5 Signs You Are Headed for a Break Up!

Date: 13-07-2011 12:37 pm (12 years ago) | Author: yuki agho
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- at 13-07-2011 12:37 PM (12 years ago)
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 :)Here are some signs of impending breaking up to look for, which may actually save you some heartbreak if you’re prepared beforehand.

1. The Critic Scenario
If you find that you’re bringing out the worst in each other all of sudden and are criticizing each other’s actions, this could be a sure sign that you need to communicate more or that your romance is possibly coming to an end.

2. Dull Conversation
Have you found that you have more silent moments than talkative ones? Do you find yourself dining out and talking about the weather or about random boring topics? It’s great that you’re talking, but does it hold any real depth? If you started off as a couple talking about your hopes, dreams and your future as a couple and are now talking about the forecast for the week and the news a bit too much, there might be one of you that might be heading out. Breaking up is hard to do, but you don’t have to be bored to death as it happens.

3. Enthusiastic or Not
If your partner doesn’t seem interested in hearing about your day like they used to, there might be a problem arising. When enthusiasm is lost, love and interest might be slowly seeping out of the relationship like a deflated balloon. When boredom presents itself within a relationship, there are two options. Fight or flight. Either you fight for the relationship to figure out what’s lacking, or a break up may be rearing its ugly head.

4. Excuses, Excuses, Excuses
When your partner is constantly making an excuse not to be with you, you might want to review your relationship and where you’re at. The majority of the time, two people within a relationship “make” excuses with other people to spend more time with their loved one. If your partner is constantly saying they have to work late, go out with their buddies or stay late at the gym, you might want to talk about it before a breakup smacks you in the face.

5. Makeover Days
Has your partner suddenly changed their clothing style, their hair color or have they undergone an extreme makeover? This could be a sure sign of breaking up. It may appear that your mate wants to impress others and possibly a new interest. Try to approach the conversation calmly and without accusation. It might be a good idea to ask your mate why they’re making so many extreme changes in their appearance, or directly ask them how they feel about you.
 OK pals ...add more below Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:37 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 12:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Ok pals...as usual...ur views and comments re welcomed Cool... Cool
Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 12:40 PM (12 years ago)
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not again Angry

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 12:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 12:40 PM
not again Angry
lol meaning? Tongue isnt this wat romance/rship board is meant for...lol...this is wat pals wanna read here hahahah @Kb hw u dey?
Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:44 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 12:52 PM (12 years ago)
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i dey fine...............how can yu make a breakup post...........yu wan my man to break up with me   Huh? sup! Grin Grin

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago)
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1-2-3-4  Gud..

5... I dont think so

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 12:58 PM (12 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 12:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-07-2011 12:52 PM
i dey fine...............how can yu make a breakup post...........yu wan my man to break up with me   Huh? sup! Grin Grin
No oooo not at all Wink Wink
Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:58 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 12:59 PM (12 years ago)
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 Wink Kiss

Posted: at 13-07-2011 12:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 13-07-2011 01:02 PM (12 years ago)
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ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:02 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 01:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?
Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:04 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 13-07-2011 01:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:04 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?

My darling, wetin I see pass me oo.....if I talk am now, e go be number 6.....so make I just pass before I shoot bird him mama come fly........ Wink Wink

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago)
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S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend".
If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:18 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:04 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?

My darling, wetin I see pass me oo.....if I talk am now, e go be number 6.....so make I just pass before I shoot bird him mama come fly........ Wink Wink
hahahahaha DP...spill it oooo...i wanna hear it Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:22 PM
S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend".
If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.
  Cool
Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 13-07-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:18 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:04 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?

My darling, wetin I see pass me oo.....if I talk am now, e go be number 6.....so make I just pass before I shoot bird him mama come fly........ Wink Wink

dont worry i understand..............so is he showing yu all this signs n' wonders Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin yu better quit on him b4 ........ Lips Sealed

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 13-07-2011 01:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:24 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:18 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:04 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?

My darling, wetin I see pass me oo.....if I talk am now, e go be number 6.....so make I just pass before I shoot bird him mama come fly........ Wink Wink
hahahahaha DP...spill it oooo...i wanna hear it Tongue Tongue

Haaaaaaaaaa :'( :'( :'( :'(......I think say you like me b4............now I know better :'( :'( :'(

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:24 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-07-2011 01:22 PM
S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend".
If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.
  Cool

thx

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:34 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago)
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YUKI>> Break ups can be harsh but they hurt less if you face facts rather than hide from the truth.

Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- yukicares4u at 13-07-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:31 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:24 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:18 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 13-07-2011 01:04 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 13-07-2011 01:02 PM
ahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
DP y re u shocked?

My darling, wetin I see pass me oo.....if I talk am now, e go be number 6.....so make I just pass before I shoot bird him mama come fly........ Wink Wink
hahahahaha DP...spill it oooo...i wanna hear it Tongue Tongue

Haaaaaaaaaa :'( :'( :'( :'(......I think say you like me b4............now I know better :'( :'( :'(
What re friends for...if not to hear eachothers problems...rmber a prob shared is half solved...so holla @ me my dearie Cheesy
Posted: at 13-07-2011 01:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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