Is IT EASY FOR YOU TO MOVE ON?

Youre very right breaking up is not an easy decision to make anyway i havent really been in any real relationship ( at least to me ), but there one time i was involved with a guy. Anyway he wrote me a letter and broke up with me.I so it coming, so we talked and decided to part ways. I got back home, told my friends and that was it.He said he felt we weren't connecting and that he thought i felt it too and stuffs like that.I did not even shed a single tear and i did not feel moody one bit,I only wondered why i even went into the relationship in the first place ( not that i did not like him, i adored him, though i cant say i loved him ). Whenever i saw him, i felt very uncomfortable and ever since that day i never talked to him but only on two occasions ( like a year later) and it was necessary.I felt bad because everyone thought we made the best match. You wouldn't believe it but he thought i was going to cry and asked someone to check on me.The funniest part is that he was the one who felt horrible after the breakup,i mean it was written all over me. I feel Ive written too much,sorry i was just pouring my heart out. As for me no breakup can leave me in a very bad shape and i suggest that people adopt that attitude because "we make up to break up" but i still believe in true love.

Posted: at 21-12-2008 12:39 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Are u for real? Be friends for what now? That's so typically girlie. u want to eat Ur cake and have it abi? If Ur not together, ur not together. Simple. What's the use holind onto someone U've been deep with (deeper than the casual), if no be say U wan complicate emotins arrange road block for Ur next relationship? Me I no gbadun dis ur talk at all.

It's not easy to move on but it definately WISER to move on. it takes time and in certain cases, U'll probably not forget him/her easily but U've got to.

Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:09 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

then u urself is crazy
of course u can be friends.
unless u wanted to know her just to date her.
if ur friends, u can still be friends

Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:41 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

that just says u were in just for one thing
i would still wanna be friends

Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:45 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

no
u mean that when is all over that means that u guys can't be friends
if u guys can be friends, it would be ok
but if u wanna disappear then u have a ticket go ahead

Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

Breakups occur as a result of INCOMPATIBILITY.
The best thing one can do after is 2 have self-belief and determination to pull through ur emotions.
Most of d time, i don't remain friends with my ex.
If i meet him on d street, i wouldn't take notice of him. I'll walk pass.
I can't stand lies.

Posted: at 24-01-2009 08:54 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

"wouldn't take notice of him?" Now that's a bit too extreme for me and it would kinda imply that I'm being immature. i'm not saying blank the person as a whole o, I only suggested keeping off the person, no be say una no go yarn at all if per chance una paths jam.

Posted: at 24-01-2009 09:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

its not easy to move on when u really love the guy.but u have to so that u will meet the right person.
and i cant be friends with my ex.cos once in love u re always in love.

Posted: at 24-01-2009 09:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero

When u love d person, it will not be easy 2 move on. We can still be friends. True love neva ends, but lettin go is a way of saying I love u....

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Posted: at 25-01-2009 12:11 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok na.....  but brb

Posted: at 25-01-2009 03:44 AM (15 years ago) | Hero