What is Wrong with a Mother-in-law Touching Pot of Food?

Date: 08-07-2011 2:06 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 8-07-2011 02:06 PM (12 years ago)
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She is a career woman, married with kids.  She closes by 5pm and heads home shortly after that.  With the traffic logjam in Lagos, she gets home around 7pm to make food for the family.  But on this particular day, she was late in coming home.  It was already 8pm and the kids were already hungry.  The mother-in-law who was staying with them decided to make food for the kids.  Career woman gets home by 9pm and meets her kids already eating.  She asks the house help who gave the kids food. 'Grand ma', she replied.  Career woman gets angry and queried why her mother-in-law should touch her pot of food.  The old woman is embarrassed and wonders what she has done wrong now.

So me too, am wondering what is wrong with what the old woman did?.......why is it dat some married woman are not comfortable with their mothers-in-law going to their pot?

Guys, if your wife behaves this way how would you handle it knowing that a wrong handling would create a big problem between the two women in your life?


Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:06 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
- kebella at 8-07-2011 02:17 PM (12 years ago)
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the woman is very sick.............though some moda inlaw na phyukoyo buh that doesn't mean she wont touch the pot food............is ridiculous!!

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:17 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 8-07-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago)
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maybe the woman thinks that her mother-in-law is a witch(as it has become the order of the day),or she is afraid that her mother- in- law may report to her husband that she is not fulfilling her duties as hte wife,or she fears that the food may take the attention of the children and er husband from her  to her mother- in- law.
not married yet and pray not to encounter such.but the woman did no wrong,if her intentions were pure
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:20 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago)
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What she did was wrong thou..
her kids where hungry.

Maybe dem don tell her say the woman na wintch

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:23 PM (12 years ago)
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ME;;My mother in-law no go touch my pot Any how oooooooooo

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:23 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 8-07-2011 02:24 PM (12 years ago)
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You see the headache of marriage?
She fit go sef, I take kia of my children alone Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 8-07-2011 02:25 PM (12 years ago)
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She should be grateful that she fed her kids,but...again, some women can't stand other ppl to touch their pots!

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:25 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:26 PM (12 years ago)
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If she wan chop..i go cook and serve her..make she no stress hersef

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 8-07-2011 02:27 PM (12 years ago)
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But in your absence she wait until you come?
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- frayobkk at 8-07-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago)
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this one na woman palava
i pass make una settle una sef here

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-07-2011 02:25 PM
She should be grateful that she fed her kids,but...again, some women can't stand other ppl to touch their pots!


yes ooooooooo

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 8-07-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:23 PM
ME;;My mother in-law no go touch my pot Any how oooooooooo

lol ur not a gud daughter inlaw------------my moda inlaw cook for me each am back home....... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on  8-07-2011 02:27 PM
But in your absence she wait until you come?

i go dish am out..when she hungry..make she microwave am  Grin Grin


Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  8-07-2011 02:29 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:23 PM
ME;;My mother in-law no go touch my pot Any how oooooooooo

lol ur not a gud daughter inlaw------------my moda inlaw cook for me each am back home....... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Till then ooooooooo..abeg ..B4 una crusify me..

me i like to sidan make she cook am for me  Cheesy
i love dem meals

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:32 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 8-07-2011 02:33 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: frayobkk on  8-07-2011 02:28 PM
this one na woman palava
i pass make una settle una sef here
Quote from: divineproject on  8-07-2011 02:06 PM
She is a career woman, married with kids.  She closes by 5pm and heads home shortly after that.  With the traffic logjam in Lagos, she gets home around 7pm to make food for the family.  But on this particular day, she was late in coming home.  It was already 8pm and the kids were already hungry.  The mother-in-law who was staying with them decided to make food for the kids.  Career woman gets home by 9pm and meets her kids already eating.  She asks the house help who gave the kids food. 'Grand ma', she replied.  Career woman gets angry and queried why her mother-in-law should touch her pot of food.  The old woman is embarrassed and wonders what she has done wrong now.
So me too, am wondering what is wrong with what the old woman did?.......why is it dat some married woman are not comfortable with their mothers-in-law going to their pot?

Guys, if your wife behaves this way how would you handle it knowing that a wrong handling would create a big problem between the two women in your life?
Come back hia!
You no see poster ask what you go do if your wif behave so?
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:33 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Na hia u go fear comments naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I love dis Topic..DP thumbs Up..e be like say na d train movement dey give u correct topic o  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 8-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:29 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  8-07-2011 02:25 PM
She should be grateful that she fed her kids,but...again, some women can't stand other ppl to touch their pots!


yes ooooooooo

I guess u're one of them, huh? Grin
I really understand u Wink

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-07-2011 02:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-07-2011 02:34 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:29 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  8-07-2011 02:25 PM
She should be grateful that she fed her kids,but...again, some women can't stand other ppl to touch their pots!


yes ooooooooo

I guess u're one of them, huh? Grin
I really understand u Wink


 Grin Grin When my soup is fresh..no touching..but if the meats and fishes and kanda's
are finished in the pot..anybody can touch my pot.. Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:38 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wandepope at 8-07-2011 02:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:32 PM
Quote from: kebella on  8-07-2011 02:29 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-07-2011 02:23 PM
ME;;My mother in-law no go touch my pot Any how oooooooooo

lol ur not a gud daughter inlaw------------my moda inlaw cook for me each am back home....... Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Till then ooooooooo..abeg ..B4 una crusify me..

me i like to sidan make she cook am for me  Cheesy
i love dem meals
its good you cook your food by yourself ,because one day she will tell her son(your husband )that since she stepped into the house she has been the one cooking for you...and if it is the truth for nigerian man eye youve lost your defence oh
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:38 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jukkiebukwes at 8-07-2011 02:40 PM (12 years ago)
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i dont see whats wrong with that...perhaps d woman and her mother-in-law arent d best of friends
Posted: at 8-07-2011 02:40 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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