Can you persuade your partner to marry you?

Date: 13-07-2011 10:29 am (12 years ago) | Author: Billy Williams
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- at 13-07-2011 10:29 AM (12 years ago)
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A close female colleague of mine told me this.

My boyfriend and I loved each other and have had a fantastic relationship and we are very glad we've found each other. The problem is, he doesn't want to talk abt marriage and each time i brought d issue forth he always frown at it, bt gets mad at me each time he sees me talk with a guy. We've been dating for 7yrs, i was 20 and he was 25 when we started  and now am 27. What do i do? am confused.

If u were me what would be ur advice to her?

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:29 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- tando at 13-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago)
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he's not serious gal, match out. he does not see you as his future wife but as someone to spend time with until he finds his really companion.
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago)
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Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tando at 13-07-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin
that's bullshit. the clock is ticking for her, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz remember that
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago)
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No Way..
What am i still doing in a seven years relationship sef?

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:34 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
She fit don reach Menopause at the Extra 7yrs  Grin Grin Grin Grin
e Wu onye ojoorr

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Hmmm, what i know is that, Not every relationship leads to marriage and as people stay in longer relationship like this, so many ups and downs are always coming around, some of this gives the Men a kinda deja-vu thought on settling down... take it or leave it, some Men are not ready to face that pressure all the time, if the lady is a trouble person, if you're with a man for that long and he's not asking your hand in marriage, Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself a question.. if all is alright with yo.

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:37 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tando on 13-07-2011 10:31 AM
he's not serious gal, match out. he does not see you as his future wife but as someone to spend time with until he finds his really companion.

why re telling her this na? u 4 tell her to come suck Bosom  as she don't know what to do,
this is what always tired me 4 some girls u will know that this person is no going to marry u by his acting,
still u decided to die with him,nonsense
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:37 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tando at 13-07-2011 10:39 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:37 AM
Quote from: tando on 13-07-2011 10:31 AM
he's not serious gal, match out. he does not see you as his future wife but as someone to spend time with until he finds his really companion.

why re telling her this na? u 4 tell her to come suck Bosom  as she don't know what to do,
this is what always tired me 4 some girls u will know that this person is no going to marry u by his acting,
still u decided to die with him,nonsense

dont shoot the messenger
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 10:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:41 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: tando on 13-07-2011 10:34 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin
that's bullshit. the clock is ticking for her, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz remember that


This one sef na Aboki shit  Grin Grin Grin, yah the clock is ticking 4 her and 4 the guy 2, no problem abt that,
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:41 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:44 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

can i come in?
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 10:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:44 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

can i come in?

Sure ..Why not!
but hope what am seeing here is not u..  Grin Grin

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:46 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:48 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:46 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:44 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

can i come in?

Sure ..Why not!
but hope what am seeing here is not u..  Grin Grin


 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:48 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 13-07-2011 10:49 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin
Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:49 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:48 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:46 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:44 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

can i come in?

Sure ..Why not!
but hope what am seeing here is not u..  Grin Grin


 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

e na chi-ochi?
na u dey drive d okada/bycicle?  Grin Grin Grin Grin Answer me

Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:35 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
She fit don reach Menopause at the Extra 7yrs  Grin Grin Grin Grin
e Wu onye ojoorr

no ooo at least by more 7years, two them will be matured  Cool
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:50 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:48 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:46 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:44 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Am 40 looking for a long term reltnshp..Anyone?  Grin Grin Grin

can i come in?

Sure ..Why not!
but hope what am seeing here is not u..  Grin Grin


 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

e na chi-ochi?
na u dey drive d okada/bycicle?  Grin Grin Grin Grin Answer me

na me ooooo, Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tando at 13-07-2011 10:54 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:41 AM
Quote from: tando on 13-07-2011 10:34 AM
Quote from: cyril4christ on 13-07-2011 10:32 AM
Cool down 4 him na, at least give him more 7years maybe his mind will come to it  Grin Grin Grin
that's bullshit. the clock is ticking for her, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz remember that


This one sef na Aboki shit  Grin Grin Grin, yah the clock is ticking 4 her and 4 the guy 2, no problem abt that,
be honest, bro. a man's clock does not tick. a 99 years old man can still get married and have kids. u know now the story. why make it difficult.  Huh?
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:54 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jukkiebukwes at 13-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago)
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guys alwz do dis and i keep asking y? y ar dey so scared of commitment? @32, he's stil doesnt want to define d r/s..she shud better move on with her life. dat they dated 4 7years doesnt mean that they wud propably get married so d earlier she realises dat, d better 4 her.
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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