My boyfriend and I loved each other and have had a fantastic relationship and we are very glad we've found each other. The problem is, he doesn't want to talk abt marriage and each time i brought d issue forth he always frown at it, bt gets mad at me each time he sees me talk with a guy. We've been dating for 7yrs, i was 20 and he was 25 when we started and now am 27. What do i do? am confused.
If u were me what would be ur advice to her?
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:29 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
dirtykid at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Hmmm, what i know is that, Not every relationship leads to marriage and as people stay in longer relationship like this, so many ups and downs are always coming around, some of this gives the Men a kinda deja-vu thought on settling down... take it or leave it, some Men are not ready to face that pressure all the time, if the lady is a trouble person, if you're with a man for that long and he's not asking your hand in marriage, Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself a question.. if all is alright with yo.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:35 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
cyril4christ at 13-07-2011 10:37 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: tando on 13-07-2011 10:31 AM
he's not serious gal, match out. he does not see you as his future wife but as someone to spend time with until he finds his really companion.
why re telling her this na? u 4 tell her to come suck Bosom as she don't know what to do, this is what always tired me 4 some girls u will know that this person is no going to marry u by his acting, still u decided to die with him,nonsense
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:37 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
he's not serious gal, match out. he does not see you as his future wife but as someone to spend time with until he finds his really companion.
why re telling her this na? u 4 tell her to come suck Bosom as she don't know what to do, this is what always tired me 4 some girls u will know that this person is no going to marry u by his acting, still u decided to die with him,nonsense
dont shoot the messenger
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jukkiebukwes at 13-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) (f)
guys alwz do dis and i keep asking y? y ar dey so scared of commitment? @32, he's stil doesnt want to define d r/s..she shud better move on with her life. dat they dated 4 7years doesnt mean that they wud propably get married so d earlier she realises dat, d better 4 her.
Posted: at 13-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac