This is a very interesting and tricky question. There cannot be a one line answer for this question. It is very important for a girl to think twice before losing her virginity. Lovemaking between a guy and a girl requires a lot of physical and mental maturity.
First, a girl should answer these questions before making love:
Q. What is right age?
Advice: She should consider her age. Preferably she should be an adult.
Q. Love-Making before marriage or after marriage?
Advice: It is quite tricky question. The best answer is if a girl’s conscious allows her to lose virginity before marriage, there is no issue. After marriage, she has to make love so no arguments.
Q. Is it right or wrong?
Advice: It depends on a girl’s conscious. If she feels right, no issues.
It is very important to consider your age before losing your virginity
Q. What happens after lovemaking?
Advice: Pregnancy. So she must practice safe lovemaking. She must use contraceptives until she is planning a baby.
Q. For pleasure or for love?
Advice: A girl should be able to answer this question very clearly. If it is for pleasure, she must ensure that she knows all the consequences of lovemaking. But if it is for love, she must ensure that she loves the right person.
From my point of view, it is very much necessary for a girl to be physically and mentally matured. She should be able to think the pros and cons of lovemaking. If she has decided to make love, she should make sure that her partner is quite a sensible person. She should have full confidence in her partner. If she finds that her partner is interested only in lovemaking, she should throw away the idea of having sex with him. Because post sex trauma can be very detrimental for a girl. She must ensure that her partner should be capable of providing moral, emotional and mental support to her.
Lovemaking brings a lot of mental pressure if done before marriage. So a girl should be mentally fit to handle all those traumatic situations.
Finally she should decide on these things:
1. She loves a right person.
2. Her partner is capable of providing support.
3. Her partner is caring
4. She knows safe lovemaking.
If she has the entire answers positive, she should go ahead and enjoy lovemaking. Lovemaking is a great gift for all human beings. If she has decided to make love, she should also ensure she has a great lovemaking. It is an art.
So here we go with your comments
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