Sex - Huge Mistakes Men Make In The Bedroom And How You Can Avoid Them: Part 1

Date: 10-11-2011 7:17 am (12 years ago) | Author: James gbudu
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Most men are clueless when it comes to sex and SATISFYING WOMEN. And when I say clueless - I'm not exaggerating.

In this article, I'd like to help you avoid a huge mistake that men make in the bedroom. The mistake I'd like to help you avoid making from now on is...

Asking Your Woman If She Had An Orgasm

You see, here's the thing - women adore men who are masculine, segxwalLY CONFIDENT and really know how to please them in the bedroom. (By the way, I'm talking about less than 1% of men. BUT, rest assured - you can join that elite group if you work on the right things).

These types of men get women all turned on and aching for sex, before they are inside the bedroom. Women can just sense that they know what they are doing and that they are going to give them incredible pleasure.

And "YES" - that means Orgasms. Total body, sheet-wetting orgasms - and lots of them.

Now the really interesting thing is that I've hung out with guys like this (and done a ton of learning from them) and there's something that they and I all agree on. It's a little secret that the average guy just doesn't get.

Do you want to know what it is?

I thought so.

And I'm feeling generous today... so I'll share that segxwal SECRET with you right now.

Here it is...

A man who is good in bed NEVER asks his woman if she had an orgasm. Never.

Now, what you need to know is that there are two major reasons why a great lover never asks his woman if she had an orgasm.

1. He Doesn't Ask Because He Knows His Woman Doesn't Want To Hear It

Remember what I said earlier about women really being drawn to men who are masculine and segxwally confident?

Well, guys who are good in bed know that if they have to ask their woman if she had an ORGASM - it robs them of some of their masculinity and segxwal confidence in their woman's eyes.

Now that would be a very bad thing because with less masculinity and less segxwal confidence, they'd be less segxwally attractive and they'd get less sex.

Not good.

So they don't ask their woman if she had an orgasm.

This leads nicely into the second reason why guys who know how to segxwally satisfy their woman in the bedroom don't ask them if they had an orgasm...

2. He Doesn't Ask Because He Already Knows If She Had An Orgasm Or Not

Seriously, this one is so obvious it's like a punch in the face - YOU CAN'T MISS IT.

A great lover doesn't ask because he already knows.

Most guys are clueless and they HAVE NO IDEA WHEN THEIR WOMAN HAS HAD AN ORGASM - or not as they case may be.

But the great lover can read his woman's body and knows whether or not she has hit the big "O".

Now here's the thing - it is no coincidence that more often than not, the great lover has given his woman an orgasm (and usually more than one). On the other hand, the clueless guys (most guys) are often struggling to give their woman one orgasm, let alone orgasms of the "multiple" kind.


Posted: at 10-11-2011 07:17 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- casmas at 10-11-2011 08:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Do women even ask men if they even enjoyed the sex? Before you satisfy a  woman to orgasm, there must be a smooth and comfortable response from the woman. Woman can not just lay like wood and expect orgasm and if where you are going in and out is not clean i wonder where the support to give orgasm will come from!     
Posted: at 10-11-2011 08:13 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- goodguym at 10-11-2011 09:03 AM (12 years ago)
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Not bad
Posted: at 10-11-2011 09:03 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Steelamazon at 10-11-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago)
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I see! Roll Eyes

Posted: at 10-11-2011 10:53 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 10-11-2011 11:25 AM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy

Posted: at 10-11-2011 11:25 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- drnoel at 10-11-2011 06:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 10-11-2011 01:00 PM
seriously noted

But who says couples don't ask their mates if they had an orgasm. We all know women are professionals in faking it but men have also learnt from women too and fake it. I doesn't matter if u ask your spouse if they had an orgasm. Who ever tells you that can't be more wrong. What matters, is that you understand the person you are with and you guys communicate during sex, literally or telepathically.

Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:47 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- trolling at 10-11-2011 06:51 PM (12 years ago)
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well the problem i had when i was in the world was whenever we did it, they always said they loved me afterwards
Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 10-11-2011 08:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: drnoel on 10-11-2011 06:47 PM
But who says couples don't ask their mates if they had an orgasm. We all know women are professionals in faking it but men have also learnt from women too and fake it. I doesn't matter if u ask your spouse if they had an orgasm. Who ever tells you that can't be more wrong. What matters, is that you understand the person you are with and you guys communicate during sex, literally or telepathically.
i only said seriously noted..this question shld be for the poster.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 08:37 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- ashcrome7 at 28-11-2011 10:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Tongue what the heck...all the women i'v been with have alwayz said in a sexy tone 'I LOVE YOU' after sex in the affirmative...but really there's noffin bad in communicating with your mate in bed,it only makes the sex much more steamy. Kiss
Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- cutelizzy at 28-11-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Am tired of hearng abt sex,na food?
Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Teeteeman at 30-11-2011 04:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 28-11-2011 10:55 PM
Am tired of hearng abt sex,na food?

Dint u see d topics b4 opening to read?? Cool

virgin cutelizzy
Posted: at 30-11-2011 04:30 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- anifel20 at 1-12-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 28-11-2011 10:55 PM
Am tired of hearng abt sex,na food?
I wonder oooo, if na food, na pounded yam and egusi soup? habi na garri and white soup, or maybe oha soup and semo......oooooo yes....amala and ewedu soup even tuowo no come last........
Poster...u get degree for sextology.....
Posted: at 1-12-2011 01:28 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gibsonpally at 1-12-2011 03:28 AM (12 years ago)
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@ poster, do u mean organic sex? Grin Grin
Posted: at 1-12-2011 03:28 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 10-12-2011 05:21 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: gibsonpally on  1-12-2011 03:28 AM
@ poster, do u mean organic sex? Grin Grin
inorganic one...
Posted: at 10-12-2011 05:21 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bristole at 4-05-2012 03:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 28-11-2011 10:55 PM
Am tired of hearng abt sex,na food?
i tire ooooo.sex here,sex there. sex every where... shuuuuuu.wetin de happen sef? nawaoooo
Posted: at 4-05-2012 03:17 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Treasure2 at 4-05-2012 06:17 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 4-05-2012 06:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- mizcollins1 at 6-05-2012 11:34 AM (11 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 6-05-2012 11:34 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cryptoni at 7-05-2012 01:37 PM (11 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 7-05-2012 01:37 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lepabecky at 22-08-2012 09:34 AM (11 years ago)
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ashcrome dat true
Posted: at 22-08-2012 09:34 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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