electraa at 17-12-2011 02:09 PM (12 years ago) (f) Strange Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:09 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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bolajit at 17-12-2011 02:36 PM (12 years ago) (m) Well course it is the culture so he has no choice but it is very bad and satanic Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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pierre1 at 17-12-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago) (m) OLD THING S HAS PASS WAY Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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FinlandGuy at 17-12-2011 02:52 PM (12 years ago) (m) Guys,i am a confirmed Ibo man but this tradition is Awkward and unholy to my faith as a christian.How can a man be forced to marry a her death Girl friend.When they were having sex,both parties was enjoying it.Is it because it has now landed to death along the process.
The parents of the girl would have said that the guy will bury the girl or will be responsible for her burial ceremony and not to force him to marry the death girl,it will only expose and create more awareness to the entire town to know the cause of the girls death.
How can the entire village gathered together eating,drinking,perhaps playing music as being done in traditional marriage,if a passerby asked what is happening and someone will him or her that they are doing traditional marriage of a death girl,this is total madness.
The family of the girl is useless,they are putting more peper to the injury and painting the name of their family red on this decision.Lets us assume that it was the guy that died,would they say that the girl should marry the guy? Or lets say that the girl was killed by a car,would they say that the driver will marry dead corpse of the girl?
Like as one the Chief said "Eze Christian Nwachukwu said the practice of marrying the dead in Igboland was in the past, but these days, it depends on the family of the deceased who can insist on such demand." So the Family of the girl is stupid for insisting on this demand.
How would collect the money for the bride of their Daughter,which mouth will they use to drink the palm wine and eat the kola nuts.What will it profit them,how can they invite their friends,and business partners that their dead daughter is doing traditional marriage.Will the marriage bring her back to Life?
After the marriage ceremony, where will this girl be buried? Buried in her fathers compound? or taken to the guys home? Or thrown inside forest like someone who never have exist?
Infact If i were this guy,i will NEVER MARRY a dead corpse,instead let me serve the jail term,after all the death wasn't intentional,it is an accident and all die be die.
I just dey verse now!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:52 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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God punish devil!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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OZZY20 at 17-12-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago) (m) ALL YE FORNICATORS¡¡¡ WHY COMMENT AGAINST THIS TRADDITION? GIVE TO CESAR WAT BELONGS TO CESAR AND GIVE TO GOD WAT BELONGS TO GOD,BEHOLD IT IS WRITTEN,SHEKINA. Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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FinlandGuy at 17-12-2011 02:55 PM (12 years ago) (m) Infact If i were this guy,i will NEVER MARRY a dead corpse,instead let me serve the jail term,after all the death wasn't intentional,it an accident and if she was my sister,i will never allow the guy to marry her dead corpse or support my family if they raise such motion,i will put confusion,all die be die. Peace !!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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take it easy oo Posted: at 17-12-2011 02:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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FinlandGuy at 17-12-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) (m) Guys,i am a confirmed Ibo man but this tradition is Awkward and unholy to my faith as a christian.How can a man be forced to marry a her death Girl friend.When they were having sex,both parties was enjoying it.Is it because it has now landed to death along the process.
The parents of the girl would have said that the guy will bury the girl or will be responsible for her burial ceremony and not to force him to marry the death girl,it will only expose and create more awareness to the entire town to know the cause of the girls death.
How can the entire village gathered together eating,drinking,perhaps playing music as being done in traditional marriage,if a passerby asked what is happening and someone will him or her that they are doing traditional marriage of a death girl,this is total madness.
The family of the girl is useless,they are putting more peper to the injury and painting the name of their family red on this decision.Lets us assume that it was the guy that died,would they say that the girl should marry the guy? Or lets say that the girl was killed by a car,would they say that the driver will marry dead corpse of the girl?
Like as one the Chief said "Eze Christian Nwachukwu said the practice of marrying the dead in Igboland was in the past, but these days, it depends on the family of the deceased who can insist on such demand." So the Family of the girl is stupid for insisting on this demand.
How would collect the money for the bride of their Daughter,which mouth will they use to drink the palm wine and eat the kola nuts.What will it profit them,how can they invite their friends,and business partners that their dead daughter is doing traditional marriage.Will the marriage bring her back to Life?
After the marriage ceremony, where will this girl be buried? Buried in her fathers compound? or taken to the guys home? Or thrown inside forest like someone who never have exist?
Infact If i were this guy,i will NEVER MARRY a dead corpse,instead let me serve the jail term,after all the death wasn't intentional,it an accident and if she was my sister,i will never allow the guy to marry her dead corpse or support my family if they raise such motion,i will put confusion,all die be die. Peace !!!
I just dey verse now!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 03:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Jonso at 17-12-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago) (m) First of all God is not the GOD OF the DEAD but of the LIVING. Secondly marrying to a DEAD PERSON means that you cannot remarry because you are not DIVORCE (biblically) and even if you go and DIVORCE you have adultery hanging on your head. Who in her right mind is going to marry to divorcee when the bible let us to know that it comes with CURSES. He is marrying this girl as if she is ALIVE and not as if SHE IS DEAD.
So to the LAW he is marrying a LIFE PERSON. Jesus told us about CULTURE and how it goes against GOD COMMANDMENT, STATUTES and JUDGMENTS. Mark 7 It is time persons stop following CULTURE in order for them to have LIFE and receive in TRUTH from our Heavenly Father. He doesn't want to face the COURT unless he know that he is the one who KILL this LADY.
Persons nowadays will SACRIFICE their every own in RITUALS just to get RICH. Anyway there will be girls out there who doesn't care and will marry him because he will become RICH. Those girls who love LUXURIES will be there for him. Hugs and blessings
I think you have lost the plot. Posted: at 17-12-2011 03:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Jonso at 17-12-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) (m) This is a traditional marriage and not a church one. Posted: at 17-12-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Beklas at 17-12-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) (f) rubbish Posted: at 17-12-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Chiveron at 17-12-2011 03:43 PM (12 years ago) (f) in my own town i,ve not heard or seen a man forced to marry a corpse,, this eze ndi igbo must be an evil person for supporting such evil act..............but its an abomination. Posted: at 17-12-2011 03:43 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Dan_Fulani at 17-12-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago) (m) This is a traditional marriage and not a church one.
I wish someone here can explain why such tradition exist. Why can't the woman get buried without this marriage? Some cultures in Nigeria have traditions and practices that are complex and difficult to understand.
The chief did say that practice exist but he did not explain the reason for it. Is there anyone here who is brave enough to explain the history and reason for this practice.
dan fulani Posted: at 17-12-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kebella at 17-12-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago) (f) Dan fun have spoken
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Bahceerat at 17-12-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago) (f) no be small lolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll o, well sha may God help him o. pls upload the guy's picture, na beg i dey beg o Posted: at 17-12-2011 05:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kebella at 17-12-2011 05:06 PM (12 years ago) (f) yu no fall his victim
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 05:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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chrisfab at 17-12-2011 05:40 PM (12 years ago) (m) Igbo kwenu! Iya! Posted: at 17-12-2011 05:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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kebella at 17-12-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 17-12-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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damn the fcuking tradition .......devilish act Mind ur tongue...dats wat u get wen u refuse to follow due process or should he have left the girl after it was confirmed dat she died in his hand? Lets try and be reasonable pls. Posted: at 17-12-2011 05:51 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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