5 Important Things You Should Not Be Afraid To Talk About

Date: 20-07-2011 10:46 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Okpreze O. David
- at 20-07-2011 10:46 PM (12 years ago)
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Here are five important issues women should be comfortable talking to their mate about if they want to be happy in their Relationships.
The more free and understanding you both have the better..

 That time of the month: I always joke that men who can vibe with me while I’m on my period, riding the monthly hormone roller coaster is a keeper. He should be aware of any changes within your cycle, if you’re having cramps, don’t be shammed to share that information. Most men tend to be secretive with their health issues but if you set the bar high and encourage open communication with regards to  health, he may feel more comfortable coming to you with these issues.
 Career aspirations: If you want to run for office, tell him about it. If you eventually want to be in a position that may mean you are making more money than your mate, have no shame in your game. The world is yours and if he’s legit he’ll want to be all up in it with you.
 segxwal harassment: I find that so many women withhold this type of information from their mates until a situation escalates. If someone is harassing you at your job or on the street, please don’t keep that a secret from your mate. In fact don’t keep any form of segxwal harassment to yourself period.
 Shortcomings in bed: This will probably be the hardest conversation you can have with a mate, but have it and be gentle. Always let him know what he is doing right first and take it from there.
 segxwal fantasies: If your inner freak-a-leak is dying to come out but he has claimed you as wife-material,wonderful, start sharing the exciting erotica loving side of you and quit holding back! Your bedroom is not a church pulpit, explore each other and don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, even if it’s just talking about the fantasies. Tickle his senses.

Posted: at 20-07-2011 10:46 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- xena15 at 21-07-2011 02:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Oh,just 5???
Ran outta ink anyway.....

Posted: at 21-07-2011 02:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 22-07-2011 02:45 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-07-2011 02:45 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Frb2015 at 22-07-2011 04:05 AM (12 years ago)
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wow this was.... wow Tongue
Posted: at 22-07-2011 04:05 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Steelamazon at 22-07-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago)
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Ok, noted.

Posted: at 22-07-2011 02:28 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Pepesy at 22-07-2011 02:39 PM (12 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 22-07-2011 02:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes

Posted: at 22-07-2011 03:35 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 22-07-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago)
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noted and copied
Posted: at 22-07-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- glossyeng at 22-07-2011 05:09 PM (12 years ago)
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i have heard you.
Posted: at 22-07-2011 05:09 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Chiluvsky at 22-07-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 22-07-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 22-07-2011 05:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: glossyeng on 22-07-2011 05:09 PM
i have heard you.

where have u been all this while

Posted: at 22-07-2011 05:56 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 23-07-2011 10:11 AM (12 years ago)
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ok heard

Posted: at 23-07-2011 10:11 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 23-07-2011 11:09 AM (12 years ago)
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Nice one.
Posted: at 23-07-2011 11:09 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Annana at 23-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 22-07-2011 02:45 AM
Grin Grin

This has nothing to do with your comments, but I can't stand looking at your roasted chicken/ turkey/ whatever it is. Eiikk..
Posted: at 23-07-2011 02:34 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 24-07-2011 02:11 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Annana on 23-07-2011 02:34 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 22-07-2011 02:45 AM
Grin Grin

This has nothing to do with your comments, but I can't stand looking at your roasted chicken/ turkey/ whatever it is. Eiikk..


So what has my roasted Turkey got to do with the 5 Important things you should not be afraid to talk? is my Turkey the number 6 thing ? or are you trying to bite my turkey from afar  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 24-07-2011 02:11 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- laydeelaracraft at 24-07-2011 02:18 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 22-07-2011 05:01 PM
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did dat man survive dat meal sha?
Posted: at 24-07-2011 02:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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