i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 06:46 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Beautydiva at 17-01-2009 06:58 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Despite being scared, do u really want 2 have 'it'. Follow ur mind & do wot u feel is best 4 u.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 06:58 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
well, u just hav to face ur worst fears somtimes
anytime u feel lyke its tyme to do it, make sure he uses a condom
2.0.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 08:55 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
There's a lot of ways U could get her to feel the desire in U to make things more personal between the both of U like U want, if U can just be (and act) a little more confident, U'll succeed in transfering that same urge into her by Ur mannerisms around her. With that, U won't have to say much. Don't ask a girl out. Grant her "her" desire to be Ur girl. It's all in Ur works guy. Hope U understand me.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 09:21 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 17-01-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago) (f)
he did not read it.he only glanced at it. my dear u re still too young for wat u re getting involved into.just wait a little longer,if the guy loves u he will wait for u. cos its worth waiting for.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 10:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
gen2esther at 17-01-2009 11:15 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Do not allow any guy to convince you to doing what u're not ready for, try and explain to him ur reasons of not wanting to have sex with him now, if he cares for u, he'll be reasonable.
Posted: at 17-01-2009 11:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
gal,pals b4 me has said it all........if u r scard then ma dear DON'T.anyway u alone knows wats good 4 u so decide.............GOOD LUCK AS U MAKE D CHOICE
Posted: at 18-01-2009 01:04 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
i am a young lady, 18yrs of Age, i have a a guy i am really in luv with, we have being dating for 3 yrs now and during those yrs he has never asked for sex, On a good day while we were discussing he asked me for sex, i told him i was scared, because i have never had the experience but i am really in luv with him and i am not ready to lose him at the same time i don't want start using deadly pills that will damage my womb because of the feelings i have now or have STD. pls i need your advice on want to do.
dat means u r willing succumb to ur guys wishes...only dat u r scared. if u hv made up ur mind....can't advice u on how not to be scared. but if he really loves u...he will wait for u till u ready.
Posted: at 18-01-2009 04:03 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
digitalman at 18-01-2009 04:12 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: onchedu on 17-01-2009 09:21 PM
There's a lot of ways U could get her to feel the desire in U to make things more personal between the both of U like U want, if U can just be (and act) a little more confident, U'll succeed in transfering that same urge into her by Ur mannerisms around her. With that, U won't have to say much. Don't ask a girl out. Grant her "her" desire to be Ur girl. It's all in Ur works guy. Hope U understand me.
are u alright
Posted: at 18-01-2009 04:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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