b/c u ar still enjoyin her? (coz most of u guys dont know wen to let go and i know d power of ...) and y carry out vengeance on d man's daughter. ur gurl is obviously enjoyin watever she's doing with d old fool so y not leave her. even if she cleans ur whole house and does tins to please ur pple/mum, if u know u cant live with d memory of wat she did, den let her be. Be a Man!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:12 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
oyindabty at 6-07-2011 09:23 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: xena15 on 6-07-2011 09:01 AM
Ha!!! What a sad story! Bt do u honestly fink vengeance does it? Let her wallow in her ignorance and stupidity,she obviously has no future with dat old fool!!! Thank God u didnt end up with her...coz i cn see she gat a thang 4 old people...who knws? Maybe she would've raped ur grandfather! Try to move on...its not gonna be easy,bt u gotta try...
supported just move onn
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:23 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
preensegun at 6-07-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago) (m)
@jukkiebukwes, Thank u for ur contribution. I am really sorry for that wrong use of word. It is the fact...You are a woman..you know I am speaking the truth. You people just open ur leg for any stick.
This old man is just disgusting to me (I even learnt he has another marriage somewhere...that he is now having grandchildren). The man is old with wrinkle skin and grey hair.
Can a man/boy in his teen age try messing with a woman of 50 years old ?
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
jukkiebukwes at 6-07-2011 09:47 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: preensegun on 6-07-2011 09:26 AM
@jukkiebukwes, Thank u for ur contribution. I am really sorry for that wrong use of word. It is the fact...You are a woman..you know I am speaking the truth. You people just open ur leg for any stick.
This old man is just disgusting to me (I even learnt he has another marriage somewhere...that he is now having grandchildren). The man is old with wrinkle skin and grey hair.
Can a man/boy in his teen age try messing with a woman of 50 years old ?
u just apologized and yet u commit anoda blunder! so u guyz ar now sticks?
yea i know u ar very angry wit d whole thing and it seems u lyk ur gurl alot but trust me, even if u tk her back, a time will com when d likeness will turn to hatred so y not save urself from future wahala. just move on with ur life.
as 4 d old man,just let him be, judgement awaits him. but mk u no dey listen to gossip oh, its his life not urs but if u ar really angry wit him, put a gun tru his chest then u had realise dat no human is worth being killied for.
There's noting new under d sun so shits happen including a teen doing a 50 yr old woman.
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:47 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
harold634 at 6-07-2011 09:49 AM (12 years ago) (m)
What a painful story. Sometimes in life things happen for a purpose to prepare u for a greater things that is ahead of u. Thank God u finally caught her red handed which is the best proof that u have. U don't need to avenge your pains and anger by sleeping with the man's daughter even if her daughter agree to date u. That thought of impregnating the man's daughter might not go well with u If u attempt to revenge, u might get yourself injured and complicate your entire life.
Your girlfriend is not worthy of your loveship let alone marriage. If u want to accept your girlfriend back, u can't tell what might happen again. she slept with the man without condom is even more dangerous to your life not because of pregnancy alone but STD. It is left 4 u to decide but i will advice u to Spare your girlfriend, the man's daughter and move ahead with your life. If it's possible for u to change your present resident, change your location to avoid seeing your neighbor face often time otherwise that ugly reflection will keep traumatizing your emotions.
Posted: at 6-07-2011 09:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Bros u try oooo. wait 4 a gal 4 good 5 hours? What! I no fit, for the welcome back issue I need to fink of what to do if I were in your shoes wld b back lera!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 11:07 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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