Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:16 PM (12 years ago)
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I have been very curious about this and possibly each day u hear white people getting a divorce even after several years of Marriage and having Children as well, they still later come up with a plan of divorce, Most of them dont care if they have the man that got them pregnant to father their children or not! Its very alarming that each year, the rate of divorce in the white man's land is so high and rapid. Obviously, the statistical rate of the divorce in the United states and European countries is shocking. But the reasons that normally lead to a divorce is quite unmeritorious, i'm kinda still asking ....Why??...!!!
Here is the Statistics, specifically this is in the United States:
Divorce rate in the United States
In 1998 2.2 million couples married and 1.1 million couples divorced. In 2000 58 million couples were married, yet separated. In 2000 there were over 21 million divorces. People between the ages of 25 to 39 make up 60% of all divorces. Over one million children are affected by divorce each year. Approximately 1/3 of divorced parents remain bitter and hostile several years after the divorce.Divorce rate United States vorce Statistics United States In 1990 the average female age for re-marriage after divorce was 30.6 years; for males, 33.7 years of age.Divorce rate United States In 1990 the average female age for a second divorce was 37.3 years; for males, 40.4 years of age.Divorce rate United States More people are part of second marriages today than first marriages. One-quarter of all Americans have experienced at least one divorce. Divorce rate is generally calculated by comparing the number of divorces with the number of marriages in a given time period. In the United States in 1999 there were 8.4 marriages and 4.2 divorces per 1,000 total population. Divorce rate United States Thus it can be seen that in 1999 there was one divorce for every two marriages in the United States, a "crude" divorce rate of 50%. The Rutgers National Marriage Project (marriage.rutgers.edu) bases their review of divorce trends on the number of marriages per 1000 unmarried women 15 years of age or older, and the number of divorces per 1000 married women in the same age bracket.
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) (m)
I just tire for this their divorce somthing everytime!!!! E dey make me vex when i hear am....you will some playing love in the streets, everywer but the next moment..they are planning for a divorce!!!! i mean...WTF?....na waooooo
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: 1daful on 27-11-2011 05:21 PM
Is their culture blacks are copy cat.
I just tire for this their divorce somthing everytime!!!! E dey make me vex when i hear am....you will some playing love in the streets, everywer but the next moment..they are planning for a divorce!!!! i mean...WTF?....na waooooo
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-11-2011 05:32 PM
Some ppl just don't like to put with nobody' s*it! And I don't know if it's necessary a race stuff lately!
Its not really a race stuff but basically, the rate of divorce in there is too much!! Non of the parents really care about their sacrifices they suffered through till that time, its not knda cool!!! Am not saying there are no divorces in the Africans but u can still see that divorce rate is just way too rapid on the other side of the world....i dont buy the idea of every divorce decision pple make....its weird
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kebella on 27-11-2011 05:37 PM
ur too young to understand..........marriage is not a bed of roses
ehn.....theres nothing too young to understand here jor...ma parents still dey together life till today, so why me go dey with person play love for years then marry and then divorce am for insensitive and inherently immature reasons, i mean come on, theres more to divorce than minor arguments from couples!
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 27-11-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 27-11-2011 05:41 PM
Its not really a race stuff but basically, the rate of divorce in there is too much!! Non of the parents really care about their sacrifices they suffered through till that time, its not knda cool!!! Am not saying there are no divorces in the Africans but u can still see that divorce rate is just way too rapid on the other side of the world....i dont buy the idea of every divorce decision pple make....its weird
You know, ppl change, and sometimes the changes are too much for one to bear,and I believe that it's better to divorce instead of staying and dying slowly! And trust me,if there are children involved, sooner or later they will realize what's happening, and they will suffer too.I know cases where the children were the ones who were begging the mother to divorce, because their house became a hell to live in!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:49 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 27-11-2011 05:43 PM
divorce is not the worst , infidelity is the worst,dat is being married and having sex with different girls,i find it terrible infact horrible
Yep....its very horrible..yeah..some people divorce their husbands bcos they cheated...i mean, wat a reason!!! Thou, many of them have the right to make divorce plans for such reasons, these are things that can be discussed and settled like husband and wife, (family)...Abi forgiveness no dey brain again??....the more divorce, the more infidelity rate also increases na...na so oohh..I learn from my parents joooooorr
Posted: at 27-11-2011 05:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 27-11-2011 06:06 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 27-11-2011 05:49 PM
You know, ppl change, and sometimes the changes are too much for one to bear,and I believe that it's better to divorce instead of staying and dying slowly! And trust me,if there are children involved, sooner or later they will realize what's happening, and they will suffer too.I know cases where the children were the ones who were begging the mother to divorce, because their house became a hell to live in!
yep..i see wats on ur mind!! But, there are couples that just seperated not really divorced....maybe as the result of the high and indefinite change! Children begging their parents to divorce are children that will also divorce their wives or husbands at every slight mistake they make, its not what children are suppose to learn.....!! Some parents have been married and had children for years and the husbands behave in a very annoying and disgusting way...but still, most parents tend to live in endurance and in most situations like that there are very positive changes and very good changes too that brings motivation and even more love after some time of pain, PRAYER is something we take very unseriously in these things!!! This thing called ''MARRIAGE'' IS VERY DELICATE, apparently most people don take it serious and decide to poke nose, at the end of the day...they are having a divorce or they get maltreated and abused, or they get killed instead, people just like testing marraige and somhow they cant survive it, thats y they get divorces but if these were usually taken seriously, i think everyone would meet som1 and live with without divorce plans!!!
ANYWAY ...MOST of them white people i have met dont believe in God so somhow i think thats why!!
Posted: at 27-11-2011 06:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 27-11-2011 06:18 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 27-11-2011 06:06 PM
yep..i see wats on ur mind!! But, there are couples that just seperated not really divorced....maybe as the result of the high and indefinite change! Children begging their parents to divorce are children that will also divorce their wives or husbands at every slight mistake they make, its not what children are suppose to learn.....!! Some parents have been married and had children for years and the husbands behave in a very annoying and disgusting way...but still, most parents tend to live in endurance and in most situations like that there are very positive changes and very good changes too that brings motivation and even more love after some time of pain, PRAYER is something we take very unseriously in these things!!! This thing called ''MARRIAGE'' IS VERY DELICATE, apparently most people don take it serious and decide to poke nose, at the end of the day...they are having a divorce or they get maltreated and abused, or they get killed instead, people just like testing marraige and somhow they cant survive it, thats y they get divorces but if these were usually taken seriously, i think everyone would meet som1 and live with without divorce plans!!!
ANYWAY ...MOST of them white people i have met dont believe in God so somhow i think thats why!!
No,I don't agree! Staying and enduring all kind of abuses with the hope that he'll come to his senses, it's like condemning yourself to a life of misery! And I repeat, the kids will suffer, too,and most of them will suffer psychological disorders in the future! It's not an option! If a person doesn't want to change, he'll never do it,no matter how much the other person will try to bring him to his senses.
Live and let live!
Posted: at 27-11-2011 06:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
donspirado88 at 27-11-2011 07:41 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 27-11-2011 05:43 PM
divorce is not the worst , infidelity is the worst,dat is being married and having sex with different girls,i find it terrible infact horrible
Marriage is not always a bed of roses... It's ups/down thing! For a married man or woman to be having an affair is quite bad but that shouldn't lead to eternal damage called "DIVORCE". As much as i dislike cheating...; I so much hate this word "divorce" bcos its middle name is "destruction/hatred/suffering". There're better ways of settling some family issues than a suite for divorce. As for the white people, They don't really care about anything especially the moral upright of their future children...**Its kinda selfish & careless attitude they got** It's their believe to marry today and get divorce tomorrow. They don't care about the psychological trauma that is gonna cause their children. They never sacrifice anything for their children. They Just focused on their emotions, forgetting about their children well being. Back to my continent Africa, they're just emulating those sh*t from the West thinking it's the way. As at 90s, i can only hear husband and wife quarrel and later settle but now, some Africans who think they're wise and has gotten the western life has brought damage, destruction, suffering and ungodly things into the land... like immediate Divorce, Skimpy clothes, Legalization of Prostitution, Pornographic movie Industries....all in the name of Western life. NOTE IMPORTANTLY: The European eyes are on us Africans because we've a lot of things they don't have,... So why should we emulate some ungodly things coming from there. Let's be very careful and never to "DIVORCE" no matter the problem in marriage. Only God that has a key to every problem. Talk to him!!!
Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
People all over the world ( especially Americans and Europeans) have forgotten about God's word and laws that is why cheating and divorce are normal things there... Songs and videos of temtations, X-Files, legal (allowed/approved by government ) geys' and lesbians' marriages are coming from there... DEVIL@WORK... :'(
Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:43 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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